Marriage & Divorce - 5 August 2006

My husband and I had the worst argument today.Were never ones to argue but I guess it was a balloon tha finally bursted.Weve been together 2 years and have a 4 month old daughter but just 3 weeks ago we officially got married.Hes never been really affectionate and I am and I confronted him about it today and just exploaded.Ive never been so hurt in my life.He go so deffensive and down right nasty like I was demented and that I always look for arguments which is not true and that he was tired and that it was over, what hurt me the most and had he nerve to say is that I can go but the baby stays.Like I would leave anywhere without my daughter.I know people say things they dont mean out of anger but did he cross the line?Obviously he meant it because he dosent want to make up and hes giving me the silent treatment.All this because I confront him for the first time about something and i did it in a nice way,all i wanted was some affection.Now i dont know what to do?I have no family here

2006-08-05 16:02:36 · 16 answers · asked by First L 1

He seems to not be interested in sex anymore and he is only 24.
Is there anything I can do.

2006-08-05 15:55:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, he is only gone for 3 weeks this time, but he is deploying next month for 16 to 20 months! I think it is really hitting me now because i am just going crazy. I miss him so much already and all i can think about is how i'm going to have to live on my own for 16 months and worry if he is okay. I need some ideas to make the time go by faster. Please help if you have any suggestions?

2006-08-05 15:49:31 · 12 answers · asked by frvriprms 1

My husband cheated on me over 6 mos. ago. I forgave him.He complained that I wasn't sexually adventureous enough. So I did as he asked. I never felt comfortable with his need for kinky sex (I even asked yahoo answers for guidance.) But it wasn't enough for him. He wanted more and left.

Afterwards, I started drinking. Anything to make the hurt and shame go away. Eventually my drinking found me in the arms of a girl. She slowly seduced me and I took the bait. and before the night was over her brother crawled into bed with us. I wish I could say I ran away from the foul situation but I didn't. The next day I laid with them again and again. I know this is a sin but the pull of it is so great.

I can't stop myself from seeking them out at nights. and they are willing to take me. but what we are doing is wrong and yet I love it. what should I do? its wrong but I'm happy.

2006-08-05 15:46:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is that wrong? As long as she's being satisfied (she has no complaints) is taking care of the extra a problem be it the husband or the wife? Sometimes I'll do one and two with her and when it gets really late and she's tired I'll sneak in a third on my own.

2006-08-05 15:37:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, I've been having troubles at home with my wife. We've been together for what i thought was a great 7 years, she's been a stay at home mom untill recently, where she took a graveyard job.Where alot of the guys she works with are starting heavy flirting with her. there wasn't a problem untill she told me she wants to go with these guys and hang out after work, I'm ok with that too. Untill she tells me that she's attraced to one or two of these guys. And it was like she was rubbing it in my face, that she has a eye for them. So i'm starting to get jeuolous and ofcourse the fights start..then after one day we had a blow up fight, we calm down, and she tells she wants to start having sex with other people, but she loves me very much. She says it's ok for me to have sex with who ever i want as well, i told her theres no way that I'm ok with being a swinger couple. we fight about that, and she says "Ok, I wont have sex with them"..But now she acting very wierd..Should I be freaking out???

2006-08-05 15:33:53 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-05 15:29:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can you give me some tips on how can i make him love me more?

2006-08-05 15:25:15 · 22 answers · asked by yo yo yo 1

They know I don't like it but they say it's not my business. He was a jerk to me (abusive) when we were married (hence the divorce) but he was always nice to them and they didn't know how he acted toward me until we split up. Now they know how he acted then and I'm remarried but they still stay in touch with him? What do you think? It really hurts that they don't respect my feelings and I don't want him to know anything about my life.

2006-08-05 15:13:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-05 15:09:21 · 4 answers · asked by i_am_me_so_let_me_be_2006 1

do you find that your spouse denies that a good sex life is an important part of life... especially married life?

2006-08-05 15:07:14 · 15 answers · asked by JRSK007 3

we are talking about a lady who thinks up stories that she somehow portrays to everyone in such a convincing manner they actually buy into everything she is selling! Extreme crazy abuse allegations, claiming her mom is dying in another state so she can move with the children yet she was living with her mom locally. Claiming owed child support yet the clerks office has record she is wrong. Convincing a four year old that he and his older sister are beaten here and he should remember what she tells him. Tied to the bed with tape and chains, burned, pushed down stairs, scratched and hit for bad behavior. I would think that I would remember such events if they were to happen to me. Never the less she tends to always win in court. She never has to face her lies. She is like an energizer battery.....she keeps going and going. Does anyone have a suggestion to help burn her out of her batteries?! Geesh!@#$

2006-08-05 15:05:05 · 10 answers · asked by addie 1

Hello, me and my husband have been married for three years and have 2 children together we are still in our mid twenties. My husband is an alcoholic however is very adamant that he is not one. I have tried my best to be the wife he one knew because I do love him, but he tells me he does not want to save the marriage because I will never change and that I never was the person he loved in the beginning. Or he will say that he loves me but not in love with me. My husband confuses me so much he acts like he wants to be with me one mintue and then the next he acts like he does not love me or we act like we are married one moment and then the other moment he acts like he is going to submit divorce papers any minute, and he has had a lawyer since 12/05 to help him with his domestic court hearings but I have not got served any papers for divorce as of yet, he keeps telling me that he does not have the money or that he is to busy to get a divorce lawyer, which they are also.

2006-08-05 15:04:35 · 16 answers · asked by Rebekah B 1

i like to eat my dinner between 5:30 and 7 p.m. he likes to eat from 7 to 10 p.m. i ate tonight by myself cause i am tired of eating 2 hours after i say i am cooking something would you like to join me & he said in just a couple minutes that turns into 1-2 hours quite often. so i got a lecture on that when i eat i should announce i am eating so we can eat together. i have done this a wait 1-2 hours and then i get fat and sick from eating too late. he says i am at fault for not saying anything. i am just feeding myself because i need to eat and am tired of waiting for him. kids said their mom would just go ahead and fix dinner at normal hours and eat. he can eat leftovers. what can be done to resolve this?

2006-08-05 14:58:25 · 6 answers · asked by MotherNature 4

cause he wouldn't pick his drinking and friends over me. A girl stripping in the house while I was asleep. Another time he called a girl over while I was asleep. Texting a girl 9 times in one day.

2006-08-05 14:48:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there anything to make him listen to me?? I am black and white and quite frank with my feelings. I feel like I am screaming at a brick wall! What else can I do??

2006-08-05 14:44:25 · 16 answers · asked by mizz_cassie_cass 2

My girlfriend and i used to live together and things used to be perfect, Now things are not so great. We fight all the time. I asked her if she found someone else. She said no, and i no that she would never lie!!! Im not happy and she isn't either. We are on and off all the time. I really love her and know that she loves me. What should i do? We are both tired of fighting everyday and i dont want to lose her. Please help me. I dont know what i would do without her!!!

2006-08-05 14:27:43 · 22 answers · asked by Marcus M 1

Giggles is my husband's lover, she is a single parent with a tour duty coming up that will last one year and a half. Found letters detailing that he would wait for her. Yet he told me he does not love her, which he lied since i found an email where he is willing to wait for her. He cannot tell me that he loves me, but wants me to have him here..

2006-08-05 14:24:18 · 9 answers · asked by nogiggles 1

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2006-08-05 14:19:18 · 8 answers · asked by sugar_2000_me 1

ok, my parents got divorced when i was 4 months old, and i think it's really ****** me up, i don't even know who i am. i never got over it. the day i figured it out was qiute a sad day indeed. I want to know what happened, but NOONE will tell me. i just want to know why. and, i have an insane hope i can repair my parents relationship enough so they can both go to my high schol graduation, wedding (if i can find someone), etc...

once, in a 6th grade debate on which kind of parent was better(mom or dad), i had to leave the room, because i couldn't take it, it was something i didn't ever want to face. that really got to me. i learned soonafter that my grandfather and greatgrandfather also got divorced. i just want to not **** it up like that.

am i taking it 2 seriously?

do i have a right to know?

can i break the cycle?

2006-08-05 14:13:09 · 32 answers · asked by God 4

I know time heals all, and I am also praying about it and walking 3.5 miles a day for stress/exercise, but how do I get past this? And FYI, It is not love feelings I have - it is hate.

2006-08-05 14:05:15 · 14 answers · asked by DianneSB 1

children. I know both these families but are good friends with the lady having the affair. How do I react when she tells me ( at the moment I have found out from someone else). I do not agree with what she is doing and feel she has made a big mistake. Do I tell her I dont agree. I feel that I can not continue our friendship anymore. What should I do?

2006-08-05 14:00:58 · 17 answers · asked by frank 1

Does anyone get divorced just for the simple reason that their spouse's attitude, in a nuttshell, is usually negative (generally complains about everything under the sun) and he has no motivation to better himself or make a better life for his wife? I feel like I need some huge drama to divorce, but I just want to be happier. Is that selfish?

2006-08-05 13:58:05 · 21 answers · asked by animal_mother 4

She has a cheating problem and can not stay loyal. He goes aroung trying to see who she is having sex with and hitting on her friends. I need to know what i should do. I have been put in her drama when I was only a friend. I angered her husband because I didnt want to go out with him because he isnt my flavor. I have been put out like I am the one who started it. When it all started I was his wifes friend and she told him to talk to me one night. Then he started asking questions I could not answer.

2006-08-05 13:54:13 · 6 answers · asked by mafiaqueen1900 3

Mine is in the military and he has to be gone for 2 weeks for trainning. I know 2 weeks really isn't something to complain about. Some women are missing there husbands for 2 years! And we have been apart longer then 2 weeks, (the most 6 months) its just this week is hitting me a little harder then before. I'm just wondering if anyone is feeling the same.

2006-08-05 13:51:28 · 7 answers · asked by armywifebrat 1

She has a cheating problem and can not stay loyal. He goes aroung trying to see who she is having sex with and hitting on her friends. I need to know what i should do. I have been put in her drama when I was only a friend. I angered her husband because I didnt want to go out with him because he isnt my flavor. I haave been put out like I am the one who started it. When it all started I was his wifes friend and she told him to talk to me one night. Then he started asking questions I could not answer.

2006-08-05 13:50:47 · 5 answers · asked by mafiaqueen1900 3

2006-08-05 13:42:29 · 16 answers · asked by kenny4real 1

2006-08-05 13:41:27 · 4 answers · asked by Dennis C 2

dont like to take her out ne more she would never be nothing shes a bum and she said he started talking about there sex life (oral) she came to me in tears i felt so bad for her she had a surgery a few days ago and it seems like all he wants to do is fight with her i told her to leave him alone just go back to where shes from and 4get about him i'm the only friend she has since moving here almost 2 years ago she's really nice and i think he takes advantage of her he dont like her to hang out with any1 when he leaves her home alone on weekends so he could party with his friends i have run out of advice for her and i feel bad she asks me why cant she just leave him i tell her she will leave when the time is right for her i think her bf needs help does any1 think he has some issues or just cheating?

2006-08-05 13:38:16 · 6 answers · asked by dominicana 2

I respect her wishes, and have been faithful our entire marriage, but those are my FAVORITE things. I don't want to live the rest of my life without it. How can I resolve this without being unfaithful?

2006-08-05 13:19:48 · 16 answers · asked by B J 2