how would you know if a girl is virgin or not?

Question

some ppl say you can tell by fingering them , others say they bleed the first time they have sex...well i wanna know the truth ...

Answer 1

First of all, if it really matters that much to you, you could think about why.

Second, you could develop a level of trust with the girl to just ask her.

Third, you could talk about the hymen being intact, but there are a lot of different shapes and sizes and no absolute way to tell.

Answer 2

Well if you are having sex you should love this girl. With love comes trust so if you ask her and she says she is then you should trust that she is telling you the truth. You aren't going to be able to physically tell, unless you are a doctor and you are going to do a pelvic examine. The whole bleeding myth isn't true. Not all girls bleed their first time. So how do you know a guy is a virgin still? You don't you just have to trust them.

Answer 3

WHATS UP.........THE PAINTER IS BACK!!!!!!!OK down to business. Personally, I like Sarah's answer, if the lady and yourself have a serious thing going, her word should be good enough. If you're a dog and just want to get in her pants, what difference would it make, on the other hand, if you just have to know.....listen up! In this day and age, there are many things that could cause a young lady to rupture her hymen, riding a bike or a horse, an accident in gym, you feel me. There is a very thin and fragile layer of skin, more or less, kind of a membrane,attached just inside the opening of her vagina, using your finger, very tenderly,you should be able to feel it, a little lubricant wouldn't hurt. If it's still attached, your finger won't be able to pass any further, if it's not, like I said, there are many ways ( including tampons) that it could have been torn or ruptured. Think about this young man.....think hard. GOOD LUCK

Answer 4

A doctor can tell because some skin is broken. Some women bleed the 1st time others do not. It really depends. Some women are really athletic from dance and gymnastics and do not bleed, but have pain. I seriously doubt a man can tell. What they can tell if if you have had a baby. A baby makes a difference because a baby is huge. Not being a virgin or not. If a guy is that much of a jurk to you to not be with him he is not worth it.

Answer 5

There is no way to tell because whenever girls uses tampons, it can rip the hymen (the thin layer of skin that gets ripped the first time a girl has sex) So it may be ripped but she could still be a virgin.

Answer 6

If you have never had sex you are a virgin. There is no physical way to tell. When you are a virgin you have a hymen which is broken with sexual intercourse. However, it may be broken before sexual intercourse by other activities such as riding a bike. How old are you? You should ask your parents.

Answer 7

How do you tell if a girl is a virgin or not? Easy- she's not.

The first time I had sex with the secretary in my office, confetti came out of her vagina, and a guy walks in the room, puts a ribbon around me and tells me that congratulations I was the millionth customer.

Answer 8

If she says she is a virgin trust her. If not, why do you want to be with her if you can't trust her.

The "bleeding" first time is pretty much a myth these days with the use of tampons.

Answer 9

The truth is there is no way to tell. The ways you mentioned are not reliable.

Answer 10

If she bleeds when you have sex for the first time