Other - Family & Relationships - 22 October 2006

Okay I'm 2 months pregnant and 17 years old..My is really confusing me one min he's all happy then yesterday he was like man we not ready for a baby I know i'm not ready but I'm not getting and abortion he said i need to what if we don't be together I said well i'm going to raise the baby with or without you. Then he had the nerves to say if you love me you would I said you know i love you but no. I feel also if he don't have any consideration in my feelings and I haven't talk to him today I just want to know what should I do. Have the the baby and leave him alone or what.

2006-10-22 13:58:37 · 34 answers · asked by Scooby_doo06 3

2006-10-22 13:58:21 · 7 answers · asked by losman762003 1

2006-10-22 13:57:36 · 10 answers · asked by losman762003 1

2006-10-22 13:46:45 · 2 answers · asked by mariam m 1

My mother just said I am "sick in the brain" because staying on the computer for long periods of time. She also said I need "psychological help". Hearing all that stuff hurt my feelings.

(The only reason I spend long periods is because I'm bored. So I play games, watch videos etc. on the computer)

2006-10-22 13:39:18 · 12 answers · asked by sweety 3

My upstairs neighbor has a mental problem. One minute she is happy and before you know it she is cursing you out. We have gotten into little spats about things she has done but thats not the real problem. Some stupid parent has left their little boy with her and all he does is cry. She is always yelling at him and very mean. The little boy should not have to be left with such a person. What should I do if anything? I feel so sorry for that boy. We have to duck just walking out of our house because she throws things off her pourch. I tried to tell the land lord but he's a slum lord!

2006-10-22 13:39:15 · 5 answers · asked by roach killer 2

How about angry or defensive?
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2006-10-22 13:37:19 · 3 answers · asked by ★Greed★ 7

2006-10-22 13:37:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My BF has a history of calling chatlines and sends and recieves txt msg. that are of nude nature. Also has history of porn addiction. Even seen his profile on a personals website. Am I being a jealous girlfriend or a cautious one.What should I do? hes 32 and I'm 27 we also have a 4 month old together

2006-10-22 13:36:45 · 18 answers · asked by tiffany 2

If a guy has recently cheated, will he act different to his spouse ( defensive and aggressive towards her and not hugging her and kissing her) ??

2006-10-22 13:34:28 · 14 answers · asked by Tanya G 2

I am searching for my sister...I was raised by a mother who had a few children and my sister was one of the children who had been given away. I long to meet her again...she lived in Philly and was raised by an a couple who did not have children of their own...the women eventually died in a fire and I dont know what ever happened to the husband....any way Pat's Laudermat should be familiar to Neicy....She would be around 40-45 years old. I have more details for the right track given....Peace

2006-10-22 13:33:49 · 1 answers · asked by firstladynfm 2

I doubt anyone could figure out that question but it's worth a shot I guess. It bugs me so bad but I can't ever find a solution or understand why. It seems like no matter what you do, all of those popular kids find a way to drag you and make you feel terrible! I just don't get why they're like that...

2006-10-22 13:28:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I have a best friend. She is getting really close with my boyfriend. We are only 13 so nothing is going on thats too bad. But she used to liek him. Ever since i started getting mad about it she has claimed to have stopped liking him but i doubt it. She constantly tells me that i hang out with other people too much but wheever she is uptown she invites my boyfriend before me. Im starting to wonder. We fight about it constanty because he stays the night at her house after school dances and they are together more than me and him. I HATE IT! She keeps saying i should trust her but i have asked her to back off and she says shes trying but everytime i ask her to she seems to hang out with her more. I think it might be just to make me mad, but she has taken boyfriends from me before and i didnt care about them as much as i care about my current boyfriend! Me and him have talked and he claims shes a friend. I trust him but i dont trust her. I need to know what to do!!!!

2006-10-22 13:25:34 · 8 answers · asked by not_another_pretty_face 1

What makes it good or bad? Trust or lack of trust? Open communication or poor communication? Dealing fairly with finances or financial problems? Special friendship or lack of relationship? What makes yours good or bad?

2006-10-22 13:25:28 · 4 answers · asked by malrog1 1

i had a abortion this year in jan. with an ex and now im with my boyfriend who i really care about and i was thinking about telling him but i dont want him to know... but i dont wantthis to backfire on me at any point in our relationship. what do you think?? thanx n only serious answers only or i will report you.... thanx again

2006-10-22 13:20:38 · 15 answers · asked by pisces_dreamer06 2

2006-10-22 13:20:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can i tell if my husband is lying about the precum. ive had a lot of suspicions of him cheatin( like different strands of hair in his car< he leaves me when we get in an argument and comes home 2 to 3 days later & etc.) i just wanna know the things guys do when they are cheating??

2006-10-22 13:03:44 · 6 answers · asked by Tanya G 2

I'm in love with my bf, but the thing is, my friends dont really trust him and neither does my mom, I feel like everyone I love is going against me...
Here's what's happening::
My bf is moving away for a year to Louisiana and that means I wont see him for that long...
Should I move on like my friends and family wants me to? Or should I stay by my man...?
I'm so lost and I haven't had any good luck recently to help ease me at all...
(I've caught the flu, my dog ran away, my bf hasn't visited me yet, my loved ones want me to break, ect...)
Please help...

2006-10-22 12:58:55 · 3 answers · asked by La Reina 3

I want my woman here and I can't wait to win the lottery so I can take her shopping every day.

2006-10-22 12:56:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

like we go to this teenage night thing and we will be hangin out then he leaves and talks to these girls? am i just at the point of arparanoide or is it i just need to chill and lay back and be happy hes with me?

2006-10-22 12:50:58 · 19 answers · asked by ashley m 1

2006-10-22 12:48:34 · 5 answers · asked by losman762003 1

me and my bf broke up and know im going out with my best friends brother.my ex keeps comeing around trying to get a second chance. and i tell me no.he emails me,calls me,talks to me alot.but kinda still like him but i with someone that i like alot.what should i do?

2006-10-22 12:46:57 · 10 answers · asked by buble c 1

how do u no a guy likes u ?? there is this guy that usto like me and i usto like him but now i dont like him anymore but im not shure if he still likes me :S

2006-10-22 12:45:17 · 8 answers · asked by thalia b 1

Suppose if you and this boy been liking each other 4 the longest time.But ya'll went 2gether before but ya'll still love each other and want 2 go back with each other.Then ur best friend knows him cuz they were friends 4 a long time.So suppose that 1 day u went 2 a game at a high school and u saw the boy there and he saw u 2.But he was talkin 2 ur best friend then u notice that there lookin at u.So ur calls u late that night at home and tells u some sexy things that the boy have been saying about u.Would u believe it or not??

2006-10-22 12:42:05 · 6 answers · asked by Cookie 2

A very valid point was made to my question about buying my sister a car (if you missed it, please refer back to my questions to read details) that is "Do try to make her feel that you appreciate her, and not belittling her with charity"

The question then begins "How do you offer someone something they need very badly, without hurting their feelings as if they aren't capable, when you know they aren't capable?"

(that sounded confusing, no?)

2006-10-22 12:38:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex is treating me hot and cold but I KNOW he cares deeply for me.

Is it possible for a man to love a woman yet treat her coldly and reluctantly?

For example because in his mind he is scared of getting back into it. Scared and worried of letting her down, of it not working out again. Scared of his own strong feelings and getting hurt. Is it possible for feelings to be so overwhelming that it is easier to avoid the person and situation than confronting it??
Have you ever felt like this or do I need to wake up and smell the coffee???

Genuine answers really appreciated.

2006-10-22 12:38:46 · 12 answers · asked by wild_and_strong45 1

I've been trying to make sure that I look ok when I go to school (so girls think I'm cool and "hot"). Do I need to start doing this yet? When should I start? (High School, College?) Any other advice?

Thanks!

2006-10-22 12:32:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

The other woman wanted him to let her come over and spend the night so that she could sabotage his relationship with me. He didn't know that when she called him to ask if she could stay with him for the night that she had a place to stay and that she really didn't need to stay at his place. He finally realized it the next morning that she had planned to sabotagege his relationship and it was to late. By the way she didn't stay the whole night just long enough to try and break us up. Now we need to get the relationship back on track before she interferred with us. Any suggestions. We love each other very much.

2006-10-22 12:29:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, this may sound smutty, but it's actually a serious question...
I read a question earlier about tightness vs looseness...
I do all the pelvic floor exercises and all but i have had a child and want to make the most of myself in every department... Are there any "toys" anyone can suggest for tightening the pelvic muscles...
I'm determined that when I do find the right person, I'm gonna make s3x the most amazing experience of their lives!!!

2006-10-22 12:26:47 · 13 answers · asked by KJA 3

My sister is such a great encouragement to my life and family and we are really close. She's kinda poor, but she does okay for herself and kids, and her car has been breaking down a lot. The thing is, I want to surprise her and buy her a good car (espcially since winter is comming) Do you think I should buy her used or new? New cars are really not that expensive, especially if you don't get ALL the options. Do you think she'll accept the gift of a car or is that too much?

I've never bought anyone in my family a car before, but no one has ever needed it as bad as she does.

2006-10-22 12:24:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous