Marriage & Divorce - 16 September 2007

2007-09-16 05:48:39 · 7 answers · asked by martin 1

just like something is missing from the story? how do you deal with this??

2007-09-16 05:47:32 · 17 answers · asked by Benny 3

We have been together for 7 years and always had a good sex life but now she don't care about it @ all. I have told her 50 times that I have a high sex drive and that I am not happy with the quantity and she ALWAYS turns that around and says it is the quality that I am not happy with. I really do love her more than I have ever loved before (i am 40 yrs old) but now I am thinking about finding someone else to fill my "needs"

2007-09-16 05:31:13 · 34 answers · asked by cldad 1

Now she wants to withdraw the case and rejoin her husband. but is scared if he would file a divorce against her. How can she protect herself? can she reopen the 498a case if he files a divorce case? Please advice.

2007-09-16 05:30:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a relative that was caught going on the internet looking up girls no they were not totally naked but a lot of the pictures were very suggestive and when he denied it the person who busted him found a way to go on the computer and point out all the sites he was on. He said he was sorry and repented and would never do it again, between you and me I think he was only sorry because he was caught. I was happy he got busted or caught because men think they can get away with everything little did he know that a computer has a memory and stores everything you go on. It was truly an embarresing lesson.

My question is why do men do this? Not every person can be a size 6? Why do men always are attracted to things they simply should not have? Why do men feel that have the right or entitlement to lust this person may not have literally committed adultery against his wife but in a sense a grave sense he did committ adultry with his heart. What is your take on this?

2007-09-16 05:28:11 · 23 answers · asked by encourager4God 5

Are there any? How is your marriage?

2007-09-16 05:09:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

The cyclops came out of her cave and is demanding I clean out the garage, should I send the retard back inside?

2007-09-16 04:36:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-16 04:11:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just found out that my husband to 7 years has been emailing, then meeting up with his old girl friend in the past. I found this out about the emails then latter that they met. It's all unreal to me. This is his first time, I am very sure of that. Asked him what was going on and he said they were catching up. Dont understand it, I asked him to cut off all contact with her. Now I want to know is the statement is true once a cheater always a cheater. Ok he did tell me that he did not mean to hurt me. What a tv line right. He also told me that he will never cause me to hurt like that again. I really need some good advice.

2007-09-16 04:08:22 · 23 answers · asked by mother of two 1

we have been together for 8years and i have a hard time getting him to pick up a broom.

2007-09-16 04:06:46 · 18 answers · asked by Zest 3

My marriage is mortally wounded, bleeding and for all purposes.. dead. I have children to consider, my wife is not interested in counseling or reconciliation yet she doesn't seem to want to end it. Its like she wants her cake and eat it too (like a marriage of convienience but she and I have different goals and priorities...we're like strangers)

How to I continue when my life is in such disaster? Do file for divorce and be alone for the rest of my life? Or do I continue business as usual for my kids sake?

Its hard getting up and going to work or even have fun in my personal time when all these issues are a dark cloud over me.

I have no real friends to discuss these things with who will understand..so I guess I need one of you to help me see this thing clearer.

Need some practical advice from anyone who has it...Thanks

2007-09-16 03:59:39 · 35 answers · asked by cairo 1

Hi. I am in my early 40's and my wife early 30's. We've been married for 10 years. My wife is very attractive, but I'm losing interest in having sex with her. Its a strange feeling, but I feel like I shouldn't be sexually attracted to her. Sort of like you wouldn't want to think anything sexual about your close family members - your brother, sister, parents, etc. I find myself trying to not look at my wife sexually. I find other women sexually attractive though. Do other men feel like this? What can I do about this? I find myself trying to avoid sex anyway possible with my wife.

2007-09-16 03:57:31 · 8 answers · asked by lucky0505 1

And said make the dinner do you agree?

2007-09-16 03:55:53 · 23 answers · asked by colin050659 6

I don't approach him for sex because when I have before, if he can't "perform" then he becomes upset and embarassed and I think he would rather me not initiate it. Even though I tell him "don't worry about it", "It's ok", "we can try later". He has been to the doctor and has viagra, but that doesn't work either. He says that he never knows when I want to have sex, so I will wear something "sexy" to bed such as a thong or a nightie. I get no response. I am slighty overweight, but I do try. Would that be an indication to most men that your wife wants to have sex? Or am I just crazy?

2007-09-16 03:55:38 · 7 answers · asked by bethany p 2

with the divorce he would give almost all his money to his wife and kids....ls he just playing with me?

2007-09-16 03:47:39 · 18 answers · asked by ann 3

I'm not sure if I'm one of the few women out there but I never want to marry or have kids. I've been in a relationship with the same man for seven years. (I'm 27,he's 36) I love him to death. We're been living together for four years, have great careers and are happy together. However I made up my mind a long time ago that I never wanted to do the whole marriage thing and he feels the same way. I'm tired of women telling me that I'm going to miss out by not having children or that I'm young and I will change my mind. My family/friends are always asking me when I'm getting married and I'm just sick of it. I think happiness differs for everyone and right now I'm pretty happy with my life/relationship. Are there other people out there like me? haha What do you guys think??

2007-09-16 03:42:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

sometimes I feel I am cursed.....I know too much. I sense what other people are feeling and thinking. I'm overwhelmed. I know when things are going to happen, and I know what decisions I have to make, and I know the outcomes. I have vivid dreams that I cannot explain and I know my spiritual guide. I know why I am here and why I was born.......
I know too much..
It's hard in my family, in my marraige, no one understands me. Before anyone says anything, I know the answer.
I am a housewife, and I feel I am going crazy.....I'm angry, I'm frustrated. My husband doesn't understand, I told him before we were married and even after, but he cannot grasp it. Now more than ever, I'm craving "alone time" and he doesn't "get it".......I am so much more than a mom and wife......more than he realizes.....I had considered to start smoking to "quiet" my head.....I have other gifts as well....he doesn't understand why I want to use my gifts....

2007-09-16 03:38:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is leaving me for this older woman that he is starting a relationship with her. We been together 5 years going on 6 and we have three babies together. This woman gets him everything he wants pleases him in everyway and he seems like he wants to move forward with her. Now he wants to still live with me but he is starting his relationship out there. Why does he still want to live with me if this woman is so great for him? He says that he wants to make sure me and the kids are taken care but he doesn't have to live here for that. I'm trying to figure out what game he is playing. One week he wants me then the next he wants her and it's really stressing me out.

2007-09-16 02:45:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

months ago and I have two other daughters ages 9 and 13 from a previous relationship. Ou son is my husbands only child although he loves my girls like his own he been bugging me lately about having another child now and I really dont want anymore kidsfor these three reasons 1) We are not really financially stable 2) I have high blood pressure and cholesterol and 3) I struggle with depression at time. He tells me if I dont give him 1 more that he's gonna leave me What should I do?? Sometimes I think well ok I feel bad my son with grow up alone and blah blah but then I also think of myself I need advice please!!

2007-09-16 02:27:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel my wife is a habitual liar The lies I keep catching her in r little insignifigant white lies but they r still lies & cause me to doubt everything else. last wk she lied 2 me about her location while out w/a friend. she was with who she said but only came clean about being in a different place when an accident delay caused her 2 run 2 hrs late. she kind of had 2 tell me then. yest. she started her text addiction again w/her guy buddy or so i thought. so after a huge fight she swore she checked it but wasnt on it or locking herself in the bathroom to text. so i look at the account this morn. it reveals 143 outgoing & 127 incoming of which i account 4 less than 5. I dont want 2 bel. that she is doint the unthinkable bc I dont but why this huge facination w/texting this other guy. why does she keep lying about nothing at all really. I want 2 know what I can say or do that will shut her down and make her realize how disrespectful she is treating me.

2007-09-16 02:24:06 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had a live-in partner he was handsome tall and alot of girls admire him, but he never cheated.i handle all our expenses couse i earn more than he does.he was nice but the problem was he's alcoholic and if he's drunk he hit me for no reason.i desided to leave him cause the last time he hit me he was trying to kill the child from my womb.my mom told me to start my life all over and now i have a new job and trying to move on, but still he is always on my mind and i'm thinkin' about my coming baby, he/she will grow up without a father.
i dont know what t do?i cant move on..

2007-09-16 02:19:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bitter ex-husband is requesting DNA on an child that he is as certain as me that my daughter cannot bioloically be his. although he has brought her up as his own for the last 12 years.
He takes me to court for the stupidest things and when the court gave him in-direct contact , he would only contact the children a day or 2 before a court hearing, which have been nearly every few months. This time he has not been in contact for exactly 8 weeks now and i'm getting fed up with him pulling all the strings.
My solictor has advised me to agree to the DNA but i cannot see the point when we both know the result.
Becasue of my own upbringing we have not told my daughter about her paternity and YES i know you will judge me anyway, but i have to tell her the truth which i m prepared for (temper, anger possible hatred the whole nine yards) so wh do i have to put her through he pain of something we already know, won't that just cause her more pain than finding out we have led to her?

2007-09-16 01:52:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been in counseling for over a year because when I was pregnant I discovered that he was having an emotional affair. He is a very immature (think Johnny Knoxville) kind of a guy.

Last night, I found an email that he sent to a sales rep/friend of his. The subject was "Is this what you want?" no text in the body--- just an attachment--- a picture of the head of his penis really close up!!!! What does that mean to you?

So, I started looking at all his emails with this girl: One was an email from her that had a "love advice article" attached to help him. The text of her email said that she thought "your wife and your problem is your pride. I don't talk down to you & I never will." What does that imply to you?

I asked him about this crap, and he said that he wasn't having an inappropriate rltnshp with her. He seemed sincere. My gut is telling me that he was just being stupid & immature by sending the email.... But I think it looks bad from the outside.

2007-09-16 00:57:09 · 21 answers · asked by JennieM 2

2007-09-16 00:06:09 · 24 answers · asked by aly813 2