2006-09-20 16:06:31 · 33 answers · asked by 6th Finger 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is SO disrespectful to your wife and your marriage. IT IS WRONG.
How would you feel if she had a male stripper come to the house and do a strip tease for her in your bedroom?
That is kind of what she would feel like knowing you go to these business of depravity.
cheating? if it is a habit, yes. Emotionally cheating.
There is no valid reason for you to be frequenting and even in-frequenting these cesspools.
Respect yourself, respect your wife and respect your marriage.
Do the right thing dude, I hope the best for you and your marriage.
2006-09-20 16:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by Martin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and I can answer this because my husband went to a strip club and did get a lap dance and God knows what else (the herpes?) and THAT is cheating. So I would say no. And the fact that you even care is awesome. Kudos for that. But don't make a habit out of it. Would you like your woman staring at naked men? :(
2006-09-20 19:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not cheating, at lest physically, per se, however it is concealing the truth (which by the way is just as bad or worse) if they don't know about it. However, keep in mind that a lot of women feel that if their man feels the need to go to a strip club that they aren't good enough and can't fulfill his needs and feelings can easily be hurt. Tread carefully.
2006-09-20 16:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by bluearia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless your spouse asked you not to go or you are keeping it from her, then you are not cheating on her. Cheating by definition is intimacy with another person. That can be either sexual or mental but visual is not.
However, hiding it from her or lying to her about it are not good, so if you have done that, you are walking a thin line.
If you haven't gone though and want to go I suggest talking to her about it. I really don't see why she should mind. If she trusts you she has nothing to worry about.
Married men go all the time and it's innocent enough for the most part. I trusted my husband to go many times years ago with his friends. No big deal.
Just ask her. She may surprise you. Good luck!
2006-09-20 16:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by Chaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. But, if you have a spouse, what are you doing there in the first place. As a single guy I know why I went, but I don't understand the purpose of a married guy going out for something he has at home.
2006-09-20 16:10:18 · answer #5 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think it is cheating unless your wife and you had some kind of agreement that you stay out of them. Make sure she knows where you were, if she is OK with it.
I have been to a strip club with my husband and we had a good time.
2006-09-20 16:13:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even getting a lap dance wouldn't be cheating but that doesn't mean it's not wrong. If your wife doesn't like it, than it's wrong! She would probably feel betrayed and hurt!
2006-09-20 16:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by monroe1172002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in some ways yes b/c you get pleasure from that dont you and that kind of pleasure you should only get fromyour wife many people will disaggree but listen to me yeah you may not be getting a lapdance or sleeping around yet but if you dont stop you migh get allitle to much pleasure so stop comfront your wife tell her as soon as possible ok b/c the sooner the better & if you dont tell u might just end up on " breaking up with Shannon Doherty" so stop & tell her ok hope this works out 4 the better :-)
2006-09-20 16:41:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...but maybe you should invite your spouse along with you...he or she may enjoy it, I know i like to let my husband watch me put dollar bills in the girls panties at the strip club
2006-09-20 16:11:24 · answer #9 · answered by Jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope not at all, even if you did get a lap dance.. to me it wouldn't be cheating.
2006-09-20 16:11:42 · answer #10 · answered by an1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋