i am not sure if i really did........i was pretty high...i don't want to talk about this with her until after the baby is born...how can i avoid this conversation until then?
2006-08-30 10:43:11 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think any one gets it! LMAO!
2006-09-04 01:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by hebe935 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So you were pretty High !!! People who do things when theare High , are un-believable. How can you have a happy relationship with a pregnant woman and still get High and then throw yourself around with no shame? What is it with you guys, that you have more activity in your private area then you have in your cranial protector? It will be so awful, if you did have an affair with Christina, especially with a pregnant wife/girlfriend. That is one of the worse things a man can do to a pregnant woman. I hope you realize, that what goes around , comes around. I'll bet the guilt is all over your kisser and it would have to be a real studpid woman, who couldn't tell what you've done. Christina might just go and tell your pregnant woman, or someone else will. I suggest to you, that whatever you got High on, don't do it again. Get off the stuff, weather it be alcahol, or drugs. Just re-assure your woman, that you will not get High anymore. Let her know you care a lot for her and the un-born child. Prove to her that you are now and will remain true to her. I just wish it was you , having to bring a baby into the world. You need to realize that a pregnant woman is going through a lot and she don't need a cheating pecker on her hands. If you did have the affair, then you are now guilty of Adultery. You have dirtied your marriage vows. Ask God to forgive you and don't you ever do that again. As far as Christina goes, she knew you were marreid and she deliberately came between you and your wife. Tell her to get lost. Don't associate with her ever again. She is a home wrecker and much more. This conversation with you and your wife, will never end. It will be a memory for both of you, for the rest of your lives. Don't get High NO MORE !!!
2006-08-30 11:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by Norskeyenta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't tell your wife that you had an affair unless you know that you had an affair. If you don't know because you were "high" then that's a whole other set of issues, but you don't want to hurt your wife over something that did not happen. You may need to talk with Christina and just ask her what happened. But, I think you know whether or not you were with Christina. I think you are using the whole "high" thing as an excuse to make it seem like it was not your fault or responsibility. The bottomline is that if you did sleep with someone else then your wife has a right to know so she can leave the relationship and continue her life with someone who would not get high and sleep with another woman.
2006-08-30 11:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by achristian520 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kevin, I've answered several of your questions and they always come back to the same topic. My answers will not stray from my moral beliefs which by the way would benefit you, your marriage and your family tremendously.
You're going to be in the same boat that most of the other stars have been in if you don't stop using drugs and drinking yourself into oblivion. Most of your problems stem from living a life of sin and not using common sense.
It's imperative that you communicate regularly with your wife. Avoiding the subject won't solve a thing, and you've communicated quite clearly what happened (or rather what may not have happened) with Christina. I can't imagine Britney not understanding what you've just told all of us, she's not an idiot. Being honest with Britney will bring comfort, integrity and trust into your relationship, which at this point will certainly help your cause.
Your truly need to take your wedding vows more seriously and respect the need to be completely monogamous, if you have sexual affairs with other women you are playing with fire. Your baby could be born with HIV, or any number of other sexually transmitted diseases and it's not fair to subject your wife and child to these horrible things just because you can't be a responsible husband or father.
Finding a good marriage counselor or pastor may be the one thing that will save your marriage and help you make the transition from an irresponsible to a responsible and loving human being. You need to make these changes Kevin, before your mistakes turn into nightmares that can't be undone.
As always, I wish you and your family the very best.
2006-09-02 10:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by Healthnut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An affair entails more than one meeting, and may or may not have included sexual encounters.
If you got high, and maybe had sex once, that's not an affair.
Your wife has a right to know what you've done.
After the baby? You should probably have planned better then, huh?
I think you need to fess up. Say you're sorry, and if you're gonna go with the I was high excuse, you better get in to some sort of counseling for your habit. If you don't, and you continue to use, this may happen again. If you want to have a snowballs chance, you better make some sacrifices and make sure your wife knows that it won't ever happen again, whatever "it" was, and do something drastic to prove it. Otherwise, kiss her good bye, now, or kiss her good bye later. What's the difference? She already knows something is up.
Good luck
2006-08-30 10:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by niffer's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't avoid a conversation like that when a baby is on the way. It will only cause a lot of negative emotion and tension, as though it's not bad enough. COMMUNICATION is key. And if you aren't sure if you had an affair or not? Oh my goodness, what the hell. Your wife is PREGNANT! Don't get high with other women!!!
2006-08-30 10:57:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up your mind, how you can not know if you did or not cheat on your wife. There is no reason to avoid the conversation, uncertainty will only intensify her just negative feeling and make already messy status more messy. Explain her in detail what happened and appeal for her mercy. Do not forget to tell her that you love her, and go to drug dependency treatment.
2006-09-05 08:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don' t you ask this Christina girl? Not straight out cause then she would think your an a-- and then when your wife kicks you too the curb you won't have anywhere to go. Maybe just call her and see what comes up.
2006-08-30 11:05:46 · answer #8 · answered by loudmouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u want to avoid the conversation? just talk to her and get things worked out! The longer u wait the more she may not be able to forgive you and if u really love her ull be honest with her now instead of waiting til later!
2006-08-30 10:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by JusMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep getting high, then maybe you want have a wife to worry about you sleeping around. Get Some help dude.
2006-08-30 10:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by Good life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so silly. Christina is way too hot for you. Stay with that hausfrau Brittney
2006-08-30 10:56:50 · answer #11 · answered by Flagger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋