The other woman wanted him to let her come over and spend the night so that she could sabotage his relationship with me. He didn't know that when she called him to ask if she could stay with him for the night that she had a place to stay and that she really didn't need to stay at his place. He finally realized it the next morning that she had planned to sabotagege his relationship and it was to late. By the way she didn't stay the whole night just long enough to try and break us up. Now we need to get the relationship back on track before she interferred with us. Any suggestions. We love each other very much.
2006-10-22 12:29:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he didn't do anything and his part in this is as innocent as you've stated, then the only interference in this relationship is what you are going to bring into it because of what she tried to do. It's silly to get mad at him for something someone else has done or to let that be an obstacle.
I am usually a very nice guy and have been slow on the uptake when it has come to girls/women trying to make the moves on me. Any time I've had a girlfriend my only interest has been in her, so I've always been oblivious to other females showing any interest in me, especially during those times. So I've had moments when a girl has been coming on to me but I just didn't know it, and I'd be acting nice to her but just because I'm a nice guy and nothing more.
2006-10-22 12:45:51 · answer #1 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I think you should come to an conclusion that will never happen again. If you want the relationship to work then you all would need to come up with a plan together to make the realtionship work. The other woman need not to ever have contact with you all AGAIN!!!! You both have to agree on it.
2006-10-22 19:59:05 · answer #2 · answered by mslady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh by the way love don't open the door for anyone to come in and sabotage what two people have going on. Because if I care for you and you care for me, we don't need interference from anyone else. Maybe he need to check what he want a little more closer.
2006-10-22 19:37:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ellen J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He`s with u and he should have never let her come over,let her sleep in the street with the rest of the trash.He was wrong 4 that if he really love u he would have never done it.
2006-10-22 19:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by MRS.K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree to forgive and forget. Doesn't sound like much happened and he did find you again, right? Let her know in no uncertain terms that what she did was really low life mentality.
2006-10-22 19:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what the problem is??
Sounds like your man told you what happened so I guess you both just need to move on.
2006-10-22 19:33:24 · answer #6 · answered by i_love_my_mp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move. I had to do that in my marriage
2006-10-22 19:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have to work harder at t
2006-10-22 19:31:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋