Marriage & Divorce - 30 August 2006

2006-08-30 10:54:54 · 27 answers · asked by A.C. 1

i am not sure if i really did........i was pretty high...i don't want to talk about this with her until after the baby is born...how can i avoid this conversation until then?

2006-08-30 10:43:11 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-30 10:37:49 · 40 answers · asked by Susan b 1

I don't know why i want him back so bad. I know i just can't stop loving him. My so called best friend has talked him out of everything that he was suppose to do with me and my son. he is being so nice to me right now i know its over but in ways i want him back or maybe its i don't want him with her. She has went behind my back when i was telling her stuff and she told him everything i saying. She was doing stuff with him but never with me and we only been split up for 3 or 4 weeks now. I just want to pay them back and don't know how to do it. I have a 14 month old son that needs his dad all the time. He is missing out of alot of stuff maybe i should feel bad about that but i do. he wants to talk face to face i not sure what to say please someone help me................................

2006-08-30 10:31:59 · 81 answers · asked by Angie C 1

my husband left in July i met an older man at the end of July the older gut is wonderful and supportive i found out he's married he doesnt know that i know he was put out about the same time my husband left my husband found out i was dating and now he wants to come home we have been together 8 years i was already hurt and now this really adds fuel to the fire i have a server fear of being by myself when i look at my husband now i have no feelings for him because we have been through to much but its comfortable i wish this new guy would not have lied because i was very honest with him and he is the most wonderful man i have ever met what should i do ?

2006-08-30 10:21:52 · 18 answers · asked by lisa 2

2006-08-30 10:17:44 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a heart condtition that has turned into congestive heart failure I'm 31, I still cannot go back to work and have to stay at home resting. My husband took off one moth to take care of me now he has gone back to work. Being home everyday alone I look forward to my husband comming home and talking with me. My problem: my husband says he's not a big talker....he either goes to his office to study, or will leave me if I'm watching something he does not like on tv and goes to his office. I feel I cannot win his attention. I want him to engage me and want to be around me ...but his excuse he says he's not a big talker.... I don't know what to do here and we have gotten into arguements about this....Any ideas?????

2006-08-30 10:12:03 · 19 answers · asked by dlmvm0612 1

This is a question for any wives that have cheated on their husband but were really in love with their husband. Some will say that if you cheat, that you could not have loved your husband. Is this true? Have you ever cheated without just cause? Meaning, that temptation occurred at the right moment and place to cause you to do something that was completely out of character. I have read a lot lately on "affair-proofing" a marriage. Yes, I had a wife that cheated but after reading books and such, I was able to reflect back on several situations or moments that I probably would have cheated given the correct circumstance. I know I did not "affair-proof" my marriage. I just had blind trust in my wife and she had blind trust in me. However, she and I put ourselves(not often) in situations that could have led to cheating. Example: Me drinking with all single guys going to the club talking with single women - the right women that was aggressive probably would have sealed the deal.

2006-08-30 10:11:06 · 6 answers · asked by Confused 1

2006-08-30 10:09:52 · 6 answers · asked by Mrs.K 1

Hi,
Ok so my boyfriend and i broak up and he has a car of mine and wont give it back to me. It is compleatly in my name, he is not on it anyweare not even on insurance. He says he loves the car and will pay the car payment on it if he can keep it, but it is in my name. I offered to let him buy me out of the car, but he cannot find anyone to cosign on a loan for him. I just want the car back, what can I do. He said If I try and take it back, he will hide it or make it so it is not in working order. Help please!!
For all of you who say call the police I did, they told me because I "gave him permission to use the car" and he made one lousy car payment that it is a civil matter and they cannot actualy take it from him because it is not stolen. So now what wise guys? Meanwhile if he crashes it, or kills someone in it I will be liable!

2006-08-30 10:07:32 · 21 answers · asked by Angie 2

i am asking 'coz i don't want to go to a shrink for therapy

2006-08-30 10:07:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

blinking contest to do the laundry. I never win. She handles the tears so much better than I can. Do you ever compete to do the chores?

2006-08-30 10:03:04 · 27 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

My husband and I are borrowing a bed from the military right now, its a double, wrapped in plastic. Sometimes it feels to small and uncomfortable so I lay on the floor between the bed and wall on blankets I've been doing this now on and off for about two months. I'm wondering if me laying on the floor and my husband by himself in the bed can create any kind of mental distant between us or our marriage? Does the sleeping in two different places really matter?

2006-08-30 09:50:48 · 24 answers · asked by dlmvm0612 1

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years we lived together for most of our relationship and i love him soo much we are both young 19 year old students who work fulltime. I know he loves me and hes talked about the future with me and he says hes going to ask me but im still not sure if its right for us to get married at this time we are both young but so in love. I know i want to marry him..so will waiting make things easier or if im sure we are going to eventully should we just get married soon? We have been through alot and we are still together so i know our relationship can stand..and he truly is my best friend and i love him soo much and i dont want any one else....so i just need advice from older wiser people whove been throught this or something like this! Any advice will help..thanks! :)

2006-08-30 09:47:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

This question is mainly for the women who are now married...but were once players. When did you get that "feeling" of wanting a family?? Was it hard to settle down?? I'm 25 and just recently started having that "feeling"

2006-08-30 09:45:45 · 17 answers · asked by Z. 3

Hi,
Ok so my boyfriend and i broak up and he has a car of mine and wont give it back to me. It is compleatly in my name, he is not on it anyweare not even on insurance. He says he loves the car and will pay the car payment on it if he can keep it, but it is in my name. I offered to let him buy me out of the car, but he cannot find anyone to cosign on a loan for him. I just want the car back, what can I do. He said If I try and take it back, he will hide it or make it so it is not in working order. Help please!!

2006-08-30 09:45:30 · 29 answers · asked by Angie 2

I have been with my wife for nearly 6 years, it has flow by so fast!

I have a friend who is in a loveless marriage and he says his 2 year marriage has gone by slow.

Do you think time flies by in happy marriages?

Do you think time goes by slow in unhappy marriages?

Why or why not?

2006-08-30 09:43:56 · 14 answers · asked by HappyHippo 1

2006-08-30 09:42:58 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm just curious what people think. I was in a controlling relationship a long time ago, so I'm recovered. This guy was totally focused on me, what I ate, who I talked to, how I should dress and pretty well every detail of my existence, but it was all supposed to be for my benifit, and he seemed to have pretty well no sense of self. Was his behaviour selfish, or does it belong in it's own category of warped?

2006-08-30 09:42:05 · 8 answers · asked by mj_indigo 5

I read a true story of a woman who got divorced and the ex got the house so she put thawed shrimp in the ends of the curtain rods. It started stinking so bad, he tried repainting, replacing the carpet, you name it. Finally the smell got so bad he put the house on the market but had to sell it really cheap to get a buyer. She was able to find away to buy it without him knowing and replaced all the rods. Smart, Smart Woman!!

2006-08-30 09:36:16 · 13 answers · asked by humorme! 3

2006-08-30 09:34:55 · 37 answers · asked by less 2

Ok, so, over the summer, i went to California for a wedding. I met this awesome guy at the wedding, and we danced and talked all night. We meshed very well together, and both felt very affected by the whole experience. He is a relative on the groom's side, and I am a relative of the bride's side.
Since then, we planned for him to visit me in New York, to attend a different wedding with me. We figured we could find out if there is as much chemistry as we had thought. He's coming here for a week.
We haven't seen eachother for two months since that night, and I recently met someone--the brother of a friend of mine who I am completely head over heels for. We have fallen like little kids for eachother, and there is definitely hope for a long term effort between us...
So, the guy I'm falling for will be away when the wedding guy comes to stay. What do I say to each of them? I'm scared that the guy I'm falling for would be bothered by this other guy being here. but tickets are bought.

2006-08-30 09:24:33 · 20 answers · asked by smarty 2

2006-08-30 09:21:06 · 26 answers · asked by mackey 1

Me and my girlfriend are from different background,she is asian i am from lebanon,first we met we had a beautifull relation after 6 months we started to fight and querel over nothing,one of us wants to change the other ,to impose his or her view of reality,she demand things of me that make no sense at all , and i do the same .sometimes in the silence of our hearts ,we say to ourselves "how good it would be to be free,to have no commitments"recently we had stupid fight over stupid subject,and we sat down we talked what is going on , till when we can handle this,i tried to take from her info to c if she come up with a solution bcs we tried a lot of things but it didnt work,she didn't know what to answer,the end was a short term BREAK UP , for 10 days no telephone , sms,email,.....i feel down,need to cry but i can not,she is under depression,she is anxious and i feel bad about her,i dont know if we can come back together but i wish, if we will not the same way we use to deal.

2006-08-30 09:20:43 · 3 answers · asked by RABDXB 1

Does that make you a sl#t ?

2006-08-30 09:19:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-30 09:16:32 · 7 answers · asked by hotlady342000 1

My hubby wants to have a threesome. I think that it would be a disaster becuase i am so jealous i wouldnt want any girl touching him but i want to make him happy. What should i do?

2006-08-30 09:16:03 · 15 answers · asked by SamsMomma 1

I think of how much better it is now, and how bad it was with her.

2006-08-30 09:05:31 · 20 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

I cheated my wife 4 years ago & she wanted me to promise that I 'll not do it again. And I didn't.. But suddenly i came to know that she is cheating me now but partially. I want her to cheat me fully. am I right? so that I 'm free from my guilt.

2006-08-30 09:05:12 · 18 answers · asked by akela 2

For those who are divorced:

What age did you marry?

What age did you divorce?

Do you regret getting married?

I married my wife when 24 years old after 4 years of dating. Married for almost 2 years, marriage is great for us, no kids yet, but we are working on that. :)

2006-08-30 09:02:44 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous