When my wife and I are having sex, I can usually last no more than 10 minutes probably at the most if you know what I mean. (This INCLUDES foreplay.) Is the problem with myself that I do not have enough endurance or stamina, or is my wife just that GOOD!
And PLEASE no vulgar answers!!!! I'm being serious.
2006-09-20 15:51:57 · 22 answers · asked by Smokey 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do not have ED. I am talking about 10 minutes until the climax.
2006-09-20 15:58:08 · update #1
You'd be surprised how many guys are like this.
It takes abit of practise. If you wish to increase your endurance, when your alone in the shower and have a hard one, flex your penis. There is a muscle in your penis which controls the orgasim. By flexing this and making your penis move up and down, you are working on endurance.
Another way is; while you are urinating, stop and start again. Stop and start again. You are working on your penis muscles.
It will take some time to see the effects, but it works.
In the mean time, Dont go so hard. Play around, poke in and out a few times and when you feel the orgasim about to hit... Stop pumping and go back to fore play. Your penis gets to have a break and your wife will go mad for you because she wants more.
Also, try using some lubricants. It makes it more like a slip and slid and you wont feel it as much which means in the long run you last alot longer
Good luck man, And I know this answer, because Ive been there too
2006-09-20 15:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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Recent polls have shown that the average length of intercourse is usually anywhere between 2 to 12 minutes. Most often those diagnosed with premature ejaculation climax in less than a minute or two, and there are even those who ejaculate before there is any sort of penetration. In all actuality, ?too short? is really just a matter of opinion. The most important factor is if a man feels that he is unable to control his ejaculation and is frequently climaxing before he would like. Any man who feels that this is a problem for him may be suffering from some form of premature ejaculation.
2014-10-03 17:06:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly... my boyfriend and I have practically been together for three years... and day by day it seems as if sex is getting shorter... but that doesnt' mean its' not good! :P
Personally i love alotta foreplay so it'd be a problem for me hehe... Umm... Definately talk to your doctor about things, maybe he / she can tell you ways to prolong sex (and whatever :P ) ... There may be something that just doesn't umm... whats the word... like excite you enough to the point where it makes you wanna last a long time? (if I said that right hehe) or you know like mind over matter type of thing... sex used to be a major thing with me cuz I'd not be "AS INTERESTED" as my bf ... but now that we've started watchin' porn TOGETHER>.. and talk... talk is definately a stimulation factor for me... so yeah... maybe your doctor can listen to what you have to say AND LEAVE NOTHING OUT... say everything and anything and they can at least give you a HINT of what you can do... I mean does the issue of 10 minutes really bother the both of you? if not why are you so worried? ... jw... hmm... GOOD LUCK (probly no help but thought id' try hehe)
2006-09-20 22:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by sweetsuezq4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with Calvinroy, you have to do those exercises he recommended, that is what my boyfriend does, my boyfriend can climax really easy also,but he does similar exercises that Calvinroy recommended and it works, he can go for 30-40 minutes. We have been together 61/2 years. I always get concerned that he didnt climax because he holds it and he always says "Dont worry about me, I can go at the drop of a hat" but he waits until I am satisfied.
GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-09-20 23:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by foxyraley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would take it as, your really are into your wife and the love overwhelm you to the point you can't help it.
I think you should try to practice a little more self control, pulling out allowing your to re-gain self control start setting the pace of the love making.. when the vibes and emotions are there you can't do anything but bust a nut.
I would simply just sit back and try a tad bit of self control so you can make reverse it and make her be the one out of control.
2006-09-20 23:12:06 · answer #5 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, actually, me and my husband have the same problem with him not lasting long, but we tried using condoms and it works! At first I didn't really like using them.. (we're married so its not like i'm sleeping with a stranger here people) but I'm used to them now. He says it takes away some of the sensation, but it still feels great, so you might try that.. just an idea.
2006-09-20 23:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by an1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The prpblem can be both ways, but the problem is probably with you. If your wife was really good she could help you in lasting longer. You might see you doctor about this
2006-09-20 22:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by Boogs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be your age. Or maybe for some odd reason you may be suffering from depression. Have you tried Viagra? Does this cause issue's with your wife? Do you drink alot of alcohol? This may have something to do with this also.
2006-09-20 22:58:11 · answer #8 · answered by vickie g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 min is not enough for foreplay and sex!! To last longer you'll need to take few breaks in between but still continue the foreplay ........ you'll be able to last much longer.
2006-09-20 23:02:27 · answer #9 · answered by Leila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Fitness Center get stronger - relax your mine and don't think what bad can happened because is gonna happened again. To be afraid and skier can kill every move or decision - stop thinking just enjoy as long as you can - maybe you have to look on clock to hold or do longer.
2006-09-20 23:00:19 · answer #10 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋