hes still in love with his ex,,,and he has nowhere to go so i feel guilty to ask him to leave,,we fight alot,,im so hurt, and feel used,,,what do i do? help
2006-10-23 22:16:46 · 10 answers · asked by blaqueheartedgrl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know that the last thing you probably want to hear is someone telling you that you need to wake up and realized that you have been used and will continue to be in this situation unless you make the decision that ENOUGH is ENOUGH. However, we do need to hear it sometimes from people who cares for us especially if we're so caught up inside our bubbles that we fail to see what is already right in front of us.
If you pause for one moment, take a deep breathe and look back on everything that had happened, enlightenment will dawn on you.
I have heard many times that the way people will treat you is a reflection of how you treat yourself. This I found from experience to be more than 100% accurate. If you treat yourself with respect, you wouldn't want to be with someone who will treat you less...
2006-10-23 23:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by Alias G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being hurt, and used! Get out of the relationship now hon, your going nowhere in life, and neither is he, so get out now why you have the chance to find a decent man! If he is on his way to hell, then don't let him drag you there, with him!!!!!
2006-10-24 05:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make him leave anyway, he is just using you untill he patches things up with his ex or just for a place to stay for now.
2006-10-24 05:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by mnm4213 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Finish it as soon as possible, the longer it goes on the worse it will be, unless .... do you thinkthere is hope that it might work?
2006-10-24 05:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by maggie_at0303 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You kick him out and stop sleeping with people you don't know and quit meeting people online
2006-10-24 05:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kick him out he dint think of your feelings when he told you about how he felt about his x. if you dont do something you will be babysiting him for ever
2006-10-24 05:19:56 · answer #6 · answered by Ozark American 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him, im sorry but i dont think he is interested, so what the point in wasting you life!?
2006-10-24 05:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop him off where you picked him up.... Have his ex pick him up...
2006-10-24 05:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jason 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
send him home and find a new man
2006-10-24 05:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u were used.move on
2006-10-24 05:18:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋