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Marriage & Divorce - 3 November 2007

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I am VERY anti-pornography, I find it hurtful to our relationship and do not want it in my world. I told my husband this before we got married. We have been married 3 1/2 years and I have "caught" him viewing it on the internet several times. Two times ago I told him if he did it again our marriage was over. Then he did it again. At that point he promised he never would again. I believed him. Well, today, he was viewing once more. What am I to do?

2007-11-03 03:53:50 · 30 answers · asked by lorianne1961 1

My wife and I separated, we have three kids all under 6yrs. I want to go to counseling and she currently is, I brought it up again the other day and she said "until I figure out what I need to do to take of me, and work through my problems, we should not do it until then", we only have been separated for 2 months, but I have a gut feeling that she really doesn't want to do anything for us, but just start living her life by her terms, am I wrong for feeling alienated? We are married aren't we? What does it mean to be separated? I don't know.....

2007-11-03 03:51:00 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1

Men....Say your a guy in your late 40's or in your 50's. You need Levitra or a similar med. to have to pretty decent sex life with your spouse or girlfriend. Would you TeLL her you were taking these drugs?? In my specific case, I have been medically appoved to take these drugs. Thanks.

2007-11-03 03:49:00 · 12 answers · asked by mick7 1

For the last couple weeks me and my husband had a roomate who is my husband's friend, he is a guy. The other day he left for a family emergency, and he is mad at the way my husband has been treating him. But I asked him if my husband has been cheating on me and at first he would not say anything, but then he did, he said that my husband as been sleeping with two different girls since he has been living there, and he knows because my husband had asked him to come ride with him. So I asked my husband if he has been cheating on me, which I do once in a while because he has before and he said no. So I am not sure if I should believe my friend or my husband. But I am planning to go to the doctor to get tested for STD's

2007-11-03 03:44:50 · 38 answers · asked by thegirl 2

I was cleaning the kitchen last night, and finally got it done. Then my fiancé goes in there and TOTALLY trashes it. I'm talking dishes everywhere, spilled milk all over the counter, crumbs, paper, and other assorted crap all over the floor I just got done scrubbing. I confronted him about the mess, and he says, "well, now you have something to do and you won't be bored." It's like he went and trashed the place because he thinks I don't do enough around the house.....oh God I just feel like strangling him sometimes!

2007-11-03 03:37:08 · 24 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7

My husband is 21. He is military. I am a stay at home mother, and in a month or so I will be full time babysitting a few kids for money, and he will be deploying again. It is saturday. I have lots of chores I need to get done everyday. I usually ask him during the weekday to do simple things like take out the trash or change a diaper. Well, I really need the laundry folded, dishes washed, and some little needed things to get done and do my school work today (which is much needed). I asked him to help me do laundry but he threw a fit and said he doesnt understand why we have to do so many chores all the time. I wonder if the thinks he has the right to sit around all day (it is (9:30 and still no shower, brushed teeth, etc..) and do absoultly nothing! How should I approach this? He wont listen to me!! I feel like I could just do it myself instead of begging him to help out.

2007-11-03 03:30:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i will break this down, im a step mom of 3, kids have been kept from our house for 5 months by their mom.this was to punish their dad for being the bad man their mom says he is(not true) 9 and 10 year olds wrote letter to their dad that they were scared of him , he was mean and bad, they didnt want to stay with him. we finally have kids for the weekend and everyone is running around like nothing ever happened! like everything is ok. im not ok.... i want to know why kids wwrote letter.....there has been so much hurt in this house caused by ex and step kids, how do i deal with it. im madat them... help

2007-11-03 03:26:02 · 8 answers · asked by thepainter 4

my sister's hubby of many many years left her for another woman a couple yrs ago. i saw them together last night & his new wife has gotten fat. i had a naughty thought for a sec & maybe a lil smile..then felt guilty. i know it 's wrong but my sister loves him so much & she's always home alone.

2007-11-03 03:16:38 · 20 answers · asked by ? 6

My 40 yr old husband is 40 going on 21. He HAS to go to the bars every night of the week, he has to have his "regulars" he sees there, he has to always be popular and everyone has to like him and know him. He does all this at his families expense. I am 30 and our daughter is 5. He comes home very late, drunk nightly. I am chronically tired due to this and have lost my job because I simply can't perform on the job feeling like this. Last night it was the worse. He didn't come home until 3am this morning and knew he had to work for 8. He was ranting and yelling and throwing stuff all over the house at 6:30am when the clock went off. I told him he did it to himself. He insults me all the time. No matter what job I get it isn't good enough and I am worthless. This morning he told me (during his little tantrum) that he was sick of me and I don't ever make enough money. What? Money so he can get drunk? What do you think I should do? I am crying all the time...

2007-11-03 03:12:38 · 23 answers · asked by Samantha 3

My husband and I haven't had any sex about 5 months ago, his excuse always is that I'm always mean to him and the kids don't let us. We had been argueing alot lately because of money issues but before when I was working he still act the same. Now I feel like an old couple we go to the same bed every night and nothing happen.
How can a guy be without any for so long??
Im not a sex freak but I need some and so what is the whole purpose of marrying somebody if u don't get any??
Could it be some other reasons?
Please help me understand my husband..

2007-11-03 02:55:31 · 31 answers · asked by Angie 1

my husband and my sister have been fighting for the longest time!!

i can remember 6 years ago when i met him in highschool. he was the really funny-cool guy, i was the quiet girl, and he always reffers to her as "the B*itch who just started insulting me one day" and ever since she did, they've always been going on and off like saying one word to each other meant an arguement. now, back to the present, we have our own appartment now and my sister always stops by in the morning to have breakfast (i love those moments) but when my husband wakes up to join i just pray my sister wont say anything to start a fight and hopefully my daughter is already on the bus to school. i find that its kinda funny at times, when i turn my back on those two and look back, he'll already have her in a headlock and she'd be hitting him with a cup. i guess its just how our family is, but yet i still feel like maybe there's a way to change that, just so things are more peaceful. please read the additionals.

now, im wonder just what is it i can do to get them to stop fighting all the time. i dont want to leave them in a couciler's office or somthing because im really one of the only ones that can break up those two. also, it may not be important but long ago, those two were actually really locked into each other, meaning to say that somehow, they once had love for each other. so thats another reason i dont want those two alone. he's a sweetheart, and she's kind of a ****

2007-11-03 02:50:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a girlfriend i've known for 10 years, I wouldn't say dating because we've been in different countries. I love her. Like it's been said (there's nothing as constant as changes) which simply denotes the love isn't there any more because of a heartbreak I suffered through her. It's just as if she's been pushing me to marry her, so not left with no other option, I see myself getting married to her in the future.

2007-11-03 02:37:05 · 6 answers · asked by Azur N 1

My wife and I argue all the time and I can let it go and forget about it but she will keep it going for days. I work hard and I am honest to her. I pay all the bills in the house she does not pay a thing. We have a 3 year old son and I give them everything but still she me a loser, asshole, gay and **** like that. Loser im not ...Asshole sometimes I am we all are right? Gay cause once a month the old school boys get together and hang out and we get smashed and smoke some herb this is not every month sometimes we go a couple of months not hanging. She says its gay to hang with the fellas...I say these nuts.....I am tired of getting stepped on for every little thing she makes me feel sick sometimes.Then I get the urge to go out and meet some hot little chick and totally get out of my resposabilites but I have this son with her what the hell should I do?

2007-11-03 02:03:09 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 19 and pregnant. I am not married, and this seems to affect a lot of people on this site! I am in a loving relationship with my baby's father who loves and supports me. We live together and have a stable relationship. To me, there is nothing wrong with this. Just because we dont have a piece of paper that says we love each other on it does not change a thing. We know how we feel about each other, and dont feel we have to prove it right now. Some people on this site seem to take this personal, and seem to judge you if your not married before having children. I would just like to say that it is 2007, not 1907 and not everyone has to be married before they have children.

Does anyone feel the same or disagree?

2007-11-03 02:00:19 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

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My married friend is suffering !!
I just dont know why her husband is doing this ! PLZ HELP

Here's the thing .. He's always "investigating her body" meaning : he checks for bad smell .. any un-wanted hair .. if her nails are not done .. her skin if it's soft or dry or pimples .. snifs all over .. checks the clothes she wears .. her hair smell .. etc .. etc .. ETC

He wants her to be the most clean soft good-smelling person on earth !!!

i mean the girl IS CLEAN ! and there's nothing wrong with sweat or pimples or unwanted hair as long as she gets rid of these things quickly but he complains alot ! as if she's not clean or normal

Take this for example .. ok us girls have unwated body hair .. shouldnt we wait for it to come out a little bit so we would wax it off ? but in his case if he finds one or two dots (tip of the hair) coming out then she's not a clean person and she should take care !

2007-11-03 01:49:09 · 28 answers · asked by Maria 6

Well Rakee sawant in any of the interviews is more of open invitation, nowerdays she is dancing with a guy in Naach Baliya, I dont know whether she will stick on to him. She is used to use and throw philosophy. Next all of a sudden she developed love towards her mother, when she was thrown out for all her tantrums and she openly proclaimed that she moved away from house. I don't know how many dicks later she will marry or will she go Praveen Babi way

2007-11-03 00:25:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

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