2006-09-30 14:35:08 · 21 answers · asked by kitkat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Use a condom and a lot, of lube with an internal applicator. Some lubes come design with an applicator (Astroglige Anal Shooters or Spike Anal Lube) or you can buy an applicator alone (such as the Lube shooter for $12.95) and use your favorite lube. I’ll add links to some products to give you an idea.
To get some tips form Jack Morin, go here: http://www.sexuality.org/authors/morin/analrule.html
Also try the following: http://www.tootimid.com/sex_education/anal_sex/guide_to_anal_sex.htm
If you want to REALLY educate yourself about anal sex, read the following book. Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide for Men and Women by Jack Morin. Some describe this books as the best in the subject. I agree 100% with that statement. There even are some doctors that give advice online that recommend that book.
Astroglide Anal Shooters: http://www.condomania.com/prodinfo.asp?number=L-AG-SHTR
Lube shooter: http://www.adameve.com/slippery-sensations/anal-lubes/lube-shooter-pc-10293-685.aspx
Spike Anal Lube: http://www.sextoysex.com/sex/start/view.html?a=sfp&pnum=DJ1314-00
2006-10-01 10:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anal sex can hurt if rushed or forced. If you anticipate any pain, you can lube up A LOT with vaseline or and over the counter lubricant. Clear your bowels well first, and take a REALLY good shower. Be squeaky clean. Have your partner wear a condom and enter into you s-l-o-w-l-y, then move faster a little at a time. He should ask frequently how you feel.
It can feel good if you do it right. If you feel even the slightest bit uncomfortable, stop immediately. This is your body he's invading, and if you don't feel like it, stop.
2006-09-30 22:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Now i've never had and never will have anal sex,,but almost all my friends have and because of this i know that it hurts at first and its something you get used to,,and for the easing of the pain they sell some gels and creams that sorta numb it a lil..and make it easy for the penis to slide right in..the key to this is supposedly that the guy has to take his time to put it in..slowly ..so hope this helps and goodluck..
2006-09-30 21:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yes it hurts, but only if you let it hurt. try getting extremely horny and relaxing, make sure you use some kind of lubricant, first start with something small, like a toy from an adult store and then gradually work your way up to your man's body part, as long as you are relaxed and open minded, you should enjoy it and maybe even beg for more!
2006-10-01 04:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by Tanya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What about conventional sex for a start! I heard some girls prefer anal sex to protect virginity. If it is the case, then use extra lubricant-woman on top!
2006-09-30 21:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes it hurts......at first.u can stop the pain by lubricating ur anus & make sure the guy uses a condom...it will still hurt 4 a couple of minutes if he starts off slow.....then u can get into it & itsjust like sex.
2006-09-30 21:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by PinkLove6 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes it can hurt. You must go VERY slow...and also be VERY excited. Use LOTS...and I mean LOTS of lube! It can be a very erotic sensation for a women but he MUST go slow. If at anytime you say stop....enough....he must stop! The membrane in the anus is very thin and can be torn easily thus he must be gentle. Make sure that this is REALLY something you want to try...because if you are at all up tight about it it will hurt.
Good luck and try to relax....but MAKE sure he knows....STOP is STOP....not slow down....not wait....STOP!
2006-09-30 21:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by oldman 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes anal sex hurts but i found this numbing jell that you can buy in these adult stores find it buy it then try it i bet you want hurt again but if you can't find it then use petrolum jelly that will help if he is gentle
2006-09-30 21:53:01 · answer #8 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
got make sure you good and ready there should be alot of foreplay, make sure you clean back there too, i like to lick it massage it and get it a finger in there before going in head first, i never had a lady say i hurt them, but you got to get couple orgsam in you frist this will loseing you up to.
2006-09-30 23:04:59 · answer #9 · answered by trucker 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it hurts, but next time use some lubrication. to stop the pain give it some time it'll go away.
2006-09-30 21:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by Ruth R 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋