Other - Family & Relationships - 22 October 2006

We dated for two years and talked about marriage. We saw each other every day and I thought we were best friends. He told me every day that I was the only girl for him, that he loved me all of his heart, and that he would never leave me. He dumped me over the phone while he was on vacation in a 20 min. conversation. He said he would call me when he got back home. It has been 2 months and I know he is home, he still has not contacted me. I am smart, very attractive, nice, and loving. I treated him and his family very well. I did everything I could to make him happy. I just do not understand. How can someone do that to another person? I am not perfect but I do know that I did not deserve to be treated this way. Should I try to contact him to get closure? Am I crazy to still be depressed about this guy? I try to let it go and forget, but I can't. There are so many questions in my head about what went wrong. I feel so rejected and confused. Help me!

2006-10-22 23:58:30 · 8 answers · asked by tanglo02 2

Me and my boyfriend make love more or less everytime he comes round or i go to his, but couple days ago i didnt feel like it and now he wont stop moaning about it.

2006-10-22 23:48:43 · 29 answers · asked by G F 1

2006-10-22 23:45:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-22 23:39:15 · 8 answers · asked by ##spyker## 1

bsides havana nights n step up. tq

2006-10-22 23:35:33 · 4 answers · asked by zxcv 3

Would they behave differently towards you?

Would using your name in a txt be a sign?

2006-10-22 23:31:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I HAVE BEEN IN THIS RELATIONSHIP GOING ON THREE YEARS AND MY SON PASSED RECEANTLT FROM SIDS AND ALL IN ONE MOTION HIS FATHER SAID THAT HE DONT WONT TO BE WITH ME NO MORE BECAUSE I DONT TREAT HIS KIDS LIKE I TREAT MINE AND I FIND THIS BELIEVEABLE BUT I LOVE HIM AND IM WILLING TO DO WHAT EVER TO BE WITH WITH HIM WHAT SHOULD I DO ITS LIKE HE WONT BUDGE SHOULD I WAIT OR SHOULD I MOVE ON HE CALLS FROM TIME TO TIME AND SAY THAT HE LOVE ME SO DO THIS MEAN THAT IT CAN WORK JUST GIVE IT SOME TIME OR THAT I LOVE YOU BUT ITS OVER THE LAST COUPLE OF MONTHS I HAVE BEEN LONLEY AND I DONT WONT TO BE WITH ANOTHER MAN I WONT TO BE WITH MY MAN AND OUR KIDS I THINK THE WHOLE PROMBLEM WAS THAT I WAS STILL A KID NOT YET A WOMAN NOW I AM READY TO TAKE ON THE RESPONSIBILITY OF A FAMILY HOW SHOULD I APPROACH HIM AND LET HIM KNOW HOW I FEEL

2006-10-22 23:29:27 · 2 answers · asked by KASSIE G 2

Okay, I know she's a pensioner but it must have cost her more to post the cheap plastic keyring that it did to buy it. She works in a charity shop and often buys us really awful presents. We always chuck them away, say thank you and try to appreciate the thought. However, there clearly is no thought in this birthday present. I'd rather she didn't waste her money. How do I tell her this without causing offence? By the way, she buys her other grandaughter my niece,things like dolls and remote controlled robots. She is hampered by having to pay postage. Her presents are now getting insulting in their cheapness, especially as I know she is passing money to my brother, who has a drug habit. I'd rather she just didn't bother anymore. By the way, I am generous - always giving her money. She also works part time.

2006-10-22 23:29:09 · 17 answers · asked by True Blue Brit 7

After the birth of our daughter my fiance started chattin to girls on the net, getting very friendly and def very personel with them. i forgave him and he promised never to do it again, since then he has done it 3 more times. the latest being my best friend he tried it on with. he denys everything but i have seen the emails and text for myself. this really hurt me and on a night out i kissed someone. now he is making me out to be the biggest tart in town, ive had to stop seeing my best friend and now he has said i have to move away from my home town to have a chance with him. which i have said ill do. should he still be crucifying me after what hes done to me?

2006-10-22 23:27:26 · 11 answers · asked by Paula C 1

The first year i was with my boyfriend he was amazing, brought me out of myself, took care of me, we had a connection i'd never known before. but now! i step out of it and i think he's damaging me. because of what we built up the first year i stay, because i do love him. but its different, he blames me for everything. he played a sad song that upset me, and then said that i was messing him around by not telling him why i was upset right away, that i always do it, that i never change. at this point, nothing i say will stop him being pissed. he was pissed for two days. and he'd upset me!!! he says it's my fault we cant share anymore because when he asks me why i'm upset i dont answer, so we cant. he used to say that i was a wonderful, sexy, loving, unselfish woman, now he says he can 'see i'm a kind person underneath it all' but i have alot to give the right man. i'm quite giving, but he says i take all the time.

2006-10-22 23:22:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-22 23:18:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just after I broke up from my lover within the last 14 days I heard "Lonely" by Akon. This now is the one that fits how I feel about this situation. What I want to know is what song meant a lot to you after you had a break up?

2006-10-22 23:09:53 · 33 answers · asked by tunisianboy46 5

i have a boy friend age 50 i am 30 we break of because he lier to me first i think he want my money at last i find out he did not want my money i want to be fair to him because i lost my virgin to my first boy friend he is second i know him for 3 year my family member think he want my money he earn 1 k i earn 2 k a month i know his H/P no should i sms him because i miss him a lot and he love me 2 what should i do ? help me please i am lost

2006-10-22 23:07:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

plz say an example

2006-10-22 23:05:15 · 15 answers · asked by Rezvan -HEAVEN 1

This morning she texts me saying "Her friend didn't text her bout an exam in uni which was 25% last thursday" So i said Thats why you should go in isn't it baby!
She then says **** off your just as bad, wish everyone wud stop interferin in my life, i then say its true baby just telling you why it happened. Her Reply... "OH coz your perfect aren't u.. i bet you i get better results than you, your meant to support me not act all sneidy i was ill wasn't i..
I say Don't take it out on me hunni, im not sayin im better than u just tryin to support u by tellin you why u missed the exam...
Now she doesn't want me coming round tonight cos she knows why she missed the test
WHO's IN THE WRONG HERE ME OR HERE???!!!

2006-10-22 23:02:03 · 9 answers · asked by Mat T 1

2006-10-22 22:52:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wanna phone my man all the time lately, I dont know why but he's made me feel kind of desperate and lonely. I was an independent woman, he wanted me to need him and now I do, I'm not happy. I broke down all these walls (I have been hurt) and I do love him tons. Because we used to be happy, I did all this for him. I'd do loads for the man i love. he says that I take all the time, because i didn't move to another country for him, I stopped us sharing, I did this and I did that, when I am doing everything for him. he says if i dont go we would regret it forever, that we have the best thing, meant to be together. but i dont feel like he's there when i need him, just little things, but he doesn't do them. I told him I really wanted a birthday card, or a letter cos I never had anything he wrote by hand. just bought things like roses that have cards writen by someone. just feel appreciated. but he says i caused problems by not being there. that his heart is open for me and i hurt him.

2006-10-22 22:50:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-22 22:42:50 · 13 answers · asked by rishitishi 1

2006-10-22 22:42:38 · 5 answers · asked by sugarnspice 1

its about family matters!

2006-10-22 22:34:35 · 7 answers · asked by chin mei! 1

I have so many things in my mind but I can't find a way on how I can let it all out to everyone concerned.

2006-10-22 22:24:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anna 2

Law

2006-10-22 22:14:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently, my husband ask his daughters age 13&12 to help him clean up the living room.They refuse and went to their room.My husband then went to their room and told them again to come help clean up or else they can stay in their room and only come out to eat.They did not like this so they called their mom and she came to pick them up.When she came, she was told by my husband that just because they didn't want to help clean the mess they help made that they shouldn't just leave.He told her that if that's how it is at her place then fine but it's not it works here.As the result the kids left with there mom.She then called the next day and yelled at my husband saying that he was mistreating them.They stayed with their mom for about 2month.Their mom called me after a month and said that my husband should have just pick up the kids without waiting for them to call.I told her that the kids were told enough to know what to do.They need to listen to their dad. She hang up the phone.

2006-10-22 22:14:22 · 8 answers · asked by stepmom 1

imet the love of my life while on hoildays, we realy fell 4 each other we spent every day with each other, now he is gone home and iam still on hoildays 4 another 3months but we swore that we will c each other again even tho he lives in adifferent country than me but ihave aproblem iam pregrant,should itell him or just leave him 2live his life ihave already ruined mine, ilike him 2much 2 do the same 2him we dont no each other that well 2 have achild 2gether or should itell him. he is 22 iam 19

2006-10-22 22:07:00 · 6 answers · asked by cruise girl 1

but she's a really good mate of mine and she has a boyfriend

2006-10-22 22:05:14 · 18 answers · asked by Ed 1

Where I work, there are some Asians (mostly Chinese). I noticed there are two types. One type is short and the other type is really tall.

For instance, there is this one Chinese lady who is the tallest lady there. They had to put two bricks on each leg of her desk for it to be high enough for her.

The tall ones usually have large frames but are very slim and have very light skin. Are they from different regions of China?

2006-10-22 21:53:12 · 8 answers · asked by rectar 1

I understand men are raped as well.

But woman always seem to be the victims. I don't understand like if someone trys to rape you, kick him do something don't give up. Woman should start taking some Karate classes or something. Because it's getting sad hearing this storys, where woman in other country not in just the USA are being abused.

2006-10-22 21:51:47 · 20 answers · asked by Questions 3

my boyfriend loves me very much and i love him more, problem is "he don't trust me". how can you love the person if you don't trust each other right? he always think that i'm still dating other guys, but i'm not, i'm a one man woman.... i hate when he says "are you with another guy?"...... dah?

2006-10-22 21:50:51 · 8 answers · asked by pisces09 1

what do u do when u lost a postive situation?
what do u do when u lost a great potential for having a meaningful relatioship, just awesome, and now its not possible anymore... what do u do to make urself happy and whole and feel better? what do u do next???

2006-10-22 21:46:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i talk to my exs and i dont know how taht is really holding with my man

2006-10-22 21:36:56 · 5 answers · asked by Cathrin Sinclair 1