I am going through a tough divorce and have been thinking about an ex boyfriend that I had dated for a few years right before I met my husband. I haven't thought or fantasized about him during my marriage. My ex boyfriend is not the cause of my divorce. But I find myself thinking about him.
The ironic thing was that I was on a reunion website and it directed me over to a dating site. I read a profile and even without his picture and correct age, I knew it was him. He presently has a girlfriend and is no longer dating. I have been emailing him about my divorce and friendly chit chat. I have asked him out and he is only willing to maybe meet for lunch.
I am fantasizing about him all the time. We had a great sex life. I am even thinking of ways to steal him away from his girlfriend. Even to the point of becoming the other woman. I dont care about a commitment. That is out of my character. But I guess I have become like the TV drama Desperate Housewives. HELP!!
2006-09-20 18:07:04 · 8 answers · asked by galbee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He emails me back about every three days and keeps it somewhat short. When I asked him out he says he is too busy to gp out at nigh but he can make time for coffee or lunch. Should I meet him. Is there a chance to make a move?
2006-09-20 18:11:49 · update #1
it's OK we all fantasize-sometimes it helps get us through the hard times-but now your playing a fools game-so snap back to reality- you e'd him-that's enough-if he wants to take it farther-that's his game-but for you to go after hI'm-like that-is wrong-im no saint-but running after men is not my thing-i don't care if he's the hottest thing going-if it's meant to be he'll pursue you!
2006-09-20 18:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I made a huge mistake 4 yrs. ago I left my husband of 6 yrs. because he was on the road all of the time.I met someone new and we are engaged we have been together almost 3 yrs. He is nothing like my ex. I could kick myself for leaving him and for being w/ this jerk now. My current is lasy, can't cook, does'nt clean, we never go anywhere. Oh he was charming at first, but not at all good looking...I don't know what I saw in him. My ex was gorgeous, but he moved away. But yes I think of him everyday. My advice to you RUN RUN RUN good luck
2006-09-20 18:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by dreamangel5361 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you act like a desperate housewife you are going to scare him off.Tell him you are going to wait until your divorce is final until you have a lunch date. Give him a date to get in touch with you. A month or a few weeks or whatever. Wait for his call and do not call him. If he calls you have a chance and if he doesn't then forget about him.
2006-09-20 18:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by lindsay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haha well enjoy yourself and it's normal to think about someone the sex was great with when you find yourself alone.. Have some fun and bang him once for all us other housewives
2006-09-20 18:11:44 · answer #4 · answered by Amy M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about it all the time but so much has changed since then. Meet with him and see if the sparks are still there, at least you'll know.
2006-09-20 18:47:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So let me get this strait... you want to go back in time? Don't think fantasy think reality.
2006-09-20 18:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by lovleymel@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you had your chance...he has someone....leave him alone....thinking about him is harmless..but remember this..if he will cheat on her..he would cheat on you too..is that really what you want? perhaps he will do lunch so he can be home at night ..where he belongs!
2006-09-20 18:18:23 · answer #7 · answered by Jan W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is being that short with you he probably thinks that your crazy, and is just trying to blow you off politely by telling you that you guys can have lunch
2006-09-20 18:25:39 · answer #8 · answered by Brandon M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋