2006-09-30 10:51:45 · 24 answers · asked by jen s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
they are never satisfied with one person they always want something new, fresh, and exiting
2006-09-30 10:55:23 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a sexist question. How about why do PEOPLE cheat. My granny used to say (bless her sould) some folks will pay to lie when they could tell the truth for free.
Its the thrill. Lack of self control. Lack of respect for the relationship. They dont feel they have much to lose. They are depressed or unstable. They just act that way because they want to. They have been hurt in th epast and have no respect for the opposite sex, they have fear the other will cheat so they are doing it to then first.
They are sex addicts. They arent getting something at home they want or think they need. Revenge, Lack of self esteem. They think they are so smart they will get away with it. They fancy themselves POLYAMOROUS (you can google that one, but i call it just another word for man ho, or ho)
As in the animal kingdom, some animals are monogomous, some arent. In the human world, some are some arent. There are an infinite amount of reasons why they do, but I say the main reason is they were not afraid to lose and the consequences didnt make them afraid enought to refrain. As in all things, we weigh the risks.
2006-09-30 10:59:08 · answer #2 · answered by Hillary Dillary 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mostly for the excitement and the fact that they think they can get away with it! They will say they are not getting it at home but in most cases this is a lie! there is no room in a real love relationship for cheating!
2006-09-30 10:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men and women cheat for a lot of different reasons, unhappy in their relationship, testing the waters, low self esteem, to see if they still have it and of course to see if they can get away with something. I personally like to fantasize about cheating, but never really would.
2006-09-30 10:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ingrained in their biology. Men seek quantity, while women seek quality in a single mate. Men have a greater reproductive capacity and can impregnate several females, while women can only reproduce once every 9 months. It's the same throughout most of the animal kingdom.
2006-09-30 10:55:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men dont have the monoply on cheating. Women can be just as bad. It's not a matter of gender. But rather simply a lack of morals.......and lack of respect.
2006-09-30 11:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh i can answer that question since my fiance told me just how he could cheat on me...well it's either because they don't think there geting enough from their girlfriends from before or that their think the other girl is awhole lot beautiful or whatever or is awhole lot better in bed no offence i'm just telling you what my fiance told me when it happend to me.but i wish you look you'll find someone else better then him.
2006-09-30 10:56:19 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not just men who cheat women do it too. the reason both cheat is there r problems in there relationship and they chose not to deal with it with there significant other and go outside the relationship intead of dealing with the problems. its a lack of control, there r self esteem issues or problems and other reasons bhind why they do what they do.
2006-09-30 10:59:16 · answer #8 · answered by smiley283 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my case my wife lost interest in sex and I pulled away from her as she got madder and madder at me. Now I have found out she is having an affair and she wont sleep with me at al. I believe that we all have a capacity to cheat. Most people at one time or another have considered cheating. Its when you put yourself into a position (hanging out at bars, flirting with coworkers) that you begin to admit your ready to cheat
2006-09-30 11:02:47 · answer #9 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men have there reasons but it could be they think you are cheating or they are just well rude but it does not make it right. if its happening or happend to you just find a better trust worthy guy thats all i can say sorry
2006-09-30 10:56:48 · answer #10 · answered by Xlive_love_dieX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People cheat because they do not love and respect the person they are with!
2006-09-30 10:55:46 · answer #11 · answered by B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋