A very valid point was made to my question about buying my sister a car (if you missed it, please refer back to my questions to read details) that is "Do try to make her feel that you appreciate her, and not belittling her with charity"
The question then begins "How do you offer someone something they need very badly, without hurting their feelings as if they aren't capable, when you know they aren't capable?"
(that sounded confusing, no?)
2006-10-22 12:38:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
But she really needs a car now...the one she has is always breaking down!
2006-10-22 12:46:25 · update #1
why not make it seem as though she is buying the car from you and not giving it to her make it seem as though you dont need the car even though you just bought it and instead of returning it sell it to her on the cheap make it seem to her that you are a very giving person that is willing to take a loss on a vehicle and she can buy it from you for like five bucks a week or something like that
2006-10-22 14:05:28 · answer #1 · answered by wrenchbender19 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm an Iraq War veteran too, so I understand how difficult it's to your husband to be away (and likewise how difficult it's on you too). But except studying the dribble, why did you marry him once more? I do not realise why you could wish to marry a character whose first inclination is approximately the money he will be making? Honestly I did not learn the entire factor on account that it sort of feels too lengthy. Pretty just like this, if you do not love him break up. If you do love him attempt to paintings it out and cross to counseling. Either method, the bottom you are living at or close has marriage counseling (and you'll cross on your own in the event you wish) or talk to a chaplain. I consider you've got already placed 2 moves within the marriage and you have got simplest been with him 2 years. If your no longer glad and you do not love him then break up and it will be simpler on you and him. If you do then wait until he will get again and take a look at counseling. I do not consider you being envious and citing all this beyond stuff is helping so much. You will have to speak to him approximately your emotions and possibly see if a few variety of ordinary understandings can also be reached. Good success.
2016-09-01 01:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the car to her as a gift on a special occasion like her birthday
2006-10-22 12:42:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋