2006-09-30 00:30:19 · 26 answers · asked by kingfo_2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honestly, yes I do. I don't necessarily believe in being overly promiscuous early on in a relationship, but once you are serious and committed, I not only see nothing wrong with it, I actually think its a good idea to make sure that you are compatible sexually, both physically and mentally. Remember the old saying that when the sex is good in a relationship, its 10% of the relationship, but when the sex is bad, its 90% of the relationship. My feelings are that before getting married, you need to explore *every* factor in a relationship, and sex is definitely a factor.
2006-09-30 00:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by Akane 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You know, when I was 18, I thought No WAY should people have sex before marriage. Now (older than 18 and 3 marriages later), YES, you most certainly want to be sure you are compatible in that regard before marriage. I'm not advocating sex on the first date, because then it will cloud your ability to get to know a person. So wait until you know this is a serious relationship in your life, but don't marry before taking it out on a test drive. Sex isn't the only thing about marriage, but it is an important part.
2006-09-30 00:51:15 · answer #2 · answered by Arlene06 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing more precious than waiting for your wedding night and learning about sex together.
It's a perfect plan. You are both innocent and without expectations. You have known no other so there is no comparing.
When you love someone sex is an extension of that love and it is only one of the many important aspects of a marriage.
Waiting for marriage to have sex is a beautiful gift you can give to each other. It's a one time gift you don't want to waste on someone who pressures you to go against what you believe.
Now if you've already decided that you want sex before marriage than just use protection and be safe.
We are all sexual by nature and it is up to each of us individually how we choose to express ourselves.
It does trouble me when I hear of teens as young as 13 having sex. When I was 13 I was still playing with dolls and didn't even know what sex was. Times they are a changing!
2006-09-30 01:14:39 · answer #3 · answered by easinclair 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes I do and this is why. there are people that wait OK, and when they do end up having sex they either are not compatible or one of them doesn't like the way the other does it, or one does not satisfy the other, sex is all about getting to know one another inside and out so to speak, its part of a relationship and an important one at that. there are People that will scream religious beliefs at me over this but everyone is entitled to their opinion and i respect others as they respect mine but to be honest so many marriages fail due to problems with sex surely it makes sense to find these things out before you commit fully to one another. then perhaps the divorce rate would not be so high
2006-09-30 00:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do I believe 'on' it? Hmmm. Sex before marriage is fine yes, good even, you have to live a little before you settle down!
2006-09-30 00:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you believe in trying on a pair of jeans before you commit to living with them for the next year?
Do you believe in test driving a car before you commit to living with it for the next 5 years?
Don't you think you might want to kick the tires, inquire about past accidents and go for a test spin before you commit to living with your mate for life???
My answer is yes... Sorry for the commentary ;)
2006-09-30 00:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by Juble 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well just consider that if you do not give sex to a man, wheather he loves you or not, he will just get it with another woman.
this is one thing that has no boundries or religion. wheather he is a catholic, a muslim or a jew...a man will always want sex and he will even pay for it if he does not get it free.
now it's up to you...either you accept that he is getting wanked off behind your back, or well you just behave like a normal woman and have a great and clean sexual relationship with your man.
halleluia...
2006-09-30 00:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by Mr ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok just imagine the horror of really bad sex with the man you just committed to live the rest of your life with? Don't want no short short man!lol
2006-09-30 00:43:32 · answer #8 · answered by Hollygood 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes we like to have sex before we get marriage??
2006-09-30 00:32:37 · answer #9 · answered by David Davis 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well,of course, this 2006, not 1930. Would you buy a car without test driving it?
2006-09-30 00:33:17 · answer #10 · answered by dolphinroc 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋