I partially saw something similar on one of those TV court shows, I think divorce court. I didnt keep it there long enough to hear if it was considered an irreconcilible difference.
2006-09-20 03:16:53 · 29 answers · asked by High? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Based on some of the answers I received, its evident that yall are clueless airheads. This was not a personal question, as in something that I'm going through. It was a mere question out of curiosity. Who the hell do you think you are telling somebody what they need to do...etc? Please.
If you know the answer, answer. If not, go on about your business.
2006-09-20 03:30:46 · update #1
It should be established before getting into a serious relationship. It is a person's choice to perform it or not. Dating is used to find a person whom you will be happy with correct. Then the case with these two may be they are not a good match. Let bygones be bygones and separate.
Regardless of the situation, always remember that oral sex is a matter of taste : )
2006-09-20 03:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by elliott 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Did you try and sit down with your mate and get to the root of why your partner wont perform oral? More than likely there is something that is disturbing him/her, and it could be something deep rooted to the point that therapy would be recommended. If you love your partner try and be understanding and communication is where you both need to be. I tell you from my own experiences I was dating a woman that was like that, but she enjoyed having oral done to her. Well, I tried to find out what was the problem and she didnt feel comfortable about it enough to talk about. So, whenever we got intimate I would really show her how I was into her and lo and behold I got her soooo hot that she broke through the ice and did it to me. It turns out later once we talked about it that she was turned off by both the smell of men down there and all the hair. It also helped I had trimmed it up and had just showered.
I hope this helps ya.
2006-09-20 03:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by brazilman37 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Hell no, Why would you want your partner to do something they didn't feel comfortable with doing? You need to be a little bit more considerate of the other persons boundaries. Try and find out why they don't feel comfortable doing this and then try to figure out a way to correct the problem. But giving up without even trying is so weak. Who knows if you talked to the other person about it you might be able to solve the problem.
2006-09-20 03:23:37 · answer #3 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think it's grounds for a divorce but eventually he will find someone else to give him oral leading up to a divorce. married or not, you shouldnt have to be forced to perform any sexual act that is not comfortable for you despite if it will please your man/woman. There are personal and sexual limits to every human being. If someone divorces their mate for the reason of not giving oral sex, then i think it's a good idea that they seperate anyway. The relationship is about sex rather than love.
2006-09-20 05:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by ♣DreamDancer♣ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well since you are so smart and mean to people that were trying to help you. ....If you can not or will not see things the same as your partner then that is a difference. NOT BEING ABLE TO GET BEYOND THAT DIFFERENCE IS IRRECONCILABLE. now if someone want to use that as a catalyst for divorce, they are well within there rights. even though it show xtreme selfishness on both side.
2006-09-20 03:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by cilverpenni 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is an irreconcilable difference if it causes conflict and can't be resolved. People get divorced for less than that all the time.
2006-09-20 03:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think that it would depend on the relationship, if it was a casual thing, they sure terminate it, but if it is a loving long relationship with marriage in the future, then i would think that oral could not be grounds, but on the other hand, i think that if during the relationship, there is fighting about it, then whats it from stopping when in a marriage, perhaps the relationship is doomed,
2006-09-20 03:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by Dawn C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know a couple, that just got married - they entered into their marriage with full knowledge that she would not do this.
If they are up front with what they will and will not - then no.
What happened with people being honest now days.
So it depends on the couple and the relationship.
Good Question!
2006-09-20 03:57:59 · answer #8 · answered by WhatNext 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's seem a little extreme basis for getting a divorce...Its just an excuse for something else..
2006-09-20 03:25:50 · answer #9 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope that is not grounds for termination of a relationship and it is very stupid if someone would leave their wife/ husband for something like that.
2006-09-20 03:25:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋