how could i get my partner to stay home of a night and spend time with me and our kids instead off doing karate classes 5 times a week
2006-10-23 20:40:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i dont nag and im not boring i just think he has a family he should spend more time with us its like he has a single life and i never tell him he cant do somthing
2006-10-23 20:46:33 · update #1
i dont expect him to quit just cut down on some days he doesnt want to he said its something he enjoys and our kids are only 2 and 5
2006-10-24 11:19:42 · update #2
You can't make him do anything.. tell him you are feeling neglected and you would love it for the family to have at least one night together a week. It is his choice in the end and if he chooses karate then, You know were you stand.
Tell him you understand he needs time for himself but ask him how he would feel if you went to swimming ( or what ever) 5 nights a week... if he is a typical man he will say "okay you do that " and he can see how it feels to be left at home with the kids all the time. If he still doesn't understand you will never make him understand and you either have to live with it or move on .
2006-10-23 20:48:25 · answer #1 · answered by mum 2 Cameron and Ewan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest looking into getting the kids and you involved with his dojo. This is a wonderful thing that he is involved in and it would benefit you, him, and the kids. Martial arts is wonderful way to teach your children self respect and discipline. Asking him to give up something like that would be detrimental to him so I would not recommend it. Again, find a way to join him or ask him to cut it back to only 3-4 days a week and planning things with the family on the other days of the week but do not give him the ultimatum of you or the family.
2006-10-24 11:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by hopestar23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be your partner more career concious and mking and seeing good future prospects there. Or else I am 100% sure that if any husband or wife wants to stay away from home, it is solely and mostly because the spouse is not getting full moral, physical, eternal attention and the desired satisfaction which pulls him/her out of the home by a diversion. Not good at all. Cannot hold your partner solely responsible for the said act which normally arises out of frustration. Take care.
2006-10-24 04:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karate classes 5 times a week? Hmm something sounds a little off there. Go with him to see if he really is doing what he is doing.
2006-10-24 03:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by pulgita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karate classes 5 times a week? Tell him he must choose between you and his classes. One night a week should be plenty. What is he contributing to the relationship.
2006-10-24 03:44:41 · answer #5 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend with him in karate if you want to be with him
and support him
if he is not seeing anyone else than go with him pack the kids and let see daddy do karate.
2006-10-24 03:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by RENO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oral Sex to completion, and not just in bed, outdoors, in the car movies, in front of a porno at home, basically anywhere he wants it, Anal sex, if you are not doing it...get with it or someone will and you will lose him, BDSM, public sex, suggest dogging...loads of sites on the net..basically a happy man does not stray.give him sex whenever and wherever he wants xxxx you will be his Queen I promise you....oh! Ignore the religious nutters and fat puritan bitter singletons that post and the nerdy guys..they are creepy xx
2006-10-24 04:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Joey K. btw why does he nees all the karate lessons for?
2006-10-24 03:44:24 · answer #8 · answered by Deesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't force anyone to do anything without them coming to resent you for it. Perhaps it's time for all of you to find an activity that you all enjoy and can participate in?
2006-10-24 03:42:46 · answer #9 · answered by dingobluefoot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
holy
tell him he must choose
that is selfish taking 5 nights a week for himself
2006-10-24 03:41:36 · answer #10 · answered by Kelly Bundy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋