He says he will be very turned on seeing me with other men...and he feels it will help our relationship. I have to say i'm leaning towards doing it....has anyone had this offer and followed thru on it?
2006-09-30 11:37:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To me your hubby has some chick on his eyes and want to have a rendezvous along with you, but cant, jus because of you. So he has first offered you a role to play in the sequence and awaiting his turn to play it next. Await his next offer of you watching him doing to this gal. Its your life and you have to decide to play bold or play subtle. Best of luck, anyway.
2006-09-30 11:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by fantasyland 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have had the offer.. No I didn't go threw with it.. Once you bring someone else in your marriage its really going to go down the drain.. NO respect, NO trust. Do you really think by bring someone else in is going to correct the problem in the first place.. That will turn on you based on your the one cheating. How do you really know how your husband is going to act watching another man screwing his WIFE you belong to him.
We can say a lot of things until its put in our face.. I think you need to find out what is the problem that is causing the break down in your marriage and work the unconditional love and keep it sealed. You can bring toys and other items in your marriage between you to..
Your married all those extra;s should of been done before you said I DO...Don't change yourself for someone else THINK this will help crap
2006-09-30 18:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You better think really serious about this one. How the hell is it going to save your relationship when you ruin your morals and values right in front of him. This is still called cheating no matter the reason and since youre the one doing it, he can throw this in your face later. You will regret this if you do. Id say if your relationship is damaged this far, youd be better off finding a different partner. Good luck
2006-09-30 18:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i have never had this offer. but my husband is trying to get me to see another girl with him there. lol.. Sicko. he said it will turn him on. sorry he can except you the way you are.. And how is that going to make it right with you to. lol its like saying. he can be with another girl..(with the same excuse) lol.. wow it looks like men found out a way for their girlfriend to allow them to cheat.. lol. Thats just not right. lol you two swingers. thats the next thing you will suggest i betcha. ohh yeah and i wont go through with my husbands offer. and he understands.
2006-09-30 18:41:53 · answer #4 · answered by Jewelz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, as a man, I have not. If my wife asked me to have sex with another woman while she watched, I would be interested, but would have to consider the long term ramifications to our relationship and marraige. If your marraige isn't strong, then it won't survive this. If it is on the rocks, he may be trying to set you up for divorce, and go for full custody of your kids on the basis of your infidelity.
2006-09-30 18:41:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'd be surprised by how turned on he is. My girlfriend and her husband tried it on his suggestion and after it happened he could not stand to look at her and they were divorced 5 months later. All he could say to her was he was sorry he ask her to do it. He did not know he was going to feel that way.
2006-09-30 18:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People don't take marriage seriously these days yall are married how could he be okay with his wife having sex with someone else I don't think you should do it that will just cause problems and eventually end with a divorce think about it seriously before you do anything
2006-09-30 18:41:57 · answer #7 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it and really show the "new guy a great time,don't allow hubby to be involved in any way except watching "just for thr first time"suggest the second time he can video and participate and anything he wants.But the first time he must agree to your rules so you can get comfortable.and i mean do it all with the new guy,when you are finished hand hubby divorce papers.
2006-09-30 20:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by looken4answers 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some couples do this if they BOTH want it. Not just him.
It carries a lot of risks and ruins many marriages. Tell him no if you're not comfortable doing it.
My friend's marriage ended because if something similar.
2006-09-30 23:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men who love there wives do not want to see them with another man! One word DIVORCE - as soon as possible.
2006-09-30 18:40:47 · answer #10 · answered by B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋