its not really the love thing,just so so hard,please no therapy.
2006-09-20 17:50:56 · 21 answers · asked by lasilent71466 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Kick him out, but stay in the house if you are buying it, you dont say if you have kids but you dont need a cheater, you are worth more than that. He will be spending money on her that he should be spending on you and your family and future, cheaters never stop.. take it from someone that knows, was married 20 years and now ive lost everything, buisness, cars and house and hubby has his woman and everything mentioned above because I was the one that left. just send him packing and get an attorney.
2006-09-20 18:19:07 · answer #1 · answered by ncgirl 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why the hell do you even have to ask that question ? How many times does he have to hurt you by cheating on you ? Grow some balls and tell him to get the hell out, If he was a real man he wouldn't cheat on you . Girl you should of been gone from him the first time he cheated.. He ain't worth your time ..
2006-09-21 00:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by frankfort_girlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is NEVER the answer...if you really want to let go, start making plans for your life away from him. Have a job, move into your own place, and do not contact him...also, do not give him any info as to where you work ...live...phone number...cutting it off and letting go is never easy, but sometimes is the best gift we can give ourselves..and last but definately not least..go get a check up...you never know what he may have brought back and shared with you....good luck
2006-09-21 00:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by Jan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, just think about all the horrible cheating things he has done to you. All the disrespect and the hurt he has caused you. Think about the bright future without him and all the opportunities and the hurt will eventually go away. It will.
2006-09-21 00:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to focus on the fact that he is cheating on you. Therefore, he is sharing your most intimate moments with someone else. I know you are hurt, and you should be. Remember that you are better than that and you need to find someone who doesn't focus so much on sex, and who will truely love you. You might be feeling like "What is wrong with me", or "Why would he have sex with someone else". Don't ask these questions because he is addicted to sex and it has nothing to do with you. Go out with your friends and get over him. Then focus on someone new. Good luck.
2006-09-21 11:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start living a life of your own. Wake up and think about what YOU want to do. How you can start planning a future with out him. Start putting money away. Make plans to get out. Start saving and looking for a place. Make a journal of plans on how your going to spend YOUR new life. Weight the pros and cons. Make sure to hide the journal. Plan plan plan your own life. He is obviously living his own life. Start living yours. Good luck
2006-09-21 00:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at yourself in the mirror and say i deserve better then this bastard get rid of him and find someone that will treat you right sometimes its scary to let go but its the only way
2006-09-21 01:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick his cheating A$$ all the way to the kerb, and move on, were here for a good time not a long time!!
2006-09-21 01:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack your things and leave. And while you're packing keep thinking of all the things that he has done to you. Of course it will be hard. But it will get easier and in the end you will be HAPPY:)
2006-09-21 00:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by Joellen S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Than it must be the money thing. If it's that good than just ignore it and find a man on the side.
2006-09-21 01:22:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋