Marriage & Divorce - 30 August 2006

2006-08-30 14:26:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband would rather sit and play his game all day then to talk to me . We have not had sex for the past three months which seems to be seems like that is becoming a tradition because it was about three months the time before that too. That time if was not even that great. We never spend any time together. He spends time with our son and that is it. No time for me. He loves to work 3-11pm which means he doesn't see me at all because I work 7-3pm. When he comes home I ask him to wake me up and he just stays downstairs and plays his game until the wee hours of the morning. He always seems like he has an attitude with me whenever I talk to him. He never tells me he loves me or even touches me for that matter. He always makes the baby sleep in between us. When I ask him about that and everything else that is bothering me he tells me he doesn't see what I am talking about. Do you think he is cheating on me or is he just preoccupied with our son and his game?

2006-08-30 14:22:30 · 21 answers · asked by LOST and CONFUSED 1

I am a single mother with one child.

2006-08-30 14:19:23 · 8 answers · asked by wcheeseman@rogers.com 1

2006-08-30 14:16:16 · 12 answers · asked by groovythek 2

My husband is retired federal employee. We have been married for 20 years. The annuity ahs been paid with me as beneficiery all this time. I ahve also worked but have no retirement plan or insurance because he had a retirement plan.What can I do?

2006-08-30 14:13:42 · 13 answers · asked by payne4utoo 1

2006-08-30 14:12:21 · 4 answers · asked by amberharris20022000 7

ok heres the deal, ihave been remarried for almost 5 yrs,and have children with my hubby,i have been divorced from my ex for 9 yrs. we also have kids together and they live with him. my ex loves drama and to cause problems, mainly for me!its been like this for 9 miserable yrs. with this man.he lies constantly, lying to cover up lies,always calling me not to talk about the kids, but to tell me how he`s gettin married,mind you he says this like monthly,he always has medical problems he is whining to me about and he over exaurates,one time he told me he was having toe surgery, it was a hang nail, lol.and i think he`s told me he has had 3 heart attacks, i stopped counting after the 3rd one.he`s always has some sorta crap going on all the way down to actually telling me he had crabs!among other things he has contracted.well ok so not to bore you guys to make a looooooong story short, couple weeks ago he calls me at work wanting my full address for his lawyer.re:shared parenting

2006-08-30 14:10:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is this normal in most relationships? i know there are 2 sides 2 a coin yes I did break her heart and lied to her...can this have done it? Serious answers only please. I always...put her down for this.

2006-08-30 14:06:39 · 17 answers · asked by sunshine 4

Mid 30's, good paying career, house, car, and minimal debt. We have discussed having children before we got married, and I truly believed that we were on the same page. Fast forward seven years, and now I want children, but whenever we finally have the conversation, nothing gets resolved. We do not even have sex anymore...10 times in the past two years (i think). Divorce is the only viable option at this point, because the arguments are circular and neither of us are getting any younger. Advice please?

2006-08-30 13:59:33 · 23 answers · asked by whattodo 1

2006-08-30 13:57:38 · 26 answers · asked by LuvyDuvy 2

now we have a lilttle boy an he verbaly abuses me all the time what can i do to make him realize this is hurting our relationship i've already left 2 times it's to the point were i want a devorse . he is 20 an i am 19 will thing every change?

2006-08-30 13:52:25 · 6 answers · asked by kellie h 1

I would like to know is it someone else.

2006-08-30 13:52:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-30 13:47:58 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband constantly plays mind games with me. He never wants to eat dinner with me or spend any time with me - even romance. This has been going on constantly for 1 month and off and on since the beginning of this year. He claims I am cheating on him (I do not) and that I cheated all my life. We sit down to talk and I tell him that I am sad that he doesn't want to spend time with me. But he starts accusing me of all sorts of things. I start to cry and walk away and he says that proves that I want nothing to do with the marriage when I simply want to shed my sorrows in another room. He says he is seeing a councelor. When I say I would be willing to go soon and ask him who, where, etc. He won't tell me and then he says that I won't go and that shows I am not trying to make this marriage work. I don't know if I want to get a divorce or try to see if things get better. I am older and I would like to have kids buyt starting out fresh to find someone new can be very lengthy.

2006-08-30 13:42:46 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

my parents got a divorce last year and i'm in college and i'm having a hard time with it. i'm just wondering if it's easier on kids if their parents divorce when they are young children or older?

2006-08-30 13:41:45 · 32 answers · asked by babycakes2444 2

And if it means what I think it means (dating outside someone that isn't your spouse, but that's okay with your spouse) why would someone do that?

2006-08-30 13:37:29 · 30 answers · asked by Lissa 3

I am wanting to write uo divorce papers for a friend of mine can anyone direct me to a sample of a document that I can look at. I want to get a general idea of what all it needs to contain.

2006-08-30 13:35:15 · 6 answers · asked by R B 1

I'm sitting here waiting for him to come in and he just has but, he's gone straight to bed as if that will save him from being asked where he's been until this hour? Do I ask tonight or give him a chance to dream up an exotic answer for the morning?

2006-08-30 13:33:15 · 26 answers · asked by Harriet 5

2006-08-30 13:20:36 · 25 answers · asked by robert8481 2

2006-08-30 13:16:49 · 19 answers · asked by zeebee 2

my girl is bipolar, and attempted scuicide a few weeks ago, when she goes into her fits of rage, the person she takes it out on is me. she is also a compulsive liar, now she says she was molested when she was 15 years old, and thats what is causing all the problems. I CANT TAKE IT ANY LONGER! what should i do?

2006-08-30 13:13:39 · 31 answers · asked by hemi_beepbeep 3

i really should nt even worry about it because they really love him so and i do also i really just want to know what u think.

2006-08-30 13:09:21 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2

2006-08-30 13:07:31 · 17 answers · asked by Jessica 4

:D I'm a germophobe and I'm getting married! Any good ideas about the honeymoon night? My friends say just close my eyes?

-I asked him was the wedding ring "distilled." "Sanitanitized?" Knowing me, I think he said yes just so I would wear it. I try to wear it without thinking about how many hands have touched it.
-I told him we didn't need a wedding cake since I can't make cakes and I don't know how another person would cook it.
-He asked me what color themes the wedding should be. I told him white. It's so much "cleaner."
-I told him I did not trust him at all. He told me I'd run the waterbill up with my washing hands and showering.
-He suggests I should see a therapist. I told him I would die of spirochete before that happens.
-He wants kids but I don't know about lying in a hospital bed. Do you know how many people lie in that same bed? And kids are nasty. I was nasty as a kid.

Anyone ever married a germ freak before? I fear sex. I told him he'd better get out now

2006-08-30 13:03:35 · 10 answers · asked by Louis 1

2006-08-30 13:03:35 · 23 answers · asked by robert8481 2

We have been married for 2 yrs. We're together for 3 yrs.
I know he wasn't a virgin when we got married neither was I.

He went to the doctor today because he tought he had hemorroids, but the doctor said it's STD. I went to the doctor months ago and tested for all STD and it come back negative.

Now I'm very confused... I don't know if he already had this for all this years or if he cheated on me. I'm also thinking that he could be gay, since he has something on his anus.


I'm going to the doctor tomorrow to make sure I'm ok.. but I still don't know what to do with him... He says he thinks he got it from me... because he didin't cheat..

What sould I do? Please write to me if something like that heppened with you before...

Thanks
Eva

2006-08-30 13:00:01 · 24 answers · asked by Eva 2

2006-08-30 12:55:07 · 12 answers · asked by cre8tivpoet 1

I have been married for 6 years. I married very young, and am starting to realize that there is a desire for single men like me.

I very much like the attention that I have been getting lately, but have stayed completely faithful to my wife through it all.

The problem I am having is that my wife does not like to dress up for me at all, and does not have much of a passion for anything sexual unless I initiate it.

She says she is just not the type of person to think of romantic things, and just goes about life like every day is the same.

I love her tremendously, and I dont want to hurt her, but its killing me to feel like this. I'm tired of having to think of everything, and I dont feel appreciated.

I have thought of divorce, but Im not sure if thats the right option. I have talked to her repeatedly, but to no avail.

The only next option is professional councelling, but I dont want to take that step just yet.

Are my concerns justified, or am I expecting too much?

2006-08-30 12:52:03 · 16 answers · asked by Godslayer 2

2006-08-30 12:50:52 · 12 answers · asked by evelyn55 1

He has goofed off on occasion, about marriage while drunk. I've heard the truth comes out of a drunk's mouth. Should I take him serious?

2006-08-30 12:41:54 · 26 answers · asked by One Sly Look 3