Marriage & Divorce - 30 September 2006

I suspect him of child moestestation, he does not give me half the affection I desire, he gets most of his kicks through porno, he does not help fix the house, although he is a carpenter by profession. The first reason I listed is why I am separated now, I could not stand living with him even suspecting, he would do that. although when we have sex it is satisfying, we rarely have it. I feel I would be better by myself. But I am , kind of afraid to divorce. Because, I don't know what I will get, in place of him. He does not want to divorce. He will stay married and separated if I will have him.

2006-09-30 11:44:07 · 31 answers · asked by deeyve 2

Or do they have the best of intentions to stay faithful......
I am writing a paper for my relationships class and I need some good answers. GROWNUPS ONLY!!!!!

2006-09-30 11:42:38 · 15 answers · asked by Dre 3

What do u think? I know its a crazy question!

2006-09-30 11:41:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

He said it alot and finally i stopped pill. The first time he was sooooo hot during sex then said i shouldn't have done that...i'd appreciate opinions. Was i wrong?

2006-09-30 11:39:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

He says he will be very turned on seeing me with other men...and he feels it will help our relationship. I have to say i'm leaning towards doing it....has anyone had this offer and followed thru on it?

2006-09-30 11:37:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have started to wear anklets. I've been told by a few men and women that the anklet on my right ankle symbolized i'm available, looking for black men, all kinds of things....i NEVER heard of this, anyone hear of these things?

2006-09-30 11:36:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every year my wife asks for tools ,guns,lawn equipment and other manly things,this year she wants a chain saw and wood splitter.How can I get her to stop wearing Big Smith overalls and start wearing dresses? I need your advice.

2006-09-30 11:34:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

He owes me like 30,000.00 dollars now

2006-09-30 11:29:34 · 16 answers · asked by mwha1369 4

I'm getting married soon, but he was married once before. It only lasted2 and a half years, and he didn't love her. Married her really, cause she asked him to. They didn't have a "real" marrige. But, I can't forget that he was married, and that I'm not his first wife!!!!
Help!!!

2006-09-30 11:19:17 · 25 answers · asked by MRS MCCRUM 1

What is love? Who made it up and why? Is it a universal law, or a stationary effect on the heart? Do we all need it, or can one live with out it?

2006-09-30 11:18:13 · 9 answers · asked by lifescircle 5

How old does a child have to be to decide who he/she wants to live with? Can he/she move to a different state with whichever parent he/she wants? Do you have to go to court if he/she can decide?

2006-09-30 11:16:08 · 5 answers · asked by white_dove521 1

other than yout breast or privet parts.

2006-09-30 11:12:37 · 22 answers · asked by lets talk 1

Mine was, I left my longer legs at at home,
Thats why im only 5 Feet 5 inches tonight.

2006-09-30 11:05:51 · 8 answers · asked by lets talk 1

My ex would like to make certain of the legality of providing bedrooms to our girls. His girlfriend and he share a one bedroom apartment where she also has visitation rights to her daughter- not custody.

2006-09-30 11:01:16 · 9 answers · asked by sunny_72973 1

He is pre-op male to female transexual on hormones, does electrolysis & has long hair. Our families don't know about my recent discovery yet. I've known for 6 months already. I'm in therapy. Not sure what to do yet. Help?

2006-09-30 10:56:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-30 10:51:45 · 24 answers · asked by jen s 1

OK, my husband told me that he had spoken with someone on the net that we knew. He was told by a friend of ours that aa girl was looking for him and wanted to talk to him, so he found her on myspace and had been messaging her. I got upset about it and told him. He said that he would stop talking to her. All this was yesterday. Today, I asked him if he had told her that I was uncomfortable with him and her talking, and he said he was waiting to do so untill she messaged him. That made me VERY mad. I told him if he cared about my feelings at all he would do it before she essaged him again. He said he wasn't going out of his way to do it. That made me even mader. I told him that that is saying that he doesn't care about my feelings in the matter. Was I right? He is going to message her. I am giving him three days to do it. But was I right in saying that? This was all about 20 minutes ago. I mean, he spends all of his time on his computer, it wouldn't have been THAT out of his way.

2006-09-30 10:34:06 · 16 answers · asked by gin 4

Me and my wife met over a year and a half ago in california. I went out there several times to be with her and was there a week or two at a time. We got married in august of last year. I was living in NC and we had planned on me finding a job and a place for us to live there in california because I did not want her to leave her family and moving there the first of january. She also has a 4 year old daughter that lives with her. Well the times I was not there we would usually talk on messenger when she was not busy while at work and then talk on the phone 2 or so times a day for sometimes hours at a time. we never fought or argued or had any problems at all. But after i went there in january I found out she was cheating on me since the end of december. the guy she with does not care about her daughter and is always accusing her of being with someone else because she comes home to see her daughter. He is a real a$$hole. I just dont understand why she did this.

2006-09-30 10:33:57 · 9 answers · asked by diamonddave7676 1

i had a GF for 7 years and we have a son together, everything was good until i sent her back home for the holidays early this year. apparently she was ' hanging out' with a guy abit too often and my friends informed me of this. everybody including her friends told her that this guy is no good, a looser and player. when she came back, i confronted her about this. she swore that nothing happened and i believed her. things were not smooth since. she neglected things and became more demanding and selfish. we got into a fight and i told her to go back and leave our son. a few weeks ago i found evidence that she had an affair with him, so i called her parents and officially broke off our relationship. i kept my son cause i have alot more to offer him (i am canadian while she is african). in terms of education, upbringing, etc. it has been 5 months now and my son doesn't even ask for her!! she is now officially with this guy.
my question is, why is she pissed off at me and being vindictive?

2006-09-30 10:31:41 · 17 answers · asked by ali k 1

I saw this online, anyone ever tried it or tried something similar to it?http://www.scentseduction.com/Androstenone_Pheromone_Concentrate.html

2006-09-30 10:29:39 · 7 answers · asked by Dreamyeyes 1

Even if you are fully aware the other parent has no income and can't finacially support the child(s) and you are not working or paying child support. but you do have a good relationship with the kids. Do you see this as morally wrong

2006-09-30 10:29:32 · 6 answers · asked by 2teens2todds 1

2006-09-30 10:27:09 · 26 answers · asked by KK 1

and tells me he isnt sure if he loves me or not, or other variations of this, this year he said he was in love with a girl he works with and then told me differently said he just got angry at me for catching him up in a lie and told me this intentionally to hurt me, they are best friends, he works with her, talks to her on messenger, all the time calls her and talks and says that she is his best friend and that nothings going on or ever went on with them. It sort of makes me feel bad that he gets along better with her then me, shes like the female version of him and they are so much alike... I try to keep the jealousy from interfering with our relationship and allow him to call her and stuff, Im even trying to be friends with the girl, anyway my question is, do you think that because of these breakdowns that he is going to leave me eventually in time because I feel that he might and im preparing myself for the worst, and should I think somethings going on and

2006-09-30 10:26:59 · 14 answers · asked by beautifullybroken 2

2006-09-30 10:25:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

wife cheated

2006-09-30 10:21:38 · 11 answers · asked by diamonddave7676 1

2006-09-30 10:15:33 · 15 answers · asked by bsd300d 2

how can the divorce be finalized w/out the other spouse knowing about the divorce??

2006-09-30 10:09:52 · 9 answers · asked by sweet7_happy9 1

I have been in Iraq for the past year and will return in November. I would like for my fiance to spend Christmas with me and my family but she would like to spend it with her family in her state. I am pissed that she is being so selfish when I would spend Christmas with her if the situation was in reverse. The last two Christames I have been without my parents and I want to be with them but I want to be with her. If it comes down to it, I will spend Christmas with her and her family, but I will miss my family. What do you think I should do?

2006-09-30 10:05:01 · 31 answers · asked by souplane21 2

2006-09-30 10:00:44 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

just recently i've noticed that all my hubby talks about when he gets home from work is a female co worker. you know "she said this or she said that or she did this & she did that" she also talks about her boyfriend & a couple of days ago we found out where he works or i did anyway my hubby probably already knew but he was all like "that's him thats her boyfriend" he was just moved from graveyard shift to evenings & he was pretty upset about it. he talkss to other people too but he always seems to bring her up. i've meet her once & she is pretty.

2006-09-30 09:57:13 · 18 answers · asked by amyabree 1