Ok, I have a best friend. She is getting really close with my boyfriend. We are only 13 so nothing is going on thats too bad. But she used to liek him. Ever since i started getting mad about it she has claimed to have stopped liking him but i doubt it. She constantly tells me that i hang out with other people too much but wheever she is uptown she invites my boyfriend before me. Im starting to wonder. We fight about it constanty because he stays the night at her house after school dances and they are together more than me and him. I HATE IT! She keeps saying i should trust her but i have asked her to back off and she says shes trying but everytime i ask her to she seems to hang out with her more. I think it might be just to make me mad, but she has taken boyfriends from me before and i didnt care about them as much as i care about my current boyfriend! Me and him have talked and he claims shes a friend. I trust him but i dont trust her. I need to know what to do!!!!
2006-10-22 13:25:34 · 8 answers · asked by not_another_pretty_face 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you so need to stop her from being close to him.. he will get use being with your friend but not you.. so you better go take caution about this situation.. or not you will be hating your friend and your boyfriend..
2006-10-22 13:29:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling her your friend. She's not your friend. Friends don't do that to friends.
She is an acquaintance. She still likes him, and does things to make you mad. You did say, she has taken boyfriends from you before. Friends don't do that. Why do he stay the night at her house? Why can't he go home? I would say, leave them both alone, because they are both playin you. But, I do know what it's like to be 13, and really like a guy.
2006-10-22 13:42:04 · answer #2 · answered by mouse in chicago 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she isn't a best friend if she's taken boyfriends of yours before and is continuing to be with them more then you.
First of all, he's your man, so she shouldn't be inviting him to the spend the night regardless if they're friends or not.
This is a matter of respect and she is disrespecting you to the fullest
You need to tell her that she has to choose your friendship or your boyfriend.
If she chooses him then you need to breakup with him because he's going along with her. When she invites him, he could say no, but he chooses to go... and that's not fair to you at all.
2006-10-22 13:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 points
2006-10-22 13:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by Dr shiznet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay one i dont think youve heard friends before ..uhm.."lovers" in your case u should listen but dump him hello? it takes too hun. its him as much as her yah kno and she doesnt sound like a best friend to me id just drop them both n let them be u can do better im sure every girl deserves to have that special someone to treat them right n i kno u can find someone that wont do that to u. you may not think somethings goin on but i assure you that it is.....sorry! goodluck!just use your heart
2006-10-22 13:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by Timmys lil angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she must not be a friend if that happend just 4get about it and move on
2006-10-22 13:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by lil-mizz_Glamer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better ask yourself if she is really your best friend..and she has done it before!!! thats low get new friends
2006-10-22 13:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by loedinglover88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get her out of your life fast, she wants him and you dont need her in your life
2006-10-22 13:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by banana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋