Marriage & Divorce - 30 September 2006

2006-09-30 14:43:05 · 28 answers · asked by living it 2

my fiancee treats me like crap(thats my say so anyway) he dont do anything with me or my son , and everytime i try to say something he says, here we go again, another night of bitching.. i dont know f he is trying to make himself look and feel better. i usually go out by myself because he is glued to the tv, i am tired of doing things by myself, and when i do go out he thinks i a cheating on him, i love him and would never cheat on him, but i am tired of him calling me a bar fly, and now calling me (whoring around) i cry and get upset and he says ... are you feeling sorry for yourself , go take a pill to calm you down,,,, i really dont know what to do

2006-09-30 14:40:11 · 21 answers · asked by wanda h 3

2006-09-30 14:35:08 · 21 answers · asked by kitkat 1

Due to the fact that my ex-wife is very difficult to deal with I'd rather not have anything to do with her or my child. My ex-wife is a Nurse Practitioner and earns over 150k per year so she really doesn't need my money. What can I do??

2006-09-30 14:32:03 · 35 answers · asked by jamesdperrino 2

ughhh im 18 and already scared out of my mind!

2006-09-30 14:30:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please, I need help. My girlfriend and I have been together for 22 years already since we were in 2nd grade. I have been friends with her since kindergarten. Our parents were friends. We were married. She filed a divorce. I know I didn't cheat on her. I am really sad that my wife left me. Is there a way to get over her? I know she is the perfect one for me. I heard that suicide is the best way to get out of life's problems a week ago. I am guessing after my death, it will be like 10 years before I was born but I cannot remember anything about 10 years before I was born since I didn't exist. I tried to kill myself recently. I need help. What would you do if you were me?

2006-09-30 14:26:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-30 14:21:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend has two preschoolers at home so she's at home and her husband works. Now, I can totally appreciate that while he's out working, she does the cooking and cleaning and laundry, etc, but my question is that if he makes a mess, should she have to pick up after him?
He leaves dishes in their bedroom, living room, outside... he can never take them back to the kitchen. He can't put his dirty clothes in the hamper. He never puts anything away after he finishes using it -no matter what it is.
It just seems to me that it's housekeeping to a point.
What HE does appears to be disrespectful and unappreciative.
I doubt he would do that in his mother's house!

Scratch that!
He probably DID do that in his mother's house.

2006-09-30 14:12:34 · 47 answers · asked by mamabunny 4

My father and my mother were married in korea and when they separated he and i came to the u.s. He got a divorce in louisiana but she was never served and never signed the papers...in korea they are still married but not in the u.s....... can she contest this divorce 20 years later

2006-09-30 14:07:14 · 6 answers · asked by clueless 1

Wouldn't it hurt really bad if the man you love with all your heart said "your slow"?

2006-09-30 14:01:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-30 13:56:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my husband for 10 yrs and we have 3 kids together but he has 7 in all. (9,7,7,4,4,1,1) If u look at the ages u would figuer it out. His dream was to have a baby from 3 different race one white, one black and spanish (me). We lived with it and had our ups and downs but it's ok with me. I just want to know if this is a true feeling that men have. It gives meaning to why they cheat and women should make the best of it and share there man and have fun doing it. true story

2006-09-30 13:51:33 · 30 answers · asked by cbrooklyn1227 1

My parents aren't but i know lots of my friends parents are devorced.

2006-09-30 13:46:58 · 26 answers · asked by Bee C 1

women and men, what are your opinions about having sex the night after u would return from a 3 week business trip. my g/f and i have a running arguement about this, i say that there is nothing unusual about this and she says that a normal man would not be thinking about sex as soon as he gets home after being gone 3 wks. I drive a truck and my company keeps me out for 3 wks then i get 4 days at home. i call several times a day, i always bring roses, cards take her to diner and if i find something cute i buy it with her in mind. eventhough i do want sex the instant im home i am willing to wait till we go to bed. OPINIONS PLS

2006-09-30 13:45:46 · 17 answers · asked by keithy 3

Well my boyfriend and I have together for 4yrs now and we use to have a great time then last yr we had a baby girl. Now i can't talk to a guy with out him saying im cheating. When we got into a fight he says you'll never find anyone better then me. putting me down. Then lately we were talking about moving to another state but i told him i want to wait because im have been going to school for my ged and been there for 6 or 7 months. He got all butt hurt and said you always make things diffacult for him, but lately he also been talking about how he wants to get back into drugs,"I will not allow it." Today we got into a agurement about me wanting to stay here and finish school, then he told me that if i dont move with him i'll never be able to make it on my own and always putting me down. It hurts me and when we get in big fight i don't know how to kick him out my self-steam is so low, i don't even know me anymore. He acts as if i have to put him first no matter what beside our baby.

2006-09-30 13:37:02 · 13 answers · asked by Christy 1

but have NO sex life. my husband always makes excuses: the pressure before the wedding, stress from work, the pregnancy...i'm deeply hurt and feel unatrractive and am not sexually satisfied. is there hope? can you fix it?
i'm madly in love with my husband and dont want to leave or cheat. suggestions?

2006-09-30 13:30:09 · 21 answers · asked by danar 1

2006-09-30 13:29:18 · 12 answers · asked by mom of 2 1

If you have property prior to the marriage, does a prenup protect you from your spouse taking it. Does it protect you from ever having to pay alimony or spousal support whatever you want to call it? Is their anything else it protects you from??????

2006-09-30 13:22:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been paying alimony to my ex wife since 1971.i am retired with a pension and ssi disability.he is also retired with a pension and ssi .she is finacially secure with bank accounts and a home that is paid off in full. My orignal new york state divorce decree stated that i pay till she dies or remarries. she has done neither, this is a littel far fetched to be paying for 35 years

2006-09-30 13:17:03 · 7 answers · asked by retdet216 2

I have never been married to the father of my baby (she is 9months old) and things have been going from bad to worse. He is a heavy drinker, threatens me constantly, has thrown alcohol in my face, has called me every name in the book so I have decided to leave to Texas where all of my family lives. My question is, does a single mother automactically have full custody? Someone told me that and i wasnt sure to believe them.

2006-09-30 13:06:16 · 14 answers · asked by LaBarbie 2

Our first born son i named William with the understanding she could name our second child, but she wants to name our daughter "wareyoat", thats her idea of cute because we will always want to know where she is at.HELP PLEASE!!!

2006-09-30 13:00:03 · 34 answers · asked by mr.bill 3

For your wedding how did you decide who walked down the aisle with who? Did you not care and just picked names. Did you base it off of heights, bodytypes, personalities, friends with certain ones so you matched them together if two in your party were friends....etc.

Explain how you matched your bridesmaids and grooms mens. There might be a tradion to this I'm not aware of.

Curious to read your responses thanks!

2006-09-30 12:54:29 · 8 answers · asked by Pam 5

It seems like the hardest thing to do is to break up with someone you've been with for years, always sleeping together and eating together, everything else you did together and whatnot. How did you pull through this situation? how long did it take you to get pass this emotional time and regain your happiness?

2006-09-30 12:39:32 · 16 answers · asked by Bitterly Sweet 3

a year ago we divorced and he and i have moved on. i have been in therapy for two years and it's helped me so much. our marraige was so bad, however we were very alike and we use to laugh alot, we were good friends. the problem was i was a bad wife, doing things i picked up from my mother.ok so there, i admit to being a bad wife. and yes she and i bad mouthed each other when i was going thru the divorce. but never to each others faces. infact i've NEVER met her! ever. i would call her names to my ex, and she would call me names to him. but thats crap that comes with divorce, regret and bad choices. my kids want to spend thanksgiving with both their parents. it's my year to have them for thanksgiving, so i sent out an invite. she declined saying she's not ready for that. umm isnt' that the ex wife's line? if i'm okay with it, why isnt she?she won, she got him, wheres the threat if the ex wife has moved on and is okay with get together with her ex and his wife??? am i missing something?

2006-09-30 12:38:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-30 12:35:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband lives in Arizona and i live in Texas, i have tried to contact him by email and phone but i cant get a repy from him. I want a divorse...how do i go about handling this situation?

2006-09-30 12:21:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello to all the sane people on the board-

2006-09-30 12:09:42 · 36 answers · asked by DanaZ 3

I know he'll love me for my vagina!

2006-09-30 12:07:27 · 22 answers · asked by DanaZ 3

lately i'm being flirted with a lot in public, when shopping. It turns me on but hubby is not "in the mood". I fear I'll act on this one day has anyone else ever have?

2006-09-30 11:54:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why would you tell your wife or fiance that you didn't want her doing your laundry because you didn't want to feel like she was waiting on you hand and foot, but you have no problem with her scrubbing your toilets, or cooking all of your meals, serving them to you and cleaning up all of the mess, taking care of the children and house and finances, etc.... You get the picture. Is it possible that he would be afraid of me finding something in his pockets that he would have forgotten to take out? I mean, he has no problem with me finishing his laundry (putting it into the dryer, folding it and putting it away), but told me he doesn't want me touching his dirty clothes. Any ideas???

2006-09-30 11:44:12 · 17 answers · asked by babs 1