What do u think? I know its a crazy question!
2006-09-30 11:41:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes I know some of you think i'm stupid & crazy but believe me i'm not, i may be prone to dizzy moments my judgment has definitely been clouded of late and when i asked my q, btw i'm not desperate no no no, and i dont have an itchy crotch haha thanks v. much for all the answers even the horrible ones.. all have helped...i've decided not to roll the dice and will forget about him as he his pressuring me too much to marry him & common sense tells me he wouldn't do this if he truly love me as he says he does ;-)
2006-10-01 00:15:55 · update #1
You have basically asked this question twice and 2 other related questions. Basically you are not asking questions - you are hoping someone will tell you something that will allow you to make the choice that you want to make. The way you word your questions and the answer you chose as best answer to your first question spell things out.
1. Your heart, emotions and desires say to fling yourself into this relationship.
2. Your brain and intelligence are telling you to be smart, take it slow and not to make a fool of yourself.
There is no right or wrong answer. It's a gamble. Are you a gambler? Would you marry this guy if I said that the odds are 10 to 1 against this relationship working out? How about 5 to 1 against? That's the decision you are faced with.
Most people will tell you that you haven't know the man long enough. Others will tell you that long distance relationships rarely develop further so it's a "go or no go" situation.
My brain says to tell you don't do it because it's too much of a long shot. Yet my wife and I fell in love at first sight. So there you are.
Do you feel like rolling the dice?
addition: I'm sorry it didn't work out. I'm glad that circumstances occurred that made it easier for you to arrive at a decision that you are comfortable with and aren't going to spend time second guessing.
2006-09-30 11:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by Spiritual but not religious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!, it's crazy. You can't even know this guy well in 2 months. You have an itchy crotch that you have to get over. Marrying someone from a different culture takes a lot of investigation, and learning before you make that step.
2006-09-30 18:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO- absolutely not!!! Two years feel of each other will weed out what you really need to know about each other.How will he deal with this.Will he work? Is he a slob? You have had barely enough time to begin the courtship let alone marraige.
2006-09-30 18:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by I don't get it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are insane?....He is a goddamned muslim and after you get married he will treat you like you are property. Are you so pathetically desperate that you have to marry outside your culture? Give it at least a year if not more... this guy is just using you to get a green card or citizenship papers......God, you are stupid....
2006-09-30 21:50:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-09-30 18:51:00 · answer #5 · answered by DanaZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't marry Carol Burnett after only two months. Nine weeks maybe.
Vaya con DIOS
2006-09-30 18:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by chrisbrown_222 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! That'd be way too short a time with anyone, but w/someone who will have obvious cultural clashes w/you, you'd better find out what his values are first, like what he expects in a wife!
2006-09-30 18:44:37 · answer #7 · answered by Gwynneth Of Olwen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One to two years minumum. You want to be sure he's the one before tying yourself legally to someone from another country. This includes any potential future children, so make sure there arent any!
2006-09-30 18:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by bagoftwix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would give it a year before doing something serious like getting married.
2006-09-30 18:43:22 · answer #9 · answered by katie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. But you two should wait awhile before you get married, and get to know each other better.
2006-09-30 18:45:21 · answer #10 · answered by osembob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋