Or do they have the best of intentions to stay faithful......
I am writing a paper for my relationships class and I need some good answers. GROWNUPS ONLY!!!!!
2006-09-30 11:42:38 · 15 answers · asked by Dre 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, not only men cheat women do too, sorry didn't mean to sound sexist or anything.
2006-09-30 11:47:03 · update #1
C'mon people, I'm trying to research, help a girl in need.
2006-09-30 11:49:00 · update #2
Yes I do believe that they have all the intention of being faithful, but they don't have the depth that women have. yes it is true that women also cheat. I have come to know from a few of my cheating female freinds that it is most times a call of the card, thing. Men do it simply because it boost thier egos (I'M STILL HOT SO WHY NOT)
Women do it for reasons that are much deeper. If the person you are with does'nt give you the sence of wanting (not needing,, men are very needy) you for the Person you are.If he takes for granted the simple small things that put satisfaction in your life EX: a perfectly splendid meal. This what a wife becomes!, & HE GRUNTS these are not the potatoes he likes. Then a woman will wander for self esteeme. The difference between the two is she looks to him to approve. It's programed into us. so if she doesn't get that from him she maybe will wander. Men however don't need a valid excuse. They make up this profile of the women there with in comparison to their mothers. Of course you never live up to that. And they become disgrunteled,unsatisfied and the slightest blink of an eye in ther direction gets there teststoterone moving.The other reality to this is there are more young women seeking mature, settled, "safe" zone guys than there are young guys doing the same. So the playing field for men of all ages is open grounds. Look at the men in middle age in the sports car remarring girls their daughters age. So yeah I guess that maybe a % of them marry with good faith, the other % marry thinking that they can always move on.Maturity is the key. And alot of men stop mentally growing the year that they got their first errection. PS You dont have to be married to have morals, commited is commited. Fedelity is a choice. We learn right from wrong back when. Its the understanding of the consquence that men don't understand.
2006-09-30 12:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by quite contrary 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What men? There are all different types of men, women also cheat. I would assume the answer would be yes, no and maybe. Some men definitely know they can't fix their self esteem and they like their quick fix - they do go into the marriage knowing they will cheat. My ex-husband's brother actually made out with a girl on his wedding night (not his wife). These are seemingly responsible and religious people who married. (and who are not married now I'll add.)
I'm sure other men want to stay faithful, and some don't even think about what they'd do. I'd suggest looking at some of the studies they have about those who cheat.
2006-09-30 11:49:32 · answer #2 · answered by DanaZ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men plan to stay faithful, until you wives decide to either stop having sex or use it as a tool to get what you want. Then, and only then, does nature take over. Women won't like to hear this, but if it wasn't for the other women, there would be a lot more divorces.
2006-09-30 12:41:49 · answer #3 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Some men get married because they know they have a good woman and he doesn't want her to get tired of waiting for him to make that move. So he makes her happy by marrying her knowing all along that the next chance he has he will cheat.
2006-09-30 19:07:55 · answer #4 · answered by delightfullyblended 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK the man knows if he can be faithful it's a CHOICE they make to screw someone else. it's a personality defect called no morals no valuers Goes for the women to. It's there at the start of marriage. I FIRMLY think most men would cheat if they could without risk of getting caught.
2006-09-30 11:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally believe that MOST men, given the opportunity, would cheat if they felt they wouldn't be caught. Realize tho..that there are tons of women out there that have no qualms about trying to turn a married man on.
2006-09-30 11:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by Wolf 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think most couples go into marriage with the best of intentions. Why do it if you know you are interested in other women. Don't confuse interested in other women with the checking out of outer women. Two different things.
2006-09-30 11:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by sdo3lg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have the best of intentions to stay faithful but when the going gets tough in the marriage....they get weak if there is an opportunity
2006-09-30 11:49:47 · answer #8 · answered by cino_bean 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course they do. Some are cheating during the ceremony.
2006-09-30 12:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by luvngran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a couple are really in love (not lust--but love) they won't WANT to cheat on each other. Good luck!
2006-09-30 11:45:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋