We are both married 19 year olds. We want to keep our sex life interesting. Any ideas?
2006-08-30 12:28:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-08-30 12:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 19 - the prime of sexual tension give or take a few years depending on your gender, it's hard to believe you would need anything to spice up your sex life but there are ways to keep it fresh and different for couples of all ages.
One of the simplest is don't keep it in the bedroom - most houses have more than one room - use them. Also, when you have some extra money, get a hotel room nearby. It doesn't have to be expensive, just nice and clean and a change of pace.
Try creating romantic settings instead of just grabbing each other and heading off to bed which I know is hard to resist in the heat of the moment.
Call her up from work and set up a romantic dinner out knowing full well what the dessert is going to be when you get home. When you do get home use scented candles - carefully placed where they won't get knocked over during the evening tyrst - to light the room you choose to share for the evening.
Buy some special "naughty" underwear for your wife that reveals her feminine body and ask her to slowly reveal and model it for you. Do the same for her the next time with your own new wardrobe that shows off your masculine build.
If you think it might interest you, visit an adult gift shop TOGETHER and pick out some things you might like to try in private.
Write down different rooms, positions, toys if you prefer, etc., on pieces of paper and put them in a container and take turns picking the scenario for the night.
Build things up with a quiet game of strip poker.
Give each other slow, nude massages when you have time and aren't too tired to make the evening last.
Above all, openly communicate with each other and ask if there's anything you can do for her that she might be apprehensive about asking you for and vice versa. You are married. Nothing you do or suggest to each other should make the other feel embarassed or foolish or silly for asking to try it. If you try something and like it, fine. Add it to your repertoire. If not, forget it and move on, there are plenty of other things to try.
Here's hoping you make that 50th anniversary with the same spark in your love life you have now at 19.
2006-08-30 12:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by Free Advice 4U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your routine!! Actually looking at your age, you don't have a routine.
Check out each others fantasies and go for these.
Everyone is different in that regard (likes different things).
I like my girl to dress up in kinky stuff like wet look red vinyl, or a cute gold colored baby doll. Some like it nude. Try the female dominant position or do it in the opposite sissors position.
Get yourself the Kama Sutra of Vatsyayana, the Indian Love Book
The adult version of the Arabian Nights is pretty good too.
2006-08-30 12:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If yoyu are both just 19 and you sex live needs spiced up already you are in trouble
2006-08-30 12:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by Billy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are bored already?
At this point you should just enjoy being together. The need for "spicing up" will come after kids and many years.
If you are bored already, you've got problems.
2006-08-30 12:32:33 · answer #5 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just do nasty stuff that you've never done b4! EXPERIMENT! I'll list examples for you if you're confused:
Kitchen-forks, knives, whipped-cream, spoons, spatula (spank it good!)
Bathroom- vibrating toothbrushes...
Ice
Foods- too many to list....(Just Turn Her Into A Human Sundae, and eat her!)
Be Creative
2006-08-30 12:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. SB Squarepants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's a good Idea my man reads a book called sex games and it's great because it teaches him more teachings and in making love
2006-08-30 12:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by blue_cole_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try things you haven't yet...take her meet you places....add toys if your comfortable....simple things like showers together or jacuzzi rooms, mutual massages...or just grab her and kiss her out the blue she will feel the passion and you will feed off it.....good luck
2006-08-30 12:35:59 · answer #8 · answered by Rain S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go hire a midget, and buy a long dildo, a case of whipped cream , borrow a donkey and let your imagination go wild!
2006-08-30 12:34:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Design an evening that is all about HER. Ravage, worship, devour, and take in every square inch of her body. If you do that she will be eating out of your hands!!! (Candles, take-out, and music need to be included, of course!)
2006-08-30 12:32:30 · answer #10 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try having sex after a nice date. 2 points!!!
2006-08-30 12:31:56 · answer #11 · answered by iceflace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋