2006-08-30 13:03:35 · 23 answers · asked by robert8481 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It depends. First ask yourself, is there some emotional(mental) or physical problems in your relationship?
If it's emotional, have her(and you too if need be) see a pscychologist. After all, sex is 90 % mental.
Has she been depressed lately? Depression can lead to loss of sexual drive, also a mental disorder.
Take her to see her doctor. If it's something physical, there are lots of things they can do now days.
If there are no problems in your relationship, and it's not mental or physical, you may just want to sit and talk with her.
Find out whats going on and express your concern before you assume she is cheating.
2006-08-30 13:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by princessforever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude 12 years and not even a kiss. I think i would have been asking this 11 years and 11 months ago.
Your answer is simple she don't like you and has not liked you for the past 12 big whole years.
May be time to start thinking about moving on!!
2006-08-30 13:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good question. How could either one of you live that way? I went 6 years without any attention and finally divorced him. I thought that was bad!
Do you still love each other? Or, is it just too comfortable that neither one of you wants to be the first to say "enough of this" and leave? Did this happen at once or over a long period of time?
You should both go to see a doctor to see if there are any physical reasons for this behavior. She could just need some low-level hormones to increase her desire.
2006-08-30 13:16:01 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the fire has burned out but serious why haven't you and your wife been to a marriage councler after the 1st yr of marriage cause something is differently wrong there how much do you and her communicate if any get help and now unless you want a divorce good luck
2006-08-30 13:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's actual that the alternative of affection isn't hate...that's indifference. lengthy before you began ingesting and smoking weed, you ought to have sought counseling. it ought to or received't have helped your marriage; notwithstanding, it ought to were extremely well worth the attempt. because that's, you're allowing your sons to be raised wondering that that's ideal to drown one's sorrows in alcohol and medicines. The alcohol and medicines have not gotten you by the most suitable 13 years, your spouse has, once you concentration on that she is the only attempting to provide a classic existence for your sons. once you've ultimately admitted that you've used alcohol and medicines as a crutch, that's time to positioned forth the attempt to assist your self. You aspect out your emotional discomfort and your spouse's ignore and shortage of worrying. What do you imagine she has lived with for the period of those years? She is a a lot more advantageous and larger tolerant man or woman than i ought to were. Take the first step and confess for your spouse, then make a decision to Alcoholics nameless and attend the conferences. you'll thank your self and your household will thanks. human beings in simple terms do to you what you enable them to. once you're lower back on your toes emotionally, ask your spouse to seek marriage counseling with you. Your marriage is in basic terms not what you want it to be devoid of attempting.
2016-11-23 15:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what you mean. Do you mean 12 years or 12 months she is not doing those things for? I can assure that if it twelve years then you do not have a marriage. My god man if you are going for twelve years without a kiss or sex you need help.Run from this fiasco.
2006-08-30 13:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you had to have something else to keep you there. As someone else stated it is a roommate situation. Sometimes we have other things that attract us to one another. That something else kept you there. If that factor is no longer enough and now you've awaken finding yourself sexless x 12. Do what will make you both happy. Are there children involved???
2006-08-30 13:38:02 · answer #7 · answered by Egypt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a serious communication break down...
She no longer feels close to you...
She is seeing and being with somebody else...
Do you pay attention to her?
Women need more than kisses and sex to be attracted to somebody. They also need respect, romance, feeling loved and important... Think of when you first started dating and how hard you tried.
2006-08-30 13:15:12 · answer #8 · answered by Mojo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What???!!!!! You have put up with a loveless marriage since 1994? You poor soul. Get a bag packed, and get out, now. Get your head straight, get divorced, and then take your time to find true affection. You deserve happiness, don't you?
Don't brook any argument from her. She's had twelve years to show affection, and it's not coming.
2006-08-30 13:09:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe it has gone on for the 12 years you mention. Who have the two of you been sleeping with for all that time? Whoever it is, maybe you should be shacking up with them, not each other.
I could go on... but won't.
2006-08-30 13:11:18 · answer #10 · answered by Frosty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋