Marriage & Divorce - 30 September 2006

I have a kid aged 8 years I dont get enough support from my Ex husband thus why I want to get the certificate and his married two years ago.

2006-09-30 02:30:39 · 6 answers · asked by margret chavula 1

2006-09-30 02:14:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-30 02:02:33 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well i've been having a realtionship with her for nearly 3yrs now. But things started to changed when i started to move out from her country and earn a living into another country. Things are getting cold between us. We put hope but everythings seems to be dying.

There are not trust in between as our relationship had started in lies. How to tell nicely that i would like to stop the realtionship even though it is hard for both of us.

2006-09-30 01:50:23 · 8 answers · asked by Marlon Yahoo 1

2006-09-30 01:45:31 · 18 answers · asked by bor_rabnud 6

My husband recently moved out because he was having an affair that he just couldn't end. We had a talk the other day and this is what he said.

He said that since we were married for so long, that it's hard for him to stay away from me and our daughter. He says that it is hard for him to stop wanting to take care of us and he still wants to be the father/husband figure in our lives (for instance he wants to rake our leaves this fall).

He says that there are days that he feels bad for everything that he has done. He cheated on me and then did it behind my back. He also says that he doesn't know if it's right to be with his girlfriend now. But he just won't let her go either.

I am at a loss now. Somedays I do want him around, but I could never trust him again. I still want him to be a part of my daughter's life though. But what is going on with him?

2006-09-30 01:35:44 · 19 answers · asked by blue eyes 2

At what point is it ok to have an affair. I have had no sex with my wife in 6 years. Does that mean al bets are off?

2006-09-30 01:34:10 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

A few years ago I got too friendly with another woman. My wife found out has lost trust in me. She thought I was cheating on her, but I wasn't. I lot of time has passed since then and but evey once in a while, my wife will bring it up out of the blue and it will cause a fight or the silent treatment for a while. I don't think she'll evey get over it. What should I do?

2006-09-30 01:32:24 · 11 answers · asked by Mustafa 5

2006-09-30 01:28:10 · 8 answers · asked by NG 2

2006-09-30 01:08:53 · 15 answers · asked by carol p 1

I wrote a couple weeks ago, wanting to leave my husband of 20 years, lots of screaming at me and the kids, controlling issues, etc. WELL, I told him I wasn't happy- big leap for me!! He needed to be told 4 times over a week before he really believed there was a big problem. I told him I was sick of the way we lived, I'd leave , we could share custody of the 16 YO. NOW he wants to know what he can do, buy me a new diamond?, How can he change? What will it take? Here is where I need help.
After all these years of fighting, the yelling and controlling behavior
I just feel done here. I feel bad, as he's said I'm his "whole world".
He's walking around with the "heartbroken look" and I am starting to feel bad for him. I don't feel the same about him, still have some love for him, but not "in love" with him.
Well, why didn't he realize this before? Too many years of unhappiness and I feel if I stay, he'll just revert at a later time and nothing will change. Why do I feel bad?

2006-09-30 00:49:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have had a VERY strained realationship the last few years. Everything from major health issues (I had cancer diagnosed only a couple months after we were married) to financial issues, running a family business together, two children under 3 and his mother passed away a few months ago.

He syas he needs space to figure out what he wants. He won't talk to me about anything. He says I amhis best friend etc but not "in" love with me...ever! He syas he loves me and the kids buit doens't feel connected to any of us. He says I would be better off to find somene else who could show me love. What he means is that he can't enjoy any good things. Playing with the children, doing things as a couple etc.

He is gone to our friends wedding (he is in it) this week. I promised I would not call or write but it is so hard. My heart physcially is aching in my chest.

I can't focus on the kids (I'm on here aren't i?) What do I do?

2006-09-30 00:49:06 · 15 answers · asked by Sandra C 2

2006-09-30 00:30:19 · 26 answers · asked by kingfo_2000 1

What would make you hold on to your life together when you know that you will never trust your partner again.

2006-09-30 00:11:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-30 00:07:40 · 25 answers · asked by kathiewillis 1