what should i do?

Question

i've started to realise that sometimes my boyfriend is being 'caring' but really i think he's trying to get me to do what he wants. he gave me some guidelines which are supposed to be funny and he says he wrote them cos 'he was bored and thinking about me' but i know it was on things that piss him off. if the phone is engaged after 10pm he thinks there is another guy. i didn't call him and he wrote me a long email to say that i do this to him everytime and ahh he is so mad but we arent in trouble and he loves me as much. It's all things that seem like nothing to me, but he says i dont do them, that i never get better. Like if i'm upset i can take maybe 5-10 minutes to tell him what's up. and it wrecks 3 days. things can be nice and special. but i'm just sick of being blamed when i dont see what i've done.

Answer 1

You need to discuss it with him in a serious talk and get the facts straight. Tell him directly how you feel and let him know he can trust you and really has nothing to worry about. Seems like he is feeling insecure. Tell him straight how you feel and see how it goes from there.

Answer 2

First off you aren't his slave or whipping post ,,,,, It sounds to me like he's trying real hard to be a jerk ,,,,, You are as much of an individual in this relationship as he is but it sounds like he's got his mind on him alone instead of both of you ,,,,,,, So he could just be making a fool of you and seeing just how far he can go ,,,, That isn't what a relationship should be ,,,,,, You aren't his toy or play thing ,,,,, You are the other half of this relationship ,,,,,,

Answer 3

You are not doing anything wrong...you need to get rid of him...he is accusing you of stuff that is not true and he sounds like a control freak...do yourself a favor and dump him before things get worse...