2006-08-30 13:20:36 · 25 answers · asked by robert8481 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, but it's about time you find out why she doesn't show interest in you. No excuse is good enough to cheat. You either stay in the relationship to make it work or leave if you're not happy. Cheating is never the answer.
2006-08-30 13:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is never an excuse to cheat on your spouse.
If your wife is showing no interest in you then why not sit her down and have a long conversation with her, ask her what is wrong and communicate and then compromise.
Discuss going to a marriage counselor and trying to save your marriage.
You made vows before God to love, honor, cherish, and forsake all others until death do you part. So if nothing else........your marriage deserves a chance to be fixed, do everything you can possibly do to salvage it and then if you can't, then it is time to discuss a divorce. But having sex while married is a definite no no. And it will only cause more problems and solve nothing.
2006-08-30 13:28:41 · answer #2 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for your situation, but you know that cheating is never the right thing to do. You need to talk to the wife and see how you are going to work together to bring sex back into the marriage. It is not normal for a man and woman to live that way for 12 years. If she is not willing to actually be your wife (in every sense of the word) then you need to just give up and split up. You are too young to live the rest of your life with no sex.
2006-08-30 13:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, of course not. There has to be a reason why "your wife shows no interest in you." You two need to open the lines of communication and talk about this and tell her what you wrote here. Better yet---show her. Don't use her lack of interest as a handy excuse to cheat on her.
2006-08-30 13:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO cheating isn't the answer. Why stay in a relationship that neither one cares about. You both should find someone that makes you happy and are interested in.
2006-08-30 13:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by chemicalCourtney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is never areason to cheat on anybody,unless u wanna hurt and lose this person u love,or dont!its pathetic to cheat!! but go to ur wife and talk to her how u feel,thats still the best way to get things right!!
2006-08-30 21:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by starlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, cheating is never good, if your wife shows no interest towards you then why would you even keep her as a wife? for a status symbol or something?
get rid of her and start fresh and new
2006-08-30 13:30:17 · answer #7 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes you have no choice. Think divorce is an easy out? its not cheap. and maybe you still love her even if she won't put out. Some women are just cold i think. Still if she cared she should try. You'll get caught and the you'll see if she cares. Hey! heres a novel idea. Ask her what the hell is going on?
2006-08-30 14:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by La-z Ike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not alright to cheat for any reason. You just need to have a talk about your issues. Start working on it immediately. Thingas will get better.
2006-08-30 13:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by delorisjp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. It's never ok to cheat... You should communicate your feelings to your wife.
2006-08-30 13:26:49 · answer #10 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋