women and men, what are your opinions about having sex the night after u would return from a 3 week business trip. my g/f and i have a running arguement about this, i say that there is nothing unusual about this and she says that a normal man would not be thinking about sex as soon as he gets home after being gone 3 wks. I drive a truck and my company keeps me out for 3 wks then i get 4 days at home. i call several times a day, i always bring roses, cards take her to diner and if i find something cute i buy it with her in mind. eventhough i do want sex the instant im home i am willing to wait till we go to bed. OPINIONS PLS
2006-09-30 13:45:46 · 17 answers · asked by keithy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband is in the Army and he was gone for 40 days training for his deployment. The morning I picked him up, we took a shower when we got home (it'd been like 2 weeks since he got to shower), and then he pushed me into the bedroom and gave me the best time of my life! I think it would be odd if a man didn't think about sex all the time. He said that while he was gone, all he thought about was doing it!! When he's home, he "honks" my boob every time we pass each other, sometimes he comes over just to grab my boob, then go back to what he's doing! Honeslty, I feel bad that I'm not in the mood as often as he is, but yes, when he's been gone a while, I'm prepared to do it several times that very day he gets home! I hoped this helps!
2006-09-30 13:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by afafae25 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
EVERY MAN thinks about sex his first night home - from anywhere... or every night actually :o)
Many men are not faithful but you are out on the road and stay faithful to the woman that you love and the time apart makes you miss her and want her more.. Maybe there is a reason -is it just at this time or are there other times she does not want to - could be a hormone change, medication, or maybe she needs more from you in bed.. not saying anything here.. Next time, change it up - do something new perhaps - You sound like a sweet man who has a big heart and cares about her very much - she is lucky to have a man like you and I am sure you are also lucky to have her..
They want to be fed, have sex and sleep - that is all they want from us.. haha :o)
2006-09-30 13:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry after 3 wks of my man being away. He would be sore by the time he was going back to work. As soon as he got home I would want sex.
2006-09-30 13:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the couple have been together for a time and really care enough about each other to want what's good for her or him, I cannot understand why having or not having sex for ONE particular night is the biggie some are making it. If she wants to make love, you can tell, no? If she does not, maybe she doesn't feel like it or is unwell. Or, just throw her on the bed and take her. They like that. Also, if your wife would assume you are cheating 'cause you didn't feel like hittin' it one night, then you're screwed anyway, dude. J,C.! I give up. __ Rat
2006-09-30 14:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by Raptor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure - the man comes home a conquering hero. Alas - the woman has handled everything for 3 weeks. She needs a bit to let down her emotional walls again. She needs to check if you are the same sweet hunk she loves. She needs to know she meets your approval as a gf not just a piece.
Normal to want sex. Sure. Beyond normal to be sensitive to her desires. It is all about rhythm...follow hers and the melody is all the sweeter.
2006-09-30 13:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd feel some kind of way about that. She should be jumping all over you, cooking, giving you a massage, a bath, etc. Is she not a sexual person normally? This will mess with your ego and make you think she's messin around and rightfully so. Good luck.
2006-09-30 13:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by TIRED 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a women and I think that it is okay to want to have sex after a trip like that i know that is what would be on my mind
2006-09-30 13:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything wrong with you wanting to have sex if you have been away from your mate for extended periods of time.
Hell if my man was gone for a while and he didn't want it when he came back I would think he has gotten his elsewhere.
You are not wrong and she needs to realize that.
Maybe she has had her toll and needs to recuperate
Good Luck
2006-09-30 13:49:48 · answer #8 · answered by miss_lady6980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And what planet is she from? Yes, it is perfectly normal for a man to want sex after he has been without it for three weeks at a time. And if it has been three weeks, why the heck isn't she as anxious as you are?
2006-09-30 15:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
humans are sexual beings...it is a very necessary for the health of the relationship to have sex. Think of it this way...when your little child wants a drink of water...get that kid a drink of water...if your child wants you to read to them...get it over with read to them...then they are satisfied and will go off to play...same thing with sex...open the door hi, honey I'm home..jump each others bones, then go out and talk about your life together over dinner!
Sex first in marriage...even quickies are better then wining and dinning only to end up passing out unsatisfied!
2006-09-30 14:11:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋