Marriage & Divorce - 20 September 2006

so hey maybe shes not gay i guess i should just leave her alone i dont want to seem weird or crazy but seriously she was beautiful and well what can i say she was different but hey im only 18 and well i have been trough alot so i ghess i just maybe dont know what i want but i think girls are so sweet just liek me i mean im girly and always exciting but i love having sexd with a male and well i dont think a women could please me or am i wrong go ahead and give your advice

2006-09-20 03:27:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my sister got married last month to a great guy. but the guy has baggage. he has a kid in barbados and the mother is almost milking them dry. the woman lied about having a job, and ket calling and demanding money to feed and support the child. so finally my sister investigated and found out that the woman has been a cop there for about 3 years, and has just been lying to them all along.

My sister says she feels hatred for the woman, and she wants to call her and tell her that she will get $200 US per month, and when she pays the school fees the woman will have to survive on the surplus.

She confides in me sometimes and tells me that she hates that her hubby has a child. And she hates that he chose such a ridiculous woman to get involved with.

He tries to console her, but she keeps slippign into this weird kind of anxiety where she just really hates that he was with this other woman...enough to get a child.

She says sometimes she feels as if she wants to have a child with him, to...

2006-09-20 03:24:34 · 5 answers · asked by Briseis 1

2006-09-20 03:22:24 · 13 answers · asked by Phantom of the Opera 4

My husband treats me like my feeling and wants aren't important and when I do try to tell him how he's acting he just doesn't care. Now I just go day by day try to make sure he's happy cause my happiness doesn't seem to matter. All he cares about are his drug addict friends and hanging out with them while I sit at home lonely. I'm just so misreble! Please help!!!!

2006-09-20 03:21:23 · 24 answers · asked by Asia 4

I partially saw something similar on one of those TV court shows, I think divorce court. I didnt keep it there long enough to hear if it was considered an irreconcilible difference.

2006-09-20 03:16:53 · 29 answers · asked by High? 6

when i went to this mall last weekend to return a dress i completely fell for this girl i mean i really would consider her but i dont know if she is a lesbian but she seemed to look like 1 how do i aproach her

2006-09-20 03:16:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm the one with the fiance that calls a certain girl 6 or more times a month. I tell him that he has been dreaming about her and ask him why. I asked him last night if he had talked to her or if he was thinking about her or worried about her for some reason and all he answered was, "Babe, I don't want her. The only person I want is you." So I said that maybe I was just being a weirdo and he said, "yeah, you are.". But before I had the conversation with him I had checked his calls and he called her 3 times. Once at lunch and two more times after work before he got home. Also the night before he called her again right before he got home at around 10:15 and he got home at 10:36. I really don't know what to think or do now. I wrote him an email asking him if he has talked to her, if she has called him and when was the last time he talked to her. If he tells me that he hasn't called her then I know he is lying.

2006-09-20 03:15:44 · 25 answers · asked by Vanessa M 1

That two people love each other so much at their wedding and hate each other so much at their divorce?

2006-09-20 03:11:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi all, I need help because I am at a crossroad here. I have a boyfriend that I have been in an intimate relationship over 2 years.
I think I found my husband, no I know I found him. But we are having problems in the friend department. I have some friends that I have been cool with for a yearor so....my co-workers.
I am glad were are friends because I really didnt have too many.
We hang alot and have fun. But my boyfriend is from my hometown but he works out of state but not too far because we can drive back and forth to see each other, which we have. But he doesnt like the fact that my friends are single and they go out alot he thinks they dont respect our relationship, he doesnt mind us goin out but he doesnt like that we go bar-hopping, he says we should do something else. Because of his work I see him 2 or 3 times a month. I dont like how he wants all of my attention when he comes home even if I want to do something with my friends.

2006-09-20 03:09:12 · 10 answers · asked by Dawn K 1

2006-09-20 03:05:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-20 03:04:20 · 21 answers · asked by DiL 3

...in terms of a love relationship, where the man & wife had committed there lifes to each other and one of the parties eventually decided to separate and divorce (while the innocent party had done all he/she could do to live an honest life) ...is`nt it the same as treason against that person ?

What would be the punishment for treason ?

Love is supposed to endure ALL circumstances, does`nt it

2006-09-20 03:03:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just found them this morning after he took a shower

2006-09-20 02:53:17 · 18 answers · asked by glow4833 1

when she was 16 yrs. she got married, since that she suffering from her In-laws and husband she got 2 kids, she has been treated like a maid at home and for husband she is just for a bed use. Any ways she want to get ridd off this relation, where there is no peace no joy, now one of our relative is ready to marry her, now people they started talking bad about her that how she can leave her husband and marry another person,,, my opinion is why not, why she cannot marry, she has no right to spend her life in peace, why to bare all this and stay with him, when she have a better choice for her future and can spend her life the way she want she is just 26 now. please advice for my sister. wat is good for her future life.

2006-09-20 02:47:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

We're in Gainesville, looking for something less than 3 hours away.
Ideas anyone? My husband loves action activities.

2006-09-20 02:47:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, last week we got into a fight and he ignored me for a day and a half. I get that part. But Sunday evening, he came to me wanting some kisses. I asked him if he was still mad at me and he said no. However... HE'S BEEN IGNORING ME EVER SINCE! He is really hard to read and not easy to talk to (he has bipolar). We really don't talk much as it is, so this is driving me crazy! Is he not in love with me anymore? We've been married for 5 years.

2006-09-20 02:44:49 · 16 answers · asked by Mujer Bonita 6

Is it helping?

2006-09-20 02:39:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Going out on Friday night, have spoken to him a lot on the phone but never met him. I said I would meet him at a restaurant but he said no come to my house I'll make dinner...Here I was thinking I would meet him in public with a few hundred of my closest friends...anyone busy Friday, drinks are on him...he,he,he...or maybe I'll just bring my whole nutty family...if that doesn't scare him away nothing will...Anyway, my friend said she thinks I'm being stupid insisting on meeting him in public, am I? At least in a restaurant he wouldn't be able to hear me climbing out the bathroom window!

2006-09-20 02:34:36 · 26 answers · asked by sasha 4

And you come across a treasure chest....What would you like to find in it? Keep in mind,money is of no value!

I know this has nothing to do with marriage or divorce but I figured this would fun for us bored working stiffs...lol

2006-09-20 02:32:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I am a little confused right now. I was married to a man who didn't respect me or our family at all. I finally took my decision of getting divorce of him because he told me that he wanted to live free, doesn't matter that he after that, got involved with someone else.
I moved from states, and now he call me with breaking voice, how are you, how is our kid, does he miss me? What does he wants now? It was only a bad day?

When I asked what was wrong, he said, nothing, I will call you tomorrow.

What does he wants now? Please help.

2006-09-20 02:23:22 · 31 answers · asked by success532 2

i am gonna try to be as clean about this as possible, so bare with me..

to you guys' advice i let my guy "go" in my mouth while giving oral... in the position i was in, it was awkward... i didnt realize until he had done it.. i have to say it wasnt that bad... BUT

when i went to "swallow" giving the way my head was positioned, i gagged... i got up and went to the bathroom and spit it out and then went back so we could .. finish..

my thing is, b/c i got up to go to the bathroom was he offened? next time i am gonna fully try it.. we havent talked about it or anything...

2006-09-20 02:22:45 · 16 answers · asked by tara l 1

Is he/she in treatment? Is it helping?
Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a serious emotional disturbance characterized by a grandiose, or extremely exaggerated, sense of self-importance. Individuals with this disorder lack empathy for other people but need constant admiration from them.

2006-09-20 02:22:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

This question is strictly for the ladies. I am very much in love with my girlfriend and she is in love with me. We have talked about marriage, about a house, but the hang up is on the issue of children. My girlfriend wants a 'guarantee' before we go any further that we will have children, or at least a child. I have been married before and children were never discussed. I told my girlfriend I can't give her a guarantee to have a child together, but that I always thought about adopting and would love to do that one day. So... would you still marry me if that's my answer on the children issue?

2006-09-20 02:01:33 · 22 answers · asked by DAN 3

i love him but i can't keep raising my kids by my self....i feel as if i have a endless relationship!!!

2006-09-20 02:00:07 · 16 answers · asked by shismom5 1

Maybe one of your friends,or a sibling,or worse..your parents?

2006-09-20 01:57:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

From a Christian Viewpoint
If the Bible (God) says that a Divorced woman should NOT re - marry, c`se she`ll be called an adulteress (whore), howcome they still try to justify their cases...

After all - On the very first day of the first marriage, they have promised in front of many a people (and God) "untill death ...."

What type of "Love" was the first relationship based upon, if the second relationship is also based on "love" ?

I`m divorced too (10 yrs now) and still keep my promise to my ex (and God) regardless of her whoring life ...

A divorced man or woman has infact still a living parter out there, which means that they are THEMSELVES just living adulteress lifes with their second partners ...it`s just common sence if you consider your first vow made infront of winesses ...

We talk about commitment to God ...

2006-09-20 01:47:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here goes. I was in a verbally abusive marriage as a 22 year old. He was living the single life with his work mates while I was at home with our 15 mth old baby. This marriage obviously did not last. A few months later I met this wonderful man and we fell ever so madly in love. He was my first true love. Romantic, gorgeous, loved my daughter like his own, had so many talants.. He was the perfect package. We ended up dating for 1 & a half years and even spoke of marriage. The problem was my family didn't think he was good enough for me as he was going no where in life. I really valued their imput and ended the relationship with my head, certainally not my heart. Years later I married a lovely man, had 2 children. My family basically pushed me towards this marriage. The thing is my ex has come back into my life and I still love him so much. Don't get me wrong, I love my husband and our family. But there is no spark there. I'm so confused and don't want to hurt anyone or myself.

2006-09-20 01:29:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

So the marriage has been over for 9 years - the ex gets a very NICE child support check every single week - the non-custodial parent WANTS more time with their kid - but the custodial parent - REFUSES....NO, there is no abuse or anything of that nature.

The ex refuses any type of open communciation. If the ex can not control the situation - IT refuses to talk. IT Simply states- get the court ordered changed.

Now the non custodial parent is very active in the child life - just wants more time - 1 day a week and every other weekend and time during the summer is NOT in the best interest of a child. Do you think so?

So do any of you think IT will change ITs mind? When do you think IT will "get over it" and start putting the kids first?

Suggestions???

2006-09-20 01:29:22 · 13 answers · asked by WhatNext 3

I grew up in a Jamaican Ghetto. When I was ateenager, my mom made me find boyfriends that could support us both financially. Finally, I met one who wanted to be a singer, and my mom told me to trap him with a kid so that he would support us. Unfortunately, his mom gave him the chance to go abroad, so there wasnt much I could do. I didnt love this guy, but my mom kept pushing me to marry him, so I threatened that he wouldnt be able to see our child if he didnt, and so he finally did. But he never lived here. I felt kind of bad, because it wasnt even a real marriage, and I wanted to marry someone I chose. Anyways, the child died accidentally. A few weeks passed before I even told him the child died. So he came out here for the funeral etc. My mom, again kept prodding me to get another kid before he left, and even though I didnt want to, I had to try to do somehow. Eventually, he gave in, but told me it was over, so that made me feel even worse about myself. I had the other child, and now

2006-09-20 01:26:08 · 11 answers · asked by Dara C 1

Hi L & G
Well i hv been married for more than 7 months now
I thought with passage of time roles would reverse but my wife seems to be obsessed with herself
She just loves talking about herself ,her boss, her colleagues ,her mother, father ,sister and aunt but she never asks anything about me ,my work our future plans or never even wat to do in the coming weekend

Even if u talk about initiating for sex i m alws the 1 who makes the first move

I know she has been pampered like anything by her parents but i really fail to understand that even after 4 yrs in corporate world and being 26 yr old y doesnt she understand its all understanding each other and giving respect care and attention which makes the foundation for a successful marriage

I have spoken to dat in both subtle and direct manner but it has alws led to arguments or misunderstandings

i just want to ask all u peepz there especially all u u ladies wat cud be the reason for such a behaviour

2006-09-20 01:07:14 · 20 answers · asked by funky_dude 2