I have a married male friend. And I like him. I like him in a way that I want to hug him, being sweet to him... But I have no sexual inclinations or desire for him. I just like him. That's all. But I haven't done those things to him (hugging him and being sweet to him) because he is married.
But there's this one time we were together. And I was so very tired. He was riding on his bike going somewhere (it doesn't matter where) and I hitched because I know he'll pass by the place where I would be going. Since I was so tired, I asked him if I could lean on him and he said yes and so I wrapped my arms around his waist just so in case I might fall asleep. Nearing to my destination, he asked me for a kiss. I let him kiss me but only on the cheek.
Men, what do you think? Did I do something bad? Am I a b*tch? What??? And what about my friend? Was he just fooling around?
But you know what? After that, I don't think I'll ever like seeing him again.
Girls, you can say something too. Anythin
2006-10-25 08:33:46 · 16 answers · asked by Miss A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You made a mistake for asking to wrap your arms around his waist. He could have thought there was something going on with that. Need to explain to him that you were very tired or better yet, don't talk to him.
2006-10-25 08:36:49 · answer #1 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong, I think that you should express your feelings to him though so that he will not get the wrong idea. I personally would see nothing worng with seeing him again. A friend is a friend. You can have a good friend of the opposite sex and there should be nothing wrong with a hug or a kiss. There does not have to be sex unless you both want it. Don't worry about what others will think.
2006-10-25 15:46:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you think everyone on here just fell off of the last turnip truck that went by. "You asked to hug him so you wouldn't fall off if you fell asleep?" Get real, you are coniving and you made a play for this guy just to see where it would go and you got him to kiss you. Grow up, girl, and quit playing games with another woman's husband.
2006-10-25 15:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a dog. He's willing to "escalate" your friendship (you know, friends with benefits, right?) and foresake his marriage, as well as damage your friendship.
I would not be so close to this guy if I were you.
You're setting yourself up to be hurt, and you're setting yourself up to look like the homewrecker when it's he who is causing the trouble.
2006-10-25 15:37:39 · answer #4 · answered by gatesfam@swbell.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you like him but not in a bad way he like a brother to you and he has some plan for you i mean he want to sleep with you and just for fun don;t ignore him talk to him as a friend but don;t let to close to him
2006-10-25 15:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are not "starting" something, you are in the clear. Just respect your friend's marriage and continue your friendship!
2006-10-25 15:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with ir as long as u guys are ONLY friends
2006-10-25 15:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by lola369 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to stay away from him. You are heading down the road to an affair and you need to stop.
2006-10-25 15:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by Got2seeit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the guy alone. Obviously he wants to ruin his own marriage.. You should not be a contributing factor of it. LEAVE HIM ALONE at all costs.
2006-10-25 15:38:08 · answer #9 · answered by jinmetsu_rasetsu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The road to Hell is paved with good intentions.
What would you think if you were in his wife's shoes if/when she found out about it?
2006-10-25 15:45:31 · answer #10 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋