I cheated my wife 4 years ago & she wanted me to promise that I 'll not do it again. And I didn't.. But suddenly i came to know that she is cheating me now but partially. I want her to cheat me fully. am I right? so that I 'm free from my guilt.
2006-08-30 09:05:12 · 18 answers · asked by akela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are both cheating then why are you both still married? Move on with your life's and be guilt free.
2006-08-30 09:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How on Gods earth do you partially cheat? Either youre cheating or youre not. Either way do you really think that by her cheating on you will relieve your guilt feeling for what you did? both cheating will not solve one damn thing except to cause more problems amongst you two. You guys have a major problem within your marriage and you are going about the wrong way to solve it. This marriage is not a sports game and now youve both cheated doesnt mean a tied game. You will have to live with your guilt and now she has to live with hers and nothing will ever fix that. You made a mistake probably apoligized for it, now learn to live with it and move on. Either your marriage is worth saving or not, but it sounds like there is irreconciliable differences and its over so be a man and do the honorable thing and end it or theres going to be real trouble real soon. Good luck
2006-08-30 16:17:52 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you "partially" cheat? The two of you need to sit down together and decide if you are both still fully emotionally invested in this marriage or not. I don't think playing tit for tat is any way to keep your relationship on the right track.
2006-08-30 16:28:42 · answer #3 · answered by Debbie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What!!!!!! give me a break there's nothing like a partial cheat, get real man, you guys need to talk and see if the relation is still worth it, and if not let go and go your separate ways, i believe in the long run it will be better for both of you, take care and good luck.
2006-08-30 16:14:57 · answer #4 · answered by chidoonekenobi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not right, 2 wrongs dont make a right. Even if she cheats on you you wont be free from your guilt you may have the urge to go and do it again sounds like you both either need to stop or leave each other.
2006-08-30 16:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by Jon and Nichole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u okay with a man which isnt u to be inside ur woman??
maybe when u guys have sex the next time she´ll be thinking how that man is better than u in bed..
and why is ahe cheating??dont u satisfy her enough?is that why she has to look somewhere else for a man to make her feel the glory??
u have issues to deal with..my advice to u is go and see a shrink!
2006-08-30 16:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by Sus-Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, because you cheatting on her first and you made her not trust you anymore and she like hell with it if he cheating on me and I will cheat on my husband and I tired of walking on the damn shell not want it to be broken. so she had it worrying about you cheating on her agian.
So you not free from your freaking Guilt... If you didn't cheat and she did and then boom you not guilt she is but No you cheat and made her cheat. so your fault. not your wife.
2006-08-30 16:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a person who has cheated for spite.. you will not feel any better by letting her cheat..because two wrongs do not a right...you have to forgive yourself in order for her to forgive you completely
2006-08-30 16:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by chick29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a looney. Your guilt will not go away. Now she gets to share the guilt. That's no basis for marriage.
2006-08-30 16:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best answer: yes let her cheat and she can't point her finger at you and she feels better of knowing having sex with another doesn't change the love for you. Buy her a condom.
2006-08-30 23:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋