their partners. Alot of girls on here talk about this subject.Why would you check your man's cell phone?? Isn't a relationship based on trust? If you don't trust them why do you stay??
I have never questioned my fiance or I wouldn't be with him...
2006-09-20 05:03:05 · 20 answers · asked by Raineybaby 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The more and more I read the more I get pissed off, no one trusts their partner. Why can't we hear positive. Why don't people communicate??
2006-09-20 08:48:24 · update #1
Women are insecure in general I think. Trust is HUGE in a relationship. If you have to check there cell phone you probably shouldn't be with them. If your happy with yourself I think you are more willing to trust them.
2006-09-20 05:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by green eyed lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it either. I never acted that way. If I was with someone that wasn't trustworthy I moved on. I didn't settle for someone who treated me poorly or didn't care for or love me back. I sometimes don't understand why others are like that or stay in a relationship that isn't going well or based on trust.
There are a lot of guys that post the same type of stuff.
My guess is they don't think highly enough of themselves to be with someone better. Or low self-esteem makes them not trust themselves.
2006-09-20 12:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess that some women are fortunate with their Men's fidelity not to feel the need to question them!
Just as I know that some Men are Good and Faithful!(And have No problems acting accordingly)
Mistrust can also emanate from your upbringing-i.e. If you are from a Stable,Loving,Open and Trusting Family then Honesty and Trust Come quite naturally.
2006-09-20 12:07:42 · answer #3 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is just like any other prejudice. They may have been brought up by a mother who was hurt by man and just get negative outlook from them. Or they hear things from other girls and gossip and rumors are flying. Or it could be that they themselves are scandalous and they are projecting their own behavior onto their boyfriend/husband. You're absolutely right, though, I have broken up with several women because they didn't trust me even though I gave them no reason not to.
2006-09-20 12:07:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes the guy gives a woman the reason to want to do those things. I am married and i don't have that problem. Since we met i have never checked his pockets or anything. I can totally trust him. Me on the other hand lmao
2006-09-20 12:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by shyhonney 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mabey something in their past makes them a little shaky in the trust area.
2006-09-20 17:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because women are insecure. im one so i think i should no.im not trying to sound rude or w/e i just wanna say that if a girls been dumped or cheated on a numer of times she might be scared it will happen again and wants to find out if nethings goin on with her man so she will no and be able to prepare herself for any hell he might give her;. she just might be scared to b hurt again and wants to prevent it. and now i gotta question for u, y do some men have to b such dumbasses?
2006-09-20 12:07:40 · answer #7 · answered by FutureNurse 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe to many women have been hurt one to many times by their man, so why trust others?
2006-09-20 12:05:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because they've been cheated on before, and its hard to fully trust another person.
2006-09-20 12:10:04 · answer #9 · answered by a7xrios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well beware. I had blind trust in my ex-husband. You must always keep your eyes open and don't delude yourself if the pieces don't fit.
Trust is something to be earned. It took years before I trusted my now husband completely, but he is the most trustworthy, non-deceitful person I have ever met.
2006-09-20 12:06:18 · answer #10 · answered by finaldx 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋