Marriage & Divorce - 20 September 2006

i have been with my partner for 3 half years love him loads, its just that i am 31 now and thought i would be married and settled by now.
I am a single mum with a 8 year old daughter and he is a single dad with boys 14 and a 12 year old.
we have talked about waiting until the kids have left home before moving in together and getting married- but that could be years

2006-09-20 05:09:35 · 41 answers · asked by Tink 1

when not @ work all free time is spent @ home with wife and kids, but she doesn't trust her husband.

2006-09-20 05:04:59 · 15 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6

I am getting out of a relationship after 8 years of swallowing "the feminine mystique" garbage.

Do I want to be alone...or do I want to be nagged, hen-pecked, bitched-at, etc, for not being all things to all people...

I want to hear from people who made the move...the move to get away from someone you have grown to hate. This self-serving prima donna piece of garbage I have spent time with has denied me quality time with another woman.

How does it feel after so much time to say "f--k you, good bye"?

2006-09-20 05:03:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

their partners. Alot of girls on here talk about this subject.Why would you check your man's cell phone?? Isn't a relationship based on trust? If you don't trust them why do you stay??
I have never questioned my fiance or I wouldn't be with him...

2006-09-20 05:03:05 · 20 answers · asked by Raineybaby 4

We have been together for 5 months and are living together. He says she is a good friend and that they just slept together once but didnt take it to a relationship. The last time they spoke he called her from the airport before my plane landed and spoke for 1/2 hour (until my plane landed) (yes i checked his phone) When i told him it upset me he said not to give him an ultimatum (i hadnt yet) that if I told him to stop talking to her then we'd break up. He says "its not about her its about trust issues that I have that will not end with just that one girl." Is this him bull shiiting or is he right? Seems wrong though, regardless of the reason, that he would end our relationship just to talk to some girl. (by the way she is in the middle of a divorce!)

2006-09-20 04:57:41 · 10 answers · asked by zoey 2

Can sexual attraction extend past the physical for men?

2006-09-20 04:51:44 · 4 answers · asked by thebuffettour 2

I am in a marriage that has been plagued by both verbal and physical abusive. (more verbal than physical) I feel like I am dying inside and need to get out of my marriage. The problem is I have been a stay at home mother for the past 13 years to 4 wonderful children, and live in fear of the threats that he makes in regards to him taking my children from me. ( I do not drink or do drugs) His parents have money and mine dont, and I had one attorney tell me that money talks in child custody. I have called many victims help lines and really dont get anywhere. I have no money and need to get a attorney, I have called and talked to several attorneys and they all want very high retainers.... What do I do.....

2006-09-20 04:46:53 · 2 answers · asked by grace2006 1

I have been married for 5 months and hes always saying I better not be cheating on him. I tell him I have never been with anyone since we met but I am wondering he don't say that hes faithful to me never seem to get to that subject. Give me your advice.

2006-09-20 04:46:13 · 15 answers · asked by wildrose 3

2006-09-20 04:36:13 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband has a "friend" online that he talks to regularly. a few months back i found all of his im's to her. and they were very graphic. he says that it is just a game and he has no feelings for her. but he also wont stop talking to her. he says i have no right to say who he can and cannot talk to. is this something that i should be concerned about or should i just let it go? he says its not cheating since he isnt touching her. but they have web cammed together. he wont change his behavior so what should i do?

2006-09-20 04:31:14 · 61 answers · asked by ? 2

the next day after she goes dancig with her friend, she says it hurts sit down. what kind of dancig makes her rear hurt?

2006-09-20 04:29:35 · 25 answers · asked by wimpie 1

I've been married for 15 yrs. I have 5 kids I'm a SAHM my kids are all in school.My husband and I are at odds with each other right now for may reasons.My problem is getting him to see my point of view.He's self-employed so we only have one income I use to work with him up until we started a family.Then we made the decision that I would stay home.Needless to say I agreed not thinking that financially I was totally screwing myself.In the beginning of the marriage everything was equal.Now all of these years later things have become very unequal.Even though I don't contribute to the household financially right now.Is it fair that I have no idea how much money my husband really makes?Because that's the position I find myself in and it's extremely frustrating.He gives me money for grocercies or if I need some things for myself.But outside of that I have no idea where we stand we're in debt way over our heads.And he seems to think I don't have a right to know what's going on.Please help!

2006-09-20 04:28:11 · 25 answers · asked by brooklyncrazysexycool 1

Do you think it was the mouth full of coffee cake, or something more ominous?

2006-09-20 04:28:03 · 15 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

I've been married just over 6 years to a wonderful man who treats me like a queen and is sweet and caring to my family. We've been through a lot together- and have been in couples counseling for 3 years. We also havent been physical in over 2 years... We love each other- but are both wondering if we might be better as friends rather than as a couple. I always feel like I am responsible for everything, and like I don't get enough support or help from him. I am almost 32 and I want to have kids some day- am I a fool to consider leaving someone I totally get along with and who I love dearly (and who loves me)? How do I know if it is time to end things? How did you know?

2006-09-20 04:27:52 · 19 answers · asked by Jemima 3

2006-09-20 04:27:41 · 7 answers · asked by who me? 3

yesterday morning he picked a fight with me over something stupid. when I got home from work, he was still acting like a jerk. we were supposed to go out for dinner, and I refused to go because he was acting like a jerk and treating me like sH\it.

Then later he was being nice to me (because he wanted to know if I cooked diner, and if there was enough left for him). I haven't really spoken to him since last night. I am tired of this. he only is nice to me if he wants something.

2006-09-20 04:21:08 · 26 answers · asked by Crazy dog lady 3

whats the earliest you said i love you to your mate and you meant it and are yall still together and if so how long

2006-09-20 04:17:01 · 9 answers · asked by OFFICER CAMPBELL 2

i want to get married in a registery office do i need my original birth certificate i was born in belfast nireland and the birth death n marriage office where i applied was bombed what do i do?

2006-09-20 04:13:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whatever your answer is, give an explanation.

2006-09-20 04:12:22 · 36 answers · asked by Z 2

S.O.B hubby spending all kinds of money on this illegal alien skank.

2006-09-20 04:11:31 · 11 answers · asked by lasilent71466 1

I mean It looks to me shes allways trying to find somthing to fight with me about.Can you stand to live with her if she doesent give you any prvitcy?

2006-09-20 04:07:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

but she's not experience sexually as I am used to. It's not as important to her as it is to me. It's been 5 years now and I miss the wild hetrosexual experiences that I am used to for years. Do I look for this in someone else or stay frustrated and deprived?

2006-09-20 03:59:28 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-20 03:58:28 · 11 answers · asked by Part Time Cynic 7

Even though he's a mexican?

2006-09-20 03:57:41 · 25 answers · asked by Lohan 1

i am 22 she is 18 and has been with my brother-in-law for 4 years but married only 1. they got married only because she was pregnant. while pregnant he seemed to loose interest in her. and now 5 months after the baby was born he has even less interest in her needs. she has tried to talk to him and all he has to say is he is tired. i have been with my wife for 5 years now and married for 4 of them. her sex drive has decrased very much. i have tried to get her to see a doctor but she will not! i have offered to go with her. i love her and do not want to leave her because i know it will hert her, but i still enjoy and need sex very much! lately there has been a lot of flirting between me and my brother-in -law's wife. i would realy like to have the sex as well as she has been almost a year sence her husband has gave her the needed attention. PLEASE HELP!

2006-09-20 03:55:11 · 22 answers · asked by help 1

Is there any such thing anymore as 'totally free' legal form sites?

2006-09-20 03:42:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is just hypothical. I'm curious as to where OUR biggest regrets lie. Is it family, spouses, children, personal happiness, etc., etc.?

2006-09-20 03:40:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had my wife sign a prenuptual agreement which we've since gotten rid of, looking back it was wrong of me to do it.

2006-09-20 03:31:27 · 18 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

My husband seems to be really obsessed with the Mega Millions Lottery and talks about "when we win" this and "when we win" that. You and I both know my husband and I are never going to win. He buys one ticket every week. I don't want to waste money on something that isn't going to work out in our favor. Should I let him have his fantasy or tell him to get real??

2006-09-20 03:29:32 · 211 answers · asked by Anonymous

between your cousin and brother or get a divorce what would you tell her? who would you choose? keep in mind that the relationship is not all that secure.

2006-09-20 03:27:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous