like we go to this teenage night thing and we will be hangin out then he leaves and talks to these girls? am i just at the point of arparanoide or is it i just need to chill and lay back and be happy hes with me?
2006-10-22 12:50:58 · 19 answers · asked by ashley m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like you have trust issues, perhaps caused by past relationships. Ask him why he always does that and find out. I mean you have the title girlfriend so maybe you shouldn't worry. If he has been unfaithful in the past or is overly flirtatious then you have to nip it in the bud because that is him disrespecting you.
Best Wishes and Good Luck!!
2006-10-22 12:54:32 · answer #1 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are acting insecure, no confidence in yourself. You will always have problems in that dept. if you don't deal with it. Your best bet is:
The only way to find true peace and the free gift Jesus offers to all is accepting Jesus as your Savior. Find a Christian church near your home and you will enter the family of God. You will receive love and goodness and many prayers. If you can also join a women's Bible Study. Praying is POWERFUL. Trust me I know. Get the book "Power of a Praying Woman" by Stormie Omartian. Very Very Good. It is the only way you will start seeing positive changes in yourself. You see jealousy is not from God...it is from Satan (a negative insecure thing).
As you get older, it gets worse.
Reading and learning the Word of God brings peace, love, guidance to everything in life including relationships and later on marriage etc... You will never regret having Jesus first in your life. He is the answer to all your problems. You will never be the same once Jesus touches your heart.
2006-10-22 20:07:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find that many times when we are "insecure" it is because our mate has not made of feel totally safe and secure being with them, other times it is due to past hurts we have experienced, to me though it is rude to just leave your date/girlfriend to go and talk to other girls. and of course we all know that some females like to play the "I can take your man" or the "let's make her jealous" game and guys just look at us like we are imagining things. But just play it out and see, perhaps start doing a little minglling of your own. And hopefully you have mentioned to him that you are not quite comfortable with something like that, sometimes guys just don't get it.
2006-10-22 19:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by Droopi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truely likes you... then he will spend all the time you have together with YOU, not some other girls. If he's ditching you for other girls, then I don't think he's the right guy for you. Teenage relationships are not serious commitments. Just.... do what you feel would benefit YOU the most...
2006-10-22 19:54:47 · answer #4 · answered by gyrferret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your nervous because you can sense the unseen. If you dont share love it will die. So get jealous and work it out with another guy and not with your bf or he will go away as soon as he is ready.
2006-10-24 04:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like insecurities to me. When a person fears a loss or other circumstances of failure they tend to lose their own self esteem in the process and become bewildered and succumb to the fate of helplessness.
The key factor here is to recognize who you are and what you do for yourself and stand tall and believe in yourself and believe in that green money:)
2006-10-22 19:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably nervous because you are maybe thinking when he is talking to these girls he could probably be hooking up with them with you not even knowing about it.Maybe you should start paying more attention with that
2006-10-22 20:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by Jacko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you don't have much self confidence, If he is with you he must like you, just because he talks with other girls doesn't mean he wants to be with them. If I was you I'd just roll with the flow and be happy with him. good luck
2006-10-22 19:57:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anna Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While these flirtations may lead to nothing.. he might just like the attention. You should at least keep both eyes on him because he might be shopping for your replacement.
2006-10-22 19:55:04 · answer #9 · answered by sirelyas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u get nervous because u think he might like them or something. dont worry about it unless he gives u a reason 2 think he likes them..it could just be casual talking
2006-10-22 19:53:40 · answer #10 · answered by jEsSiCa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋