I believe him and there is nothing there to point otherwise, he wants to keep it this way, he says why should he go look out there when he has better at home. We both are honest and have been faithful to each other but sometimes I question if this is possible for a male to do, I mean, not to want to be with another woman in 14 years?
2006-08-30 12:03:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It doesn't make a difference what we think. We don't know him. Unless he has given you a reason to think otherwise, don't start "flaking out" on him and inventing problems where none exist! Maybe you are actually questioning your own fidelity! Look in the mirror!!
2006-08-30 12:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by macfifty06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably hasn't. My husband & I have been together 8 years & I have no doubt in my mind that he has been faithful to me the whole time. How do you feel deep down? If you feel that he hasn't, then he probably hasn't. He's probably telling the truth. Good luck with your 14 years of marriage! Enjoy!
2006-08-30 19:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by beachbum26 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where did you get the idea every man has to "control himself"?
Or that's it's an anomaly for a man to stay faithful for 14 years?
You certainly have a skewed view of men.
2006-08-30 19:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think he is telling the truth. There are some men out there that are wonderful and faithful. I have never been jealous of my husband. My prior boyfriends, I have been so jealous. Be lucky for the wonderful guy you have.
2006-08-30 19:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you answered your own question - he is not cheating. There would be evidence otherwise and you would have a cause to doubt. You don't see signs so don't look any further. Are you feeling guilty about something and dispalcing your gulit? Women are almost as likely to cheat as men these days.
2006-08-30 19:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by wilierthanu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, let me get this straight, your husband has been faithfull and you are complaining about it?
he may have wanted to be with another woman over the years but has controlled the urge to do so, control is what seperates guys from men and sounds like you have a real good man with you.
give him a treat and treat him to a threesome or something
2006-08-30 19:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why you would even question it; yes, it's possible - where I come from, it's a normal thing, married couples are very devoted to each other. It might be different in the US, tho, I don't know. But it's possible! Don't worry about it, and enjoy your marriage!
2006-08-30 19:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If youre current sex life is good and youre communicating with each other that well. I dont think its unusual for you to ask that question since it seems so many men are capable of cheating. Let youre husband know he's still sexy by showing him you are too! ;)
2006-08-30 19:20:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Generally when somebody is cheating on you there will be signs. He doesn't appear to be showing any signs, so I'd say he's telling the truth. Lots of guys don't cheat, your husband seems to be one of them. Consider yourself lucky.
2006-08-30 19:08:11 · answer #9 · answered by CRtwenty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he says he hasn't and you have no reason to suspect otherwise...then what's the problem? I was married for 12 years and never cheated or had the desire to either.
If it's not broken....don't fix it. Enjoy!!
2006-08-30 19:13:01 · answer #10 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋