ughhh im 18 and already scared out of my mind!
2006-09-30 14:30:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you could spend it with the cops when you plan to jump off a bridge on christmas eve.
dont forget your nose plug
2006-09-30 14:34:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Dear, I´m 34 and still single. I have a wonderful life, a fulfilling job, a close relationship with my family, I have developed financial stability on my own, I´m good looking and I a great group of friend to rely on. At 18 you should focus on growing to be a strong, healthy and happy woman and the right man will come along. If I ever get to spend Christmas on my own I will probably serve food for the poor so I feel that I am doing something for others. Consider that a possibility.
2006-09-30 22:54:24 · answer #2 · answered by zocotroco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are lots of People alone on Christmas got to a nursing home and bring some cheer to those who probably wont get a lot of visitors, or even the hospital. You do have family you can spend it with dont you? And If all else fails you can always come to Georgia and spend it with me and my family. My ex always said always room for one more.
2006-09-30 22:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering your age, why are you soooo scared? Where do you spent it now? That would be that last thing I'd be thinking about as an 18 year old. Are you serious! Seriously, quit over reacting about something that hasn't even happened yet.
2006-09-30 21:49:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to get married just because you are lonely and Christmas is coming not a good idea.
Make sure you want to get married because you are ready for long-term commitment. The best peace is the peace within yourself. Do you have a family, favourate holiday destinations or cousins to spend?
2006-09-30 21:36:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
eventually you will find the right guy that you will fall in love with and marry but until then think about beening wi th your family on the holidays because believe me if my parents where still alive it didn't matter if i was married or not i would always be with my family just always remember family is going to be there before anyone else will
2006-09-30 21:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 18 and panicing way too early.. some people dont get maried till their 30s. dont try and rush into a relationship just b/c your scared you will never have one..you will end up in nothing but a disaster. you will find someone, and no matter what you always have your family or friends to spend time with.
2006-09-30 21:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
that's not a good enough reason to marry young lady! with thoughts like that you'll scare the guys away! sounds like you want to have a man to share the holidays with instead of the fam. look for him at a coffee shop after the thanksgiving holiday. there should be plenty of guys there to check you out.
2006-09-30 21:44:55 · answer #8 · answered by Ruth R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol its something to worry about yeah, but you are only 18 sweetie. You have time to find the one to spend christmas with by the fireplace exchanging gifts while drinking hot chocolate. Take it easy, good luck hun!
2006-09-30 21:38:32 · answer #9 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mean "spend" "spent" is past tense. Anyway you shouldn't be worried about getting married, spend Christmas with friends or family.
2006-09-30 21:39:45 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 18 and you're scared out of your mind? (LOL) well, you need to quit it.
you'll have plenty of friends and you always have yourself. you can fix your place up and invite friends over and when the time is right, you'll have a place with your husband.
chill out and Merry Christmas!
2006-09-30 22:33:14 · answer #11 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋