Marriage & Divorce - 30 August 2006

All the concerns I had before we got married have all been true. I know it's my fault for marrying him despite the issues, but I love him. However, when we argue I feel angry at myself for knowing it would be this way and I take it out on him. He's a great guy. He's loving, smart, funny... I feel bad. We've been married for six years and he's still very immature. What can I do to shake this feeling?

2006-08-30 12:39:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a man or a women cheats once will he or she do it again if yes why do you think they do it?

2006-08-30 12:39:18 · 30 answers · asked by Jman 1

2006-08-30 12:37:53 · 17 answers · asked by evelyn55 1

I have a list of things to do set up for my wife to celebrate her 40th birthday (ex: nice lunch w/ the kids, romantic dinner w/ me, getting nails done, massage, and shopping during the day, etc....). I haven't told her everything specifically yet, but she thinks the way I'm going about the massage is tacky. What do you think? You see, a couple years ago she was interested in going to a medical technical school to become a nurse. One of the programs at this school was for massage therapist. Just before these massage therapist students graduate, the school has small massage therapy business which is open to the public. The cost for a 1 hour full body massage is only $35. I recall when she first learned about this, she thought it sounded like a good idea to enjoy some day. Anyway, she thinks it's tacky and I should take her to a spa. Yes, I agree it would be tacky if that was all I was going to do for her, but along w/ the other things planned, I think it would be nice.

2006-08-30 12:30:38 · 16 answers · asked by wolf1ibm 2

We are both married 19 year olds. We want to keep our sex life interesting. Any ideas?

2006-08-30 12:28:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married and am very much in love with my husband. He has a vasectomy and said he would get it reversed, but I have yet to see it happen and don't believe he will. I want another child really bad and don't know if I should give up being with my husband to find someone I can love and have a child with or just give up on having another child and stay with my husband. I don't want to resent him later; I don't want to resent myself either! I feel stuck!!

2006-08-30 12:27:04 · 11 answers · asked by adm2576 2

I had an affair with a married man and fell in love. I believed him when he said that he was in love with me too but his wife found out and he did not leave her.

I regret so much it happened, but I am still hurting so much. It ended 8 months ago, but we kept in contact as 'friends' for about 5 more because he occasionally would say he loved me still but would not cheat anymore.

It has been 3 mths since I spoke properly to him, but I still love him.

Has anyone been there that can help with ways to forget about him? And please, any men that have been there, how can someone be in love with another and stay with thier wife?

2006-08-30 12:26:39 · 45 answers · asked by Sara 1

I think my children are first - Is that wrong?

2006-08-30 12:26:33 · 12 answers · asked by *TheShryocks* 3

Money, Kids, Parenting methods, In laws, Bills, Cheating Spouse, other?

And is it enough to make you call it quits?

2006-08-30 12:26:21 · 9 answers · asked by Brandon 4

some ppl say you can tell by fingering them , others say they bleed the first time they have sex...well i wanna know the truth ...

2006-08-30 12:21:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I married someone who I thought would grow with me thru the years, but I made one mistake. I jumped into the relationship head first without checking up on this mans background. He told me he had no children, was single and was about to move into a really nice apartment when we first met. About 10 days after we met, he told me he was going out to take care of some business, kissed me and said he would be back soon. So I called one of his family members and they said, he is with his child and her mother they are having a big celebration for their birthdays over her house. And I was like, what do you mean, he said he dont have any kids, she said I dont know why he would tell you that cause he is with her right now. I was so hurt, when he came back he had a woman waiting for him in a car, and immediately said, I dont wanna be here no more, I am leaving you. I told him not to leave so he told the other woman to go home. Why i had the nerve to marry this guy and expect him to change

2006-08-30 12:18:09 · 19 answers · asked by odaat_1218 1

I believe him and there is nothing there to point otherwise, he wants to keep it this way, he says why should he go look out there when he has better at home. We both are honest and have been faithful to each other but sometimes I question if this is possible for a male to do, I mean, not to want to be with another woman in 14 years?

2006-08-30 12:03:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

For which activities should you take off your wedding ring? Or are there no instances in which you should take off your ring? Or are you always supposed to take of your ring when doing physical activity? I don't take off my ring at the gym, but i'm starting to wonder if most other people do. What about sports? I play basketball, volleyball, and softball a lot. Do other people take of their rings when playing those sports?

2006-08-30 12:03:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many years have you been married. My wife and I have been married for 20 years. During those 20 years we had our good times and bad times, but I wouldn't trade her for anything.

2006-08-30 11:59:56 · 19 answers · asked by Nicko912 3

my friend her parents r going through a divorce and she tells me all this stuff bout how she needs help but i dunno wat 2 say!! HELP!!

2006-08-30 11:59:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I left my husband 16 mos. ago. I live in an apt. We haven't lived together since 05/06/05. I had a sep. agreement sent to him by a lawyer but he won't sign it.
He lives in the home we own for free.
This past June, he emailed me that he would buy me out of our home when he could afford to-when he and his sister sold their deceased parents' home and use the money from that sale to pay me.
I tracked the sale of his parents home, & discovered that it was under contract. My RE agent called his RE agent and was told that the parents' home would be settled on by Sept. 8th but I may have TROUBLE getting the money from him because someone told him that it's HIS inheritance money. True, but he will eventually HAVE to buy me out with the no-fault divorce law in my state at the end of 2 yrs. That's in 8 mos.
I emailed him to tell him that I know he'll have the money soon and I need a proof of funds letter to keep house hunting according to my RE agent. No reply. I'm worried.
What should I do?

2006-08-30 11:55:20 · 8 answers · asked by Oh Wise One 2

Boyfriend desperately wants to see his daughter on his weekends. Ex wife & her husband switch weekends constantly, send nasty emails, threaten, etc. B/F has begun following Decree to a tee - even sending certified letters re: when he's coming to get her, rather than mess with the ugliness of email that transpires. Court gave him a # to call if he was denied visitation, saying they would work just as hard for his visitation as they did her child support. When he called last weekend, they said he needs to hire an atty! Where is the justice? He just wants to see his daughter & he pays c/s timely! The system really does not work for parents who are doing the right thing, but have unruly exes to deal with. Any advice?

2006-08-30 11:53:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife of 25yrs went out drinking with workmates then spent the night at her bosses place. they slept naked in the same bed and cuddled all night. she says they did not have sex and it was not intimate.She said it meant nothing and she just needed to be held and cuddled by some one to make her feel like a woman again.I know we had been going through a rough patch. If she only needed to be held why get naked? I have tried to forgive but cant forget. she doesnt want to talk about it and i feel i am the one who has done something wrong. can anyone tell me what i should do?

2006-08-30 11:47:24 · 29 answers · asked by Len C 1

My X got custody of my son in June, since then he hasn't let me see or speak to my son alone. The DA is prosecuting dad on 2 counts. His Mom treats him like a baby, he's 46! The trial is soon and suddenly I've got cops at my door, my foster parent caseworker got 2 calls from a woma saying things you wouldn't believe and a woman called a friend's employer claiming more outrageous stuff. I know it's her. All this within 1 week. The cops won't give up a name yet. She didn't leave 1 with her other pranks. What can I do? If I ask, they'll lie.

2006-08-30 11:46:21 · 8 answers · asked by L 2

I heard it hurts when erect . Is this true. Im interested in answers from people who use them but really dont need to use them.

2006-08-30 11:44:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can we get back at her for her unreasonable financial demands?

2006-08-30 11:42:07 · 10 answers · asked by Mandi D 1

where can i find a married man who likes a bit off **** in manchester....cor

2006-08-30 11:37:20 · 8 answers · asked by fox5nyc 3

what a woman want from men either for marriage and after that .
Is it character or physical structure . which make woman attractive towards men. i excepct answers from female becoz i can change according to that to attract woman and get good life partner..

2006-08-30 11:35:47 · 17 answers · asked by md m 2

is there any way i can be a better wife and keep my husband happy all the time.i really need to know!

2006-08-30 11:31:57 · 19 answers · asked by Meow4Moe 5

2006-08-30 11:31:49 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hubby and I are having a discussion about a male friend that I have that I confide in. He says that for me to call him during a fight (between hubby and I) sends him (the male friend) a message saying I'm interested in him, when thats not what I mean at all.... I simply like his advice and he can give my a guys insight whereas a woman will only take my side most of the time. Guys, if you were the male friend, would you get that idea?? Ladies, do you think I should cut the male friend off??

2006-08-30 11:30:28 · 23 answers · asked by onehot_mama23 2

My friend has not seen his spouse for 11 yrs he remarried. Found out that 1st marriage was not resolved. Would his present marriage be legal.

2006-08-30 11:22:12 · 28 answers · asked by lizzybit64 3

hi i am 28 now i am planning to marry a you girl whos age is about sixteen. but she is well build. What my worry is is our sex life will affect due to this age diffrence ....

2006-08-30 11:13:43 · 12 answers · asked by md m 2

2006-08-30 11:04:00 · 18 answers · asked by Ariel 1

im 18 been married for 4 years and its been rough i recently caught my husband kinda cheatin on the internet more than 4 chat lines but when i went to the chat lines there weren no friends, recent emails or anythin they went back to july 14 and he said him and his little cousin were messin around in the computer before all of this i have never had proof that he has cheated on me exept the one time he was callin a girl from out of the country and he said he was lonely that they just talked and that he has never seen her, i am very upset he still lives with his ***** of a mom and i live with mine so we are kinda seperated but he finally got a job to supposebly move us out , i feel like i cant trust him anymore what should i do?

2006-08-30 10:58:50 · 17 answers · asked by eliza 2