when not @ work all free time is spent @ home with wife and kids, but she doesn't trust her husband.
2006-09-20 05:04:59 · 15 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In my experience, I have had many bad relationships which has caused me problems with trust. It's hard to trust someone when you have been hurt and let down by many people. But you have to get past it, you gotta let go of all that stuff in the past or else you will live with that fear forever. When I start to feel like I am not trusting my husband I just try and remember that he's not like those other guys, it's my insecurities getting in the way of my judgement.
2006-09-20 05:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by faith 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. There are a lot of things that needs to be looked at when it comes to this. Why is the person not being trusted, what did the person do, if they even did anything, or if the person with the trust issues just have issues with trusting anyone because of something that happened to them. You also would need to know the whole story. That is just how I feel about it.
2006-09-20 12:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by t_town_thickness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a sign of insecurity! maybe she had a bad relationship in the past, if she has been cheated on before it's really hard to gain the trust back you always go back thinking it may happen again not realizing that it isn't fare to the new relationship...just talk to her and ask her! if you communicate you might find out why's there a trust issue...
2006-09-20 12:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by spanishqueen39 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. They've most likely been hurt in the past which is why they don't trust... they never want to hurt like that again. As for trusting them, they're probably *very* trustworthy as they would not want to inflict that kind of pain on anyone else.
2006-09-20 12:09:06 · answer #4 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From experience no. My ex never trusted me and was always jealous, come to find out HE was the one cheating on me. I never did anything to make him think I was even looking at another guy. So I think when some one is cheating they go into jealous mode because in their head they are thinking "well since I am doing it, what is going to stop them" so automatically they become suspicious of the other person.
2006-09-20 12:23:01 · answer #5 · answered by momof4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People don't stop trusting out of thin air. People are given reasons not to trust, wether it's a misunderstanding, or you made a major f*ck up.
Trust me. She'll tell you why if you ask.
2006-09-20 12:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by monkeymustard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the husband has done some thing and no you call always have that doubt in the back of your mind when ever he is not around our when hes home you'll be thinking who is he thinking about, what are his thoughts so not turst is some thing that when lost it hard to get back
2006-09-20 12:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by kika24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they can, they might have had a bad experience that makes them not trust.
2006-09-20 12:07:14 · answer #8 · answered by LadyL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she is projecting onto the husband her own secret longings or deceptions! So she accuses him of doing things she herself has thought about or actually done.
2006-09-20 12:07:49 · answer #9 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes people who dont trust can be trusted cause. cause when a person dont think you tellimg the truth about something prove them wrong
2006-09-20 12:10:39 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋