Other - Family & Relationships - 25 October 2006

i really like him and i dont know what to do

2006-10-25 08:44:11 · 4 answers · asked by selena m 1

This guy was really nice to me,treated me really good,never swore at me or abused me. He would talk about marrying me,say that he loves me,introduced me to his friends,his brother saying that this is your sister in law.The bottomline is very caring but at the same time he had someone else in his life which obviously I did not know about and ended up marrying her. He did not even tell me that he got married but I found out. After that he did not have the guts to apologise or talk to me. What kind of behaviour is this. If somebody is not serious about a relationship then why would they behave the way a genuine person would behave????

2006-10-25 08:43:37 · 12 answers · asked by ABCD 1

for the first time in my life,i've actually fallen in love with a guy.he's my best friend out of all the guys i know.& he has a gf too who is one of my good friends as well & i can really say he loves her.it's so fun to be around him,he teases me a lot & when i'm when i'm feeling really down,he calls to cheer me up-basically we have a really great connection & i think everyone feels it too(even his gf).we both want to take the same career & might go to the same university.my question is,should i tell him i have feelings of more than friendship towards him?i think he knows that i have something towards him & he always treat me like he treats his gf(even calling me 'baby' in my language)& no,he's not a person who would cheat-always the perfect gentleman & a really good guy.would i regret not telling him this years later?i really do care for him a lot.is it wrong to tell a guy you really love them even if they have a gf disregarding the feelings of the person in the other end?cheers! :)

2006-10-25 08:40:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-25 08:40:00 · 7 answers · asked by chancie f 1

My mother owns a home child care. It is located in the bottom half of her home. She pays me to help out when i am not in school to get my teaching degree. On Monday she collapsed due to an asthama attack. We had to call 911 to have her rushed to the hospital. I called all the parents and all but one where very understanding that we had to be closed on Tuesday. One mom got real mad and said that was no excuse to close. I told her that we would be open again today. My moms doc told her not to be around anything that could cause her to have another attack, esp smoke. That mom who got mad came today and her child reeked of smoke. In a very nice tone i asked her to either take the childs coat with her or if she did not mind i would wash it. She Got real mad and took her child back home. On the way out she said i was not being nice and that she would take her child somewhere eles. i said u want 2 smoke, fine..but dont come smelling like it. was i in the wrong?

2006-10-25 08:39:47 · 13 answers · asked by carriec 7

ie..."friends" and family always seem to make me feel like I owe them something. And in the end I know that the only one being cheated is myself and my husband, how can I at 31 learn to live my life without worrying about everyone else? My heart is too big.

2006-10-25 08:39:40 · 11 answers · asked by sircbstp 3

Last night i was washing a load of clothes. Well I had taken some medicine and it made me sleepy so I dressed down to my undies and my tank top to get into bed. Well it was only around 9 when i dosed off. Then I remembered i to restart the dryer. I went to the basement still half sleep to turn the it back on. Who would have thought that my downstairs neighbor would come check to see what was going on? Well it wasnt her, it was her brother. I heard a voice ask why she was down there and when i was in clear view of him i was too tired to be embarrassed. He asked my why I looked so mean and I told him that I was asleep and he just stared at me and I noticed that he took a while to go in the door because he was staring at the back of me only wearing my tank and panty draws. I didnt think much of it till today and now I am embarrased that he is going to be thinking of that moment when he saw me in my underthings. anyone had a moment like this?

2006-10-25 08:39:12 · 7 answers · asked by MiaDiva28 6

2006-10-25 08:37:24 · 7 answers · asked by tweety 1

i have 2 children so time is very limited

2006-10-25 08:37:08 · 23 answers · asked by DR. WHO 3

2006-10-25 08:35:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a married male friend. And I like him. I like him in a way that I want to hug him, being sweet to him... But I have no sexual inclinations or desire for him. I just like him. That's all. But I haven't done those things to him (hugging him and being sweet to him) because he is married.

But there's this one time we were together. And I was so very tired. He was riding on his bike going somewhere (it doesn't matter where) and I hitched because I know he'll pass by the place where I would be going. Since I was so tired, I asked him if I could lean on him and he said yes and so I wrapped my arms around his waist just so in case I might fall asleep. Nearing to my destination, he asked me for a kiss. I let him kiss me but only on the cheek.

Men, what do you think? Did I do something bad? Am I a b*tch? What??? And what about my friend? Was he just fooling around?

But you know what? After that, I don't think I'll ever like seeing him again.

Girls, you can say something too. Anythin

2006-10-25 08:33:46 · 16 answers · asked by Miss A 1

to check if my husband would cheat on me....

2006-10-25 08:31:41 · 9 answers · asked by KAREN Z 1

2006-10-25 08:30:10 · 11 answers · asked by Maggie 1

I am a mother of two toddlers and I am only 22 yrs old, yeah it is quite overwhelming. My 2 kids are 1yrs old and 8mnths old. Me and my kid's father have been together for two years. When my first daughter was born, I wasn't with him I was with someone else. And, I guess he couldn't stand that fact that someone else was around his daughter, and he did anything it took to get back with me. Finally I left the man I was talking to alone and chose to be with him. And few months later I was pregnant with my second daughter. Now our relationship is not the best, we argue alot and he has walked out on me and my kid's numerous of times and he alway's say's I make him sick. But, I am so vulnerable I love this man despite the thing's he say and do. I am jealous and I find myself snooping in his things trying to find things. I don't trust him cause he broke that trust by getting a number from a girl in a club. What can I do? I don't want to lose him, he wants to rap so you know what come w/that.

2006-10-25 08:29:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everytime I want to get to know this person all he wants to do is touch me or have sex with me,True I do like him but he's forever touching and telling me that he has a Stiffy A girl gets tired of that all the time

2006-10-25 08:28:41 · 16 answers · asked by Nicca 2

Ok here the deal. I met this great guy. When we first met we both agreed not to expect anything out of it. Neither one of us wanted a serious relationship it was just for fun. Well that didnt work for too long...we are now living together and getting married in April. I love him very much. Anyway I knew he smoked pot and didnt care at first because it wasnt suppose to go anywhere..now that we are serious together I dont want him to smoke pot. I have a 6 yr old daughter and I dont want it around her at all..period! Well at first he said he wouldnt bring itin the house but I have found it several times. This is the only thing we fight about...ever! I know some woman are being abused and I should be thankful for the great guy that I have but its something that I just dont agree with. He says he wants a better job but he cant get one because he cant pass a drug test. He also says that hes glad that he has someone that wants him to do better..so why do we fight when I say something?

2006-10-25 08:27:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband doesn't communicate w/ me about marital problems and the ups and downs of married life. Rather, he communicates with his mother. When i ask why..he says it's because I get too emotional when we communicate. I cry when get angry and by that i don't mean i whine or grip and moan. He really knows how to make me angry.
I don't believe I have an inability to have a mature conversation...he just seems to have a negative approach. He makes his argument, responds for me (apparently he can read my mind) and never lets me get a word in edgewise, nor does he even attempt to see things from my point of view. Very stubborn.
So basically, his mother plays therapist and advises him on how deal with our problems. This really bothers me as i DO NOT get my family involved in our problems.
How we learn to better communicate?

2006-10-25 08:24:49 · 11 answers · asked by Petra 2

like u guys can be all nice to us help us with our homework share drinks and the next day call us names be mean..y do u do this i wanna know
is it ur way of showing us u like us? or ur way saying i have mixed feelings for u,,plz help me out id lie to know :/

2006-10-25 08:23:23 · 10 answers · asked by andralynn147 1

from kilkenny ireland are u still there, an old friend is thinking of u.
the purple diamond should give u a hint

2006-10-25 08:23:08 · 3 answers · asked by purple diamond 4

someone happened to have been outside and this person that rode by says that he was just coming from the store but why turn off the main rode to just drive by someones house if your'e not sure they are there

2006-10-25 08:20:05 · 3 answers · asked by eeee f 1

2006-10-25 08:17:16 · 17 answers · asked by Special 5

2006-10-25 08:14:35 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am married and have 2 children and my mother has interfeared so many times it has always caused trouble with my husband and myself. she hates him and doesn't mind telling him. we got so bad my husband and i have split up for w hile and trying to work things out. but everytime we almost secceed she stars in again. I thought ok maybe she just don't like him but my brother got married about a year ago and now she hates his wife too. she always puts me down when i'm trying best i can. she babysits for me and i pay her to watch my kids but she's so bossy i get cused out for working over at work cause she is ready to go. She hasn't worked in 27 years and has no idea what it is like trying to be a full time mother and work 42+ hours a week. Yet she always tells me what a piece of crap i am. can anyone give me any helpful advice?

2006-10-25 08:02:54 · 9 answers · asked by littlered 1

like stare aat him and smile or try to talk to him even if you r really shy

2006-10-25 08:02:22 · 3 answers · asked by shortymindless_2009 1

my sis did marriage frm her choice at 4 may ,on 5th it happend hot talk between that boy n my family members after that i came 2 usa ,now that boy is teasing my sis wn i or any body frm my family wanna talk 2 my sis he cut the phone he always pass comment on my sis wtever we sad in anger .he don't want that any of us hv contact wd my sis wt should i do i hv only ph.no of my sis don't hv address .pls advise hw should i help my sis...

2006-10-25 08:00:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I liked a gurl the day i saw her for the first time.We used to work for the same company.I came to know that she has a boy friend.I am thinkin of proposing to her as i feel its not bad to express ur love to someone even if he/she is comitted.If she accepts my proposal i want to marry her.I know my chances are 100:0 but i have planned to propose to her as i want her to know that i love her as i just cant remain as a frnd thru out her life. I want only 2 things happen, either she accepts my proposal or just forget her n never try to contact her. Am i doing the correct thing or not?

2006-10-25 07:58:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

A man and I started talking about the possibility of having a friends with benefits relationship. We both are out of a relationship and are not ready for another committed relationship, not ready to date. I am enjoying just being me.

Before I made up my mind I wanted to know how many other people he is currently sleeping with. He said he didn't want to answer that and he doesn't kiss and tell. I told him I didn't want to know who there were but wanted to know if it was one or two or many. I don't think my question was unreasonable and for some reason it would make a difference to me if he had many many friends. Was my question improper in a friends with benefits relationship?

2006-10-25 07:56:15 · 15 answers · asked by coolstreem 1

all about love!!!

2006-10-25 07:54:48 · 22 answers · asked by baby girl 1

My fiance and I had some argument yesterday. If some body can tell me who is write and who is wrong. He wants me to work after marriage which i understand. That was one thing. And then he said because my family dont have many freinds and relative. He said how come we dont have so many so i told him, no my dad have some freinds but i dont know why he have some of this kind of issues in his mind. Then he said i (mean my self)
dont have any savings so i need to listen to him and pay my credit cards in a manner (honestly i am trying my best since i have tow jobs) Then he said, he dont want me to come california from dallas once we get married to see my mom often, and he is afraid of my attachment to my mom and he said who will take care of her. I told him my dad will. I also told him i will buy my own tickets if i need to. So i dont know i got really upset and told him you think one more time about marriage and I shut my cell phone since then. I dont know Is he is write?

2006-10-25 07:54:26 · 7 answers · asked by Alisha 2

me and my boyfriend met in a chatrum,,we have been on for 1 yr and 4 months,,but had never got the chance to meet,,for he is in abroad.. i really luv him though i know its impossible,,do you think we will last?

2006-10-25 07:54:12 · 6 answers · asked by dh3ng12 2