This guy was really nice to me,treated me really good,never swore at me or abused me. He would talk about marrying me,say that he loves me,introduced me to his friends,his brother saying that this is your sister in law.The bottomline is very caring but at the same time he had someone else in his life which obviously I did not know about and ended up marrying her. He did not even tell me that he got married but I found out. After that he did not have the guts to apologise or talk to me. What kind of behaviour is this. If somebody is not serious about a relationship then why would they behave the way a genuine person would behave????
2006-10-25 08:43:37 · 12 answers · asked by ABCD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds to me this guy was just having is cake and eating it to.
2006-10-25 08:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by lovable110 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry girl. Welcome to the world of pigs! He obviously wanted both of you and was going to let it go on as long as it could. What does his wife think? You have to move on a realize that you WILL FIND BETTER! Trust me! He might have seemed perfect, but you will look back and see that almost everything he said was a lie...or something that you wanted to hear to make you happy. Think of it this way...be glad it happened when it did. Think of his wife and how he was cheating on her. I do believe that most people that cheat...cheat again. Some day you will see this is a blessing. Just take your time with the next person. I wish you all the luck in the world!
2006-10-25 15:49:36 · answer #2 · answered by hard rock girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are evil.
My brother did the same thing to his girlfriend.
I was forced to keep my mouth shut so I couldnt tell his girlfriend that he was engaged and was to be married in a couple of months. I felt bad for both women but I couldnt do anything about it! Im sorry to hear this but I know you will find someone better (obviously!)
2006-10-25 15:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by LizLoorAKAThSht 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people can behave worse than animals just to achive their goals...animals do it just for food or ensuring their kind.man can do things that an animal could be embarrased to do.try to be tough and do not forget that the more you experience the less possible is to be hurt again.they also say that when things are getting tough , going get tough...or something like that.there are good people out there too.try hanging out with them.now you have a very valuable experience...(although i guess that you could live without it too...)
2006-10-25 15:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by bracer402006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was using you in my opinion,and didnt have the guts to even say he wasnt sure because he didnt want to suffer the consequences,or your wrath.How long did you 2 date?From the sounds of it,it must have been a long time.
2006-10-25 15:47:42 · answer #5 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is some kind of freak and you are very lucky you did not end up being married to him. When his wife gets rid of him and he comes back around...kick him to the curb!
2006-10-25 15:50:17 · answer #6 · answered by diturtlelady2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get sex from you ....I did the same thing just before I got married for the first time. I am ashamed of myself for that.
2006-10-25 15:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's a LOSER! Wow...I didn't know men still came that effed up! I was hoping we'd breed them out! :)
Sorry, sweetie! Best advice I've got is learn to be wary of someone who speaks too highly of you too fast! And, raise your standards!
2006-10-25 15:47:04 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of a s s h o l e s out there.
Someone REAL will come and treat you so much better than that.
2006-10-25 15:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people can be cruel, i cant see how anyone can truly lie about something like this.. humanity can make excuses for themselves, much like he probobly has, but uve got to stay srtong u seem sweet so youl do fine. hes the one missin out not you.
2006-10-25 16:00:09 · answer #10 · answered by soultaker150 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋