Marriage & Divorce - 30 August 2006

I met a guy with some freinds one night and we got chatting, In the conversation I told him where I lived and worked . Now he calls all the time and sends cards and even turned up one day. I have found out that he is in and out of prison for violent crimes and fraud and when I told him to stop calling me he said he will tell my husband that I slept with him. I am scared of what he will do next but feel that it's my fault as I did flirt a bit at the beginnig with him. My husband is very jealous and will never believe me. What I want is for this guy to get fed up and go away but 6 months on and he still calls and texts every day wanting me to go and see him. I can't go to the police without my husband finding out- please any advice?

2006-08-30 03:47:00 · 16 answers · asked by tulambin 1

2006-08-30 03:42:22 · 14 answers · asked by gary g 1

My hubby never puts lids on, always puts the roll of toilet paper on upside down and can never put away food or pitchers of drinks. That's just naming a few!!!!!!!!! It's so frustrating! I wanted a husband not a son!

2006-08-30 03:37:39 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok this kinda goes along with my last question, if your man was a stay at home dad, always had a meal waiting when you got home, wasnt always so good at cleaning the house, took good care of the kids, had a closer relationship with the kids than you IE they came to dad when something was wrong(heck my oldest daughter CALLED me to help when SHE GOT HER PERIOD), was always willing to drop whatever he was going at the time if the mood struck you, told you he loved you everyday, BUT had made his mistakes IE cheated and had a hard time keeping a job AND THEN found out at the AGE OF 31 that he had ADHD and that all the problems in the relationship were due to something he DIDNT know was wrong would you have given him another chance if it was found out within a couple months of the relationship ending?

2006-08-30 03:36:35 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know you may say pack up and leave but we have kids that are involved. Plus everything is in my name the house, cars etc and I have tried telling him to leave and that has been unsuccessful. Any suggestions?

2006-08-30 03:36:28 · 9 answers · asked by mzladyj01 2

been married a long time, wanna spice things up a bit. i want to turn him on in a different way

2006-08-30 03:35:15 · 6 answers · asked by KATRINE 1

over headphones. i lent him mine, he lost them, i stole his, he is mad... cos now he has none. Big argee bargee resulting in no verbal communica throughout day. Of course this irritates me cos he thinks he is right... as always. Which he is not... as always. He is gettin incredibly spoilt cos i let him have his little mood swings... but this time... i want to teach him a lesson. Ring him or stick it out..... Ladies and gents .... the decision is yours.

2006-08-30 03:34:11 · 4 answers · asked by madgal 3

2006-08-30 03:33:12 · 8 answers · asked by sweetheart 1

They live about 20 miles apart and share time with us but sometimes they argue over silly things like who drives to pick us up.

2006-08-30 03:30:05 · 10 answers · asked by mindbender - seeker of truth 5

I Have noticed that people that share an email address seem to have a very trusting relationship ? Would you ? If not Why ? Any comments on this subject welcome.

2006-08-30 03:21:52 · 26 answers · asked by nature4me 3

My hubby and I have been married for 8 years and we love each other very much. He is my best friend, we have a great sex life, however, I am unable to sleep with him in the same bedroom. He snores terrible loud and I have tried ear plugs by I just can't seem to fall asleep when he is beside me. He has slept in the spare room for like 5+ years of our marriage - When we go away or are camping in our trailer, we do sleep together and are fine however at home he just automatically goes to the other bed. I don't know what to do - is this normal, is this just a habit now? Help what can I do......................

2006-08-30 03:20:47 · 42 answers · asked by ? 4

2006-08-30 03:20:02 · 9 answers · asked by isaiah l 1

2006-08-30 03:19:58 · 10 answers · asked by truelover 1

I'm happily married, (honest), but recently I bumped into an ex and I've become a bit obsessed with what ifs. We split up cos I dumped him for my husband, not because was nasty or anything. If I went with him the one time would it get him out of my mind? Or escalate? And would I ever get over the guilt?

2006-08-30 03:17:37 · 32 answers · asked by hadjama 2

ok here is one for the ladies serious answers only please!! What is more important Love or Money for example if you had a decent paying job would you mind it if your man was a Stay At Home Dad?

2006-08-30 03:15:44 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

my coworker said its too small and wont fit in the hole. I told him to keep trying.




we have a 50lb co2 tank that wont fit beside our incubator. I guess we're gonna have to find a new spot for it. do you have problems finding a spot for your co2 tanks?

2006-08-30 03:15:35 · 14 answers · asked by Mrs.♥ Krasinski 4

Should I email my husband’s online g/f and tell her to stay away from my husband, or will I seem like a psycho?
I found out my husband is having an online relationship w/ another woman. They met gaming. Recently, I used his computer & discovered the relationship, which went from gaming buddies to emotional g/f b/f. Their emails contained "different time, place, situation, who knows what could happen”. I confronted him; he denied; I told him what I read; he admitted it. He said she wanted more & said inappropriate things, but she was a friend & he was being nice. He apologized, blocked her from GMail; however I know that they chatted elsewhere, texted and telephoned from cells, & emailed from work accounts. They talked 5- 10X a day. He promised not talk to her again & stays off the home computer, but he has his work laptop. I feel stupid & betrayed, but I love him. I can't sleep & am spying nonstop. We’ve had past problems & came close to divorce 4 mths ago, but things improved.

2006-08-30 03:15:26 · 16 answers · asked by artist2213 2

How can i convince my husband that our marriage is worth saving
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2006-08-30 03:15:21 · 7 answers · asked by tdenisem01 4

My husband and I have been together for 6 years. When we first got together we partied a lot, and had a lot of fun. I supported the household, while his $ went towards partying. We have since then cleaned up our acts, bought a house, got married, he adopted my daughter, and we have also settled down and become christians, and even joined a church....
The problem is, my husband has all of a sudden decided to go back to smoking pot, and I dont approve of it. I dont want to divorce my husband, I love him very much... He used to be a very wonderful and supportive person, now he is verbally, and mentally abusive, gets somewhat physical at times, and is back to taking drugs.... How can I confront the situation without losing my husband????
PLEASE NO SMART REMARKS, THIS IS SOMETHING THAT IS VERY SERIOUS TO ME....
THIS SITUATION ALSO AFFECTS MY DAUGHTER AS WELL!!!! (she doesnt know exactly why daddy is acting the way he is, but it is just as hard for her to deal with his abuse!!!)

2006-08-30 03:12:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

we aren't together and I don't want him back but obviously we have to have contact for our childs sake but I can't bear to speak to or see him due to the lies/psychological abuse in the relationship (we have bare minimum contact via text and email and he collects/drops child to Nursery on Access days) I feel that if I don't force myself to forgive him and have a basic civil relationship, I won't move on in my life or be a better person - it's really hard. Any advice would be welcomed.

2006-08-30 03:10:40 · 33 answers · asked by Happyface 2

2006-08-30 03:07:50 · 32 answers · asked by cuteangel 3

When we got married in Australia he said he would give me 5 years before re-evaluating which country we stayed in. Three years in he began to change. Fifth year he was impossible to live with, as he had taken up with another woman. He came to the country with absolutely nothing. I owned a business and property. Now we are divorced and he got over $100,000 of my retirement money and now I find out he can take half my CPP for that period. PLUS the canadian government made me sponsor him for 10 years (3 1/2 left). The government changed that period 2 years after I signed.

All I really want is to be able to keep my CPP. Actually what I would really really like is to keep my CPP and have him evicted from the country.

2006-08-30 03:07:10 · 4 answers · asked by Susan R 1

2006-08-30 02:54:04 · 6 answers · asked by Gloria M 1

Ok, I've been engaged for about a week & a half; My beautiful fiance & I have been dating since last december (2005) & have set our wedding date for this december (2006)-i know that is quick, but we're sure. Well, I'm sure about us, he & I, but my own insecurities about myself are really starting to get to me (and I know they must be bugging the heck out of him too). I'm constantly trying to get reassurance that he's marrying me because he picked me, not because he's settling for me. He always says yes, & promises, & reminds me of the wonderful engagement ring which is a reminder of his promise. I know this - but for some reason, I always feel like I'm not good enough for him. I'm afraid that I'm not good enough, and that he'll realize it...Is this normal? Does anyone else feel like they are blessed with a wonderful, loving, caring hubby/wife/fiance & fear that one day he will realize that they could do better than you? We've discussed it & he reassures me but I can't shake it...help!

2006-08-30 02:51:51 · 31 answers · asked by coldwind_kate 1

i have a ex-wife of 13 yrs, we have a son that's 17 yrs old, who tell how they kept him away from me as much as they could, but never sent one childsurport check back, now i have not done my part.

2006-08-30 02:37:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-30 02:29:01 · 22 answers · asked by Lothario 1

2006-08-30 02:28:30 · 18 answers · asked by mysticswalk1 1

we married at an early age, 14 and 19. he went away to viet-nam a month later, and his family sent me away. i didn't know how to find him, and i was afraid in ca all alone. he has remarried with kids, and so have i. but i still love him, and i want him back. we didn't quit our relationship someone did it for us. i want a chance with my husband am i wrong, what should i do?

2006-08-30 02:26:19 · 16 answers · asked by shaglemongirl 2

2006-08-30 02:24:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and me, we have had a rocky time of it recently, i been trying hard to make it work, but it all seems so pointless as he makes no effort. Although he constantly telling me he loves me.
We had a row, and to shut me up he slapped me round the face and threw me acros the room.
He doesnot see any thing wrong as this is normal,,, he has never REALY beaten me but this is a regular thing, but i am pregnant now, and for the first time i was realy scared.
He left 2 days ago, but he keeps calling and coming round screaming at me, i no he wants a big row, because he thinks we will make up, i love him so much, but i think, finaly this has to be the end.
But i no i am weak, cant stand the thought of being a 22 yr old single moyther of 2, he says no one else will have me now, i no he wants to come home.
What should i do
am i over reacting?

2006-08-30 02:23:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous