Marriage & Divorce - 20 September 2006

I just wanted to ask anyone who may have some knowledge or past exp with this stuff.

Reason being because i've noticed some weird behavior and things my dad has said etc that lead me to think he may be cheating.....

first of all my mom works 6 days a week 9 hours...and for the past 3/4 years he has slept downstairs, i understand work sometimes but for 4-7 years straight of this? when does the inside of you say i love you, and we'll sacrifice work for ourselves now.

2ndly, he works from 3-12 night shifts now, and it's a new job. as a mechanic<. well my mom told me 2nite that he told her he had a party "a guy from work" (mind u this is a new job..) and he wouldn't be home till 3 am. however he said yesterday it was cancelled cuz the guy's birthday, well his gf had fell and bumped his head??

another thing 4 days ago my dad went shopping..bought all new clothes m moms aid...yet he hasn't wornt htme arond us..and HE HASN'T GONE SHOPPING INCE I WAS LIKE 13.

should i be alarmed thx..

2006-09-20 18:18:07 · 18 answers · asked by brizane f 1

I am going through a tough divorce and have been thinking about an ex boyfriend that I had dated for a few years right before I met my husband. I haven't thought or fantasized about him during my marriage. My ex boyfriend is not the cause of my divorce. But I find myself thinking about him.

The ironic thing was that I was on a reunion website and it directed me over to a dating site. I read a profile and even without his picture and correct age, I knew it was him. He presently has a girlfriend and is no longer dating. I have been emailing him about my divorce and friendly chit chat. I have asked him out and he is only willing to maybe meet for lunch.

I am fantasizing about him all the time. We had a great sex life. I am even thinking of ways to steal him away from his girlfriend. Even to the point of becoming the other woman. I dont care about a commitment. That is out of my character. But I guess I have become like the TV drama Desperate Housewives. HELP!!

2006-09-20 18:07:04 · 8 answers · asked by galbee 3

My fiancee loves the horse races and online gambling. He is wonderful to me. Can a marriage work if one person gambles or should he find someone who shares his passion

2006-09-20 17:59:03 · 9 answers · asked by lindsay 2

My fiancee loves the horse races and online gambling. He is wonderful to me. Can a marriage work if one person gambles or should he find someone who shares his passion

2006-09-20 17:58:13 · 7 answers · asked by lindsay 2

I love my husband and my kids are my life. I just get to think i'm not total true to my self i get to thinking is there life out there? (not drugs or beer) and it don't help that i don't see me with him when we are in your golden years! Any thoughts to this??

2006-09-20 17:54:39 · 16 answers · asked by Cissey V 1

its not really the love thing,just so so hard,please no therapy.

2006-09-20 17:50:56 · 21 answers · asked by lasilent71466 1

2006-09-20 17:46:43 · 14 answers · asked by Misterscot 1

In the past three years, nine of my friends got married. I've known them for years, and hung out with the couples many times when they were dating and engaged. So why is it suddenly "my husband loves that" or "my wife gave this to me"?!?! Like as soon as they said "I do," their mate no longer had a name. I could understand if it was someone I had never met, but come on! It takes less time to say "Mike" than to say "my husband." The honeymoon is over...I'd think the novelty would have worn off by now. Does anyone else hate that?

2006-09-20 17:46:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I sent my husband basically a hate email telling him that he doesn't care about my feelings, and now I want to talk about it and he's giving me the cold shoulder. Is it okay that I keep calling and emailing him? Guys what do you think and what would you do if it was you and your wife, we've been married for about 4 months.

2006-09-20 17:45:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been a fluffy chick most of my life and i have neverhad a promble having a boyfriend and now a husband and have always had a awsome sex life but in this world they think skinny women have a better sex life and i think that bull how ablut you ?

2006-09-20 17:39:27 · 36 answers · asked by Msdeb gee 6

We had a dysfunctional-marriage (is that redundant) for 16-years! She met a guy and cheated on me. Then we divorced. She called me a month ago crying about the marriage and apologizing for what she did. She asked me if we could get back together again. This was the second time that I caught her cheating. I have no intentions of getting back with her but what I want to know is why would she call me to say those things? What could possibly be going on in her mind?

2006-09-20 17:35:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-20 17:20:04 · 11 answers · asked by brandon d 1

Life is full of regret and pain.
What does one do?
where does one go?
How can emotion just disappear?

2006-09-20 17:14:19 · 7 answers · asked by worker 1

2006-09-20 17:12:07 · 11 answers · asked by me 3

How many times are we going to read about some mother, married to a guy, but loving another, usually some guy from her past, and now thinking she made a mistake, and wants to go back to the first guy that she didn't marry because 'Mr. Right" came along and seduced her with sweet talk.
This seems to be such a common theme in here, that the issue must be epidemic; is it a problem with the water supply?
Young unmarried ladies; you need to take note of these questions, and sad stories. All these women would have told you before this happened that it wasn't going to happen to them. But human nature being what it is, I suppose that many of you are going to repeat the same mistakes.

2006-09-20 17:05:54 · 10 answers · asked by seeitmiway32 5

I have tried all of the things suggested in your answers.Lost 30 pds after surgery,had makeover,and I'm a very supportive wife,I work,take care of the house and the yard due to his long hours.So now what?

2006-09-20 16:59:47 · 11 answers · asked by katydid 1

How do I confront someone on the phone that I think might be cheating with my husband. I am not sure, but pretty sure that he is cheating and I think it has been going on a long time, I am guessing that she KNOWS that he is MARRIED, I am not sure he is cheating, but he did about 10 years ago and something is making me suspicious again, there are 2 phone numbers that he calls on his way to and from work and he keeps his cell phone in his vehicle. I have been able to check the phone on occasion, but I want to make sure, we have 2 children and I know I don't want to make false accusations, but I want to know, do you have any advice. thank you

2006-09-20 16:54:24 · 25 answers · asked by whattheheck 4

My ex and I get along fine. She got paid her money from our house. She singed the divorce papers saying she wood not go for child support or alamony and we would have the kids 50/50. Now her boy friend got cancer and she is not work nor has she ever when she was with me. She had a job here a there but not for long. She is now trying to get child support from me. I need to see what I'm looking at. I don't mind paying support but what do you think it is going to be. I her it will be alot but I know it wont be for the kids.What do I do from here. I want to know if I will be looseing my house. I have been the one to keep a roof on my kids head. She was the one that let us and now she is going to get rewarded for leaving. Everything has been fine for a year now. Her boyfriend got sick and now the child support is on the way. Any help or feed back will help. Thank you.

2006-09-20 16:50:46 · 15 answers · asked by worried father 1

2006-09-20 16:46:33 · 4 answers · asked by joanp08 1

The problem is I'm unhappy.I have been faithful up to this point but he don't even act interested anymore.What do I do?

2006-09-20 16:44:14 · 18 answers · asked by katydid 1

i blooody ove some one...can i marry him im 17.....if i marry him he can come here with me...

2006-09-20 16:39:37 · 21 answers · asked by darya 1

I would like some questions anserwed for the simple reason I deserve the truth. And maybe I will not get the I want but I do not care. And for the fact he is married this person did not give a darn when I was married to him. He in fact is not happy with her for his own brother and sister-in-law told me this. I waited 13 yrs because I myself was married also. So I did move on and for some reason god keeps pushing me to him. I have been single for 3 yrs so please do not tell me to move on. I feel something so very strong for this man. I can not explain how thid feels. And I actually will write this letter in Spanish and sent by register mail only. He at least will know I still care and do not hate him. I was not obsessed with him either I let him move on becase I thought he would come back eventually, he would come back. I was also told by his current wife that the only reason he left me was because I would not have his baby. So do you see why I need the closure now.

2006-09-20 16:31:19 · 14 answers · asked by vickie g 2

I want to know how anyone else would handle this situation. I have two men in my life. One who I have a long history with and a child. One whom I love with all my heart but we seem to have a lot of past issues to work through. And want so bad to get past our old conflicts. The second man is a good man with a lot of potential. He is nice and a little shy, but sometimes acts like a child. I feel close to him in a friendly way. I do not get the sparks I get with the first one. But with the second man we do not have to many conflicts. I also have a child with second one. I love both just in two very different ways. #1 guy, Is the type of love you feel electricity run through your veins. #2 guy is comfortable . So who do I choose. I have child whith each, and when I have sex with #1 its electric. But dont really have romantic attraction to #2. But he is still good man. I could be content and staedy with #2 or I could have the crazy passionate life with #2 help please?

2006-09-20 16:29:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok well my parents fight alot and my grandma came to try to sort it out and this has been going on for probably like 12 years :'( and i was gone from school monday and again today (wed) both because i was really depressed what should i tell my friends at school because i know their gonna ask where i was i dont wanna tell them about my personal personal like so what should i tell them on tuesday i told them i was isck on monday and if i tell them i was sick again they'd think something was up or do you think i could trust them to not be blabber mouths and tell everybody.

2006-09-20 16:21:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-20 16:06:31 · 33 answers · asked by 6th Finger 2

I'm worried that my ex is hiding money from me in bank accounts. How can I research her using her SSN, name, addr? I don't think I can get her credit report w/o her consent. What about services that I see advertised to look people up?
Ideas?

2006-09-20 16:02:06 · 3 answers · asked by Edward T 2

here the deal I was married for 12 years my husband cheated 4 times Im getting married in dec but my youngest daughter who is a daddys girl doesnt like my fiance she says shes uncomfortable with him shes known him for 3 years we were friends before we got together she says hes not like dad but when I question her about my ex husbands new wife who was the one who destroyed are family thats who he had his last affair with my daughter seems to be fine with her I just dont get it I love him and want to marry him but my heart is being tugged because of how my 9 year old daughter feels help please.

2006-09-20 15:59:36 · 16 answers · asked by pamlar 1

Well... I've sort of got a problem. Whenever my husband goes "down" on me.. I can't seem to orgasm. Is there any tips or anything I could give him?? We openly talk about sex, so me telling him wouldn't bother him at all.. but it does bother him that he can't get me to. Maybe hes just bad at it.. haha.. I dont know! Give me some advice! Thanks!

2006-09-20 15:57:42 · 18 answers · asked by an1 1

How would you feel if you found out that one of your co-workers was sleeping with the boss who happens to be married? The boss and his wife eventually divorce and he gives you this story that things just did not work out. Now he and your co-worker have brought their relationship out into the open. How do you treat them? How do you get past what they have done? Do you respect them when they had no respect for his wife and family?? Or can you just avoid them?

2006-09-20 15:57:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

When my wife and I are having sex, I can usually last no more than 10 minutes probably at the most if you know what I mean. (This INCLUDES foreplay.) Is the problem with myself that I do not have enough endurance or stamina, or is my wife just that GOOD!
And PLEASE no vulgar answers!!!! I'm being serious.

2006-09-20 15:51:57 · 22 answers · asked by Smokey 4