Married and have kids? What is the biggest cause for argument?

Question

Money, Kids, Parenting methods, In laws, Bills, Cheating Spouse, other?

And is it enough to make you call it quits?

Answer 1

parenting methods - I'm more strict with the kids than my husband is. I'm with them all the time, he works a lot so tends to be easier on them and lets them get away with things they shouldn't. no, not enough to call it quits.

Answer 2

1) Money
2)Bills
3)Parenting methods

Those are the top three if you have in law problems those would cause arguments sometimes but not often.

Cheating Spouse this argument is a one shot deal. If he is cheating and you find out he has had his one shot and he either discovers the greatness that is you and quits his cheating ways or he can hit the road. That is the only two choices. These choices are only available on the first time if he is a repeat offender he can just hit the road.

Answer 3

Yes, yes ... it's your big day. Everybody tells you that. And as part of your big day, you wanted everything to be perfect, and agreed to include family in particular ways ... because that's what people do who care about their family and friends. They don't plan big, perfect fluffy weddings that look like everybody else's with perfect socks and matching hairbands. They expect people to look forward to the event, and they look forward to it themselves. I'm sorry that's not happening for you. You said, "the problem came when we started looking at dresses ...". No, honey, the problem came when you agreed to bridesmaids to keep your mother happy, and sisters happy, and everybody happy, without being clear about your own goals and your own plans. Take a deep breath ... and start making some choices. Ignore the responses below that say, "You're the princess, and having the right shoes is more important than your relationship with your friends and your family." You wanted to honor and include your family, and you should ... but you also need to have some conversations (not angry fights or crying) about how they can be supportive. Some rules to remember: 1. You only pay for what you choose. They pay for what they choose. Simple. 2. You want them there. They want to be there. 3. Sisters are more important than shoes. (You are more important than shoes) 4. Nobody can be invited to a reception except by you. Period. 5. A church wedding is public (nobody can be locked out of a church), so anybody can attend. Then they go home. 6. Your mother and father are trying to help, but they're giving different advice. Ask them to agree, and to stop offering advice. 7. The Queen of England only had three bridesmaids.

Answer 4

We've been married for 4 yrs and have a seven month old baby girl. Right now, our biggest arguments are over him not helping enough with the baby. We fight about it alot. It's not enough for me to call it quits. The only reasons I would divorce my husband is for repeated infedelity, abuse, or serious addiction problems.

Answer 5

material things are great for show, but a family isn't a materialstic commodity, once lost can never be regained or purchased back,especailly in mint condition,i would live in a tent rather then live in a house and argue how we can afford it,kids well they eventually leave home so comprimise as much as possible every one parents differently,in laws don't live with you and just need to be tolerated for the time they may spend with you,cheating...you got married why exactly...the only way i would leave my guy is for cheating cause he promised not to, therfore if he does anything else then comes out of his mouth is crap, yes even the apologise, and if he abused me or the kids in any shape way or form we'd be so gone,everything else is about the joys of marriage and half the time its peoples selfishness that wrecks a marriage because they aren't willing to comprimise to any one but themselves and their own needs which means they still need to remain single

Answer 6

Number one is money, Two is a cheating Spouse, three a sexless marriage.

Answer 7

Bills, Parenting Methods and in-laws...
over time it can be enough for anyone to call it quits

Answer 8

Thats life baby..deal or not.

Answer 9

money

Answer 10

MONEY