The problem is I'm unhappy.I have been faithful up to this point but he don't even act interested anymore.What do I do?
2006-09-20 16:44:14 · 18 answers · asked by katydid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well if you are unhappy then you need to delve into yourself. Always a good idea to see a therapist before you consult a marriage counsellor as you need to see what is going on for you. Maybe the marriage cannot be saved and maybe it can, but you will need to get in tune with your needs and to look into yourself to ascertain what is not working for you, as a first step...good luck.
2006-09-20 16:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by meldorhan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but,if your unhappy,move on! There's no need to be somewhere you are not happy! Or,if that's not in the pages, try talking and being HONEST, maybe you two can come to an understanding and work on the problem & councling will also help! Good Luck!
2006-09-20 16:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by hippiechic35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on getting him interested. I perceive that you are looking for validation for getting out. You took the vow, accepted the challenge. Now live up to it. Happiness is a state of mind, and only you are responsible for your own happiness.
2006-09-20 16:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is wonderful, works hard and is dedicated? You have more than a lot of women, be thankful. Talk to him, don't do anything you might regret and can't take back. You took vows, now live up to them.
2006-09-20 16:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be faithful to him even in the hard times. That's what true love is. To get him interested, I don't know...I'm sure you can come up with something. I hope things get better!
2006-09-20 16:45:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to change the way you look. I mean make yourself attractive with new hairstyle and be fashionable. Try to trim your waistline by exercising. Or try to cook delicious meal coz sometimes the way to the man's heart is through his stomach.
2006-09-20 16:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel. The only way for a marriage to work is if there is communication.
2006-09-20 16:46:11 · answer #7 · answered by Jen G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage counselor
2006-09-20 16:45:52 · answer #8 · answered by BobTheBizGuru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIND TIME TO B ALONE ONE WEEK END SOME TIMES MEN GET TIRED IF THEY WORK ALL WEEK LONG GIVE HIM SOME GRACE BUT ASK HIM WHAT THE PROMBLE IS WITH OUT TIME ALONE YOUR MARRIAGE IS NOT GONNA STAY HEALTHY GOOD LUCK
2006-09-20 16:46:40 · answer #9 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably too tired to be interested. Perhaps you need to look at precisely what YOU ARE unhappy about.
Him or yourself?
2006-09-20 17:27:40 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋