2006-09-30 02:02:33 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, that's totally tacky and thoughtless of her to say such a thing. It's something she should be telling her best girlfriend, not you.
2006-09-30 02:05:58 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask her some crazy question like, "am I the best lover you ever had" and she just gave you an honest answer.
Or is she just pointing this out on her own to make you feel bad? That is cruel and not a very loving thing to do.
Sometimes it's better to "Don't Ask and I won't Tell".
Might I suggest www.tantra.com. Take some classes together on sexuality and find out more about each others needs. Communication is important.
Peace and happiness.
2006-09-30 09:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by easinclair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is very rude and should never say such a thing to another man, especially her husband. When you are married sex is more incredible then with anyone you have ever had. The love makes it feel even better. She needs help !!
2006-09-30 09:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by Pretty Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Little story here...my husband has a definite insecurity problem. Was constantly accusing me of still being in love with my ex husband, of which i am not. In a very heated argument one day, i told him that my ex was better in bed...knowing full well that NO ONE HAS EVER BEEN IN GOOD IN BED AS MY HUSBAND IS!!! He never forgot it. I crushed him. Words can kill. I regret that. We are seperated now, and i may never get to be in bed with my husband again, and that, my friend crushes me. I apologize to him. and i know that must have hurt you.
2006-09-30 09:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by Elly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Angels fly because....
They take things LIGHTLY.
If she's bringing this up as a challenge, take it.
If she's doing to upset you, then there's more to sex to the equation.
If she's doing it casually, surprise her and make her forget about her ex for a sec.
And as far as getting upset: She's married to you. And you just slept with her. So worry not. She's with you for a reason.
2006-09-30 09:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by Mario E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why he was so much better. Find out something he would never do for her and do it. Don't get upset, just work on your repertoire. She married you for better for worse. If she thinks she deserves so much better in bed, then let her show you what she wants. Take the lesson and get better.
2006-09-30 09:13:00 · answer #6 · answered by Jessie P 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. It shows a particular lack of caring and respect for your feelings. It doesn't seem like a very loving thing to say to the one you're supposed to care about the most.
2006-09-30 09:16:16 · answer #7 · answered by mkjhfiuy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be. We're not born great lovers, it is taught and learned. If you listen to her while love making, it is likely you will see what pleases her. Are you taking the time to listen to her at these times?
2006-09-30 09:06:18 · answer #8 · answered by ctsmtntop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True shes not being very sensitive,but I suspect that it was more of an attempt to strike back or retaliate for something you might of said or done. You might be working on the wrong problem?
2006-09-30 09:07:43 · answer #9 · answered by Ben 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, She should not even think of her past lovers like that.
2006-09-30 09:39:00 · answer #10 · answered by dohm84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋